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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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Ok I have this guy friend and all my friends say he likes me and I like him to but I want to know if he does because we all think he likes my other friend to.How can I find out???

see if he flirts with you alot. and see if you can catch a glimps of him..if he is checking you out and he flirts with you and he drops hints then well..there you go!

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okay so im not ready to lose my virginity yet

but ive been with my boyfriend for a long time

what are some fun sexual things we can do that arent actual sex?

wrestel and make out at the same time

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Age: 13

Gender: Female

There is this guy and i like him a lot but he only likes me as a friend. He knows that I like him and he's fine with it and we still talk. What should I do ask him out or just wait and see what comes next??

i say to just give it alittle time but then go for it. give yourself time to flirt with him more then go for it hun.

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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?

you need to have a firm conversation with her. tell her that you love her as a friend and all but she really needs to stop hitting you. but if she doesnt stop after that then just ignore her for awhile...give her the cold sholder. if she wants to know y your not talking to her then just tell her that she wont stop and then go back to not talking. if she says she sorry then start talking to her again. i know it sounds kinda mean but you kinda have no choice. i hope i helped and feel free to drop somthin in the inbox!

♥ leah

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i need everything to no about making out like how to do it?

ok im going to try to explain this the best that i can so forgive me if i dont get it right.ok, first off you want your first time making out to be special so dont blow it on just another guy. bc you'll regreat doing that in the future. secondly kinda tilt your head to the side bc you dont want you nose to get in the way of anything lol. ok and thirdly just have fun with it. i mean, if you really like this person then it should just come natrualy right? i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else you want.

♥ leah

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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)

hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st

i rate 5's no doubt about it

get him some clone or a cd of his favorite band. or take him somewhere nice and play the roll of the guys by buying dinner lol. hope it makes laughs.

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does the mary kay hand lotion smell good?

in my opinon it does

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Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?

HECK YES IT IS! but not if you dont want one. you will get one soon enough.

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ok well i am known but i want like guys to look to (lol) and like i am not sayin im ugly i just want a way to get to a guy cuz i want a guy who is gonna want me not like the last guy i had he didn't even care!!!!! and i also wanna be like everyone knows and i was ike that last year but itz a whole new year with whole new ppl ne tips/advice?

signed
just wanting little help

ok, well, you should try to be really friendly to everyone. talk to people that you would never think of talking to before. and be outgoing. talk to people and live life like you were dying. thats the moto to live by!

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ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!!

listen to me sista! your really gonna regreat breaking up with him if you do. answer this...do you really want to break up with him or are you just thinking you should bc your friends tell you to? well i really dont think you should. you love him and NOTHING should stand in your way of being together. go with the flow and only break up with him if YOU want to..not bc your friends tell you to. well, i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

♥ leah ♥

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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?

um...put on a bathing suite and go outside...there is no other way to do it if you dont have tanning lotian or if you dont go to a tanning booth. so sory.

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OK....i want to do gymnastics and im not very flexible. I am but not as flexibale as other ppl....anyway do you hav to be flexible to do gymnastics? And is it hard to learn to do gymnastics?? Plz help i rate high!

i used to do tumbling which is just like gymnastics but without the bars and stuff so i should be good at answering this question and any other question you have. ok well, you do have to be flexible to tell you the truth. but you can still go for it if your not. bc they teach you easy tricks to help you get more flexible. its not hard at all. i hope i helped.

: ) leah

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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)

OK, IM HERE TO HELP SO TAKE A CHILL PILL!lol. ok now, 1stly the easy way to make friends is to be nice, outgoing, and to not be rude. just go up to someone and say hi! my name is ___ i think your in my ______ class. or something like that. 3ndly everyone will be nervous abou finding classes. it always seems to be scaryer then it really is. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

♥ leah ♥

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My boyfriend fingered me(for the first time) the day after my period ended. Afterwards, I noticed I'd bled. Was that just the end of my period, or could it be that my hymen broke ?

it could be that it broke or it could be that your just bleeding alittle bit after your period. its nothing to worry about...really.

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how can u be a better runner without going out and running..like leg excersizes that i could do at my house. and im running in a road race on thursday thats 3 miles long and i jsut wanna know what i should eat all of thursday before the race that wont give me craps.. i heard spaghetti and bananas were good! please help!

try the wall sit! you sit against the wall as if you were on a chair. or you could do leg lifts which mean you lay down and lift your legs like...i would say 3 inches then slowly putting them back down again. hope i helped!

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i mean. what if your stomach is fat! but the rest is skinny i mean my stomach is not super fat but yeah ok im 13 and 5,5 is 130 the avrage weight?! yeah and what do guys look for. im so sick of every guy talking to me trying to get me in there car. i dont kno ok ill stop that was kinda random i rate high!

o ya that is a good weight. if your not sure then go to www.am-i-fat.com and then type in your height and weight and age. then it will tell you if that is a normal weight. if you want to know what guys look for in a girl then ask one of your guy cousins or guy friends.

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my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this?

im not sure why boys do the things they do but all i can say is you should ask him yourself. i mean my ex boyfriend used to do that and i was so confused untill i asked him and he told me he didnt even relize he was doing it. so ask him. good luck.

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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks!

just tell your friend to take a deep breath before he goes to try something related to that. also tell him that he should be living life, not watching it fly by. life is short so go for it!

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Ok I'm a sophomore and I've never been to a dance before..why? I'm embaressed and scared to dance...I don't know how! I have no butt so what's there to shake..(aha seriously!) When I move my sides, I look retarded...I don't know what to do with my hands, head, etc..very embaressing..I look so stupid..can someone teach me how to dance naturally without looking like I'm trying to hump something..ahh..thanks!

you dont have to go crazy when you dance, it could just be nice and steady. just kind of sway back and forth snaping your fingers and kind of roll your belly. just try to make it look like you know how to dance. good luck in the future

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ok so theres this guy and i really like him and he really likes me. but were not going out. its a long story. anyways he asked me if i have ever kissed anyone and i said no and he was like well maybe i can change that next time we go to the movies. i was like um..ok. but now i dont no wat to do. because we might go to the movies on sunday. and like i dont no if i really want to kiss him. part of me does and part of me doesn't. if i don't how do i tell him? please help me i will rate high! thanks in advance!

just rember that you dont have to do anything you dont want to do! you should want your first kiss to be special, not with someone you dont want to kiss. but if you like him then go for it bc it could just be that your nervous. it happens to alot of people. i think you should go for it. it could surprize you. good luck and feel free to ask me anything else!

cookierat123

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