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My gf work at hospital and they have partner male and female. Anyway should I worry about some other guy giving her a ride? Does that make me insecure? I trust her and all I just worry some other guy might try to hit on her.anyway she the only girl I ever love my entire life so its my weakness becuz I'm in so deep I get scare of losing her so I act out
Either in anger or act like I don't care. (link)
If she has been faithful to you and feels as in love as with you as you seem to be with her, than you have nothing to worry about. But, you're having these doubts because you love her so much and you don't want your heart broken, but let her persue her dreams, I'm positive that she won't betray you, and I'm sure that if a guy hits on her, she'll just brush it off, because she loves you and only you. Don't worry, take a few deep breaths, and relax. And all guys act out with anger or have that "i dont care attitude" because you are vulnerable, you love her, it's normal.
It's okay to feel insecure, but don't think about it so much, she loves you.


Hey, theres a project i have to do for school and im doing a movie, is there anything other than Windows Movie Maker that i can download? im taking the video on my camera then making a movie with it, so any programs? thanks:) (link)
I use Adobe Premiere Pro 2.0 and it works like a charm :] you can also make your production into a dvd by using this, its easy and funn.

Good luckk


Hi, i dont want to be judged, but i love role-playing with my boyfriend
I was just wondering if any of you had any good ideas for ones i could do.
it always seems i do the same ones over and over

so if you have any fun ones you have done, or have wanted to do....if you could tell me, that would be great (link)
I love roleplaying too! My boyfriend and I really like to pretend that he is a soldier that got injured in Iraq (he really is a marine, lol) and I am the nures that "takes care of him" Good luck! ;)


What is that feeling called when you see the person you like and you get that feeling like rushes of energy shooting through your chest? my friend was curious and now I am too (link)
It's probably known as cooties! lol Just kidding, it's called butterflies!


13/f

Well, I'm one of those stupid nerdy kids who are obsessed with Japan and anime stuff, so call me anything you like, but I am stuck. Just this year is when my interest began. Well, my best friend hates me now that I like this stuff. She sent me angry emails telling me I am foolish and have no idea what I am speaking of... She hates that I am interested in anime, Japan, making more friends, like perverted things, lemons and other things as such. I don't understand. Why would she be angry at me for this? Well, I asked her and she told me I used to be happy, which I couldn't help but laugh at. Yes, I did get passing grades in 6th grade, but I was depressed. VERY. I tried to shove everyone out of my life. She must think this is happiness because that is what she said. Well, now. I'm actually happy! I run around shouting like a stupid nerd. I act like I'm 7-years-old. I am happy, but she hates this. Why does she hate that I am happy? I tried to ask her, but she shoves me away by deleting my emails and telling me to shut up and ignoring me. Why does she hate me because I am different? It makes me a little angry that she hates my interests. She wants me to be like her. She wants me to be depressed. And, if she happens to be reading this. I want to tell her I'm sorry I'm not her... Please help somebody. Give me advice, but please do not make me change myself. I like being happy...! Thank you. (link)
You find out who your true friends are through personal growth. If your friends don't understand you or refuse to accept you, they aren't worth the time. I know it is hard to lose a friend over this, but is she really worth changing who you are? Don't sweat it, you will find new friends who share the same interests and love you for who you are. Good luck! ;)


People say that I'm a little "slow on the uptake", and I was wondering, is that a bad thing, or is it not that big of a deal? (link)
No way! It is a-okay to be a little slow on the uptake because everyone is at some point. Don't let the people get you down! ;)


I have been underweight for awhile now. I used to do strict dieting and could be considered anorexic, but I haven't been hungry in awhile. I eat every 3 hours [breakfast, lunch, and dinner with snacks inbetween] and I eat whenever I do feel hungry. The problem is I haven't been gaining weight like I should be. I do not like eating fatty foods. That seems to be my main problem. Is there any way I can gain weight without having to eat foods high in fat? I get enough calories in a day, but I have a fast metabolism. I probably take in about 1500-1600 calories without exercising. Should I increase that even more? Is there something I'm doing wrong? Any ideas/opinions?? Thanks!! (link)
well, you could always eat more portions of the regular things that you eat, but if you get a craving for something like chocolate, go for it and have some! :-] also, you should try eating something (like chocolate) even if you dont feel like it, you may not think you are in the mood for it, and then end up having your belly thank you for the treat! Your body can also be not hungry because of your old dieting habbits, and is not used to eating or having a full stomach. Just take it slow, start out with a certain portion size, and then say each week add a little more to the portion you intake. but you have to be consistent, and really push yourself. in no time you will be gaining a little wait and reach your goal!
GoOd LuCk!!!
reach beyond the stars and the moon to reach your goal!


In my school we have a new exchange boy from Finland. I don't know very much about him, and he will be leaving at the end of the school year in a few months. I have never talked to him before and he is in the grade above me. He speaks English, but I've never really spoken to him before. Some of my friends are acquanted with him though. I've heard he's very kind and I when I've seem him in the hallway he appears sweet. I don't want to waste this opportunity not speaking to this nice boy before he leaves for Finland. Even so, I have never spoken to him before so I don't know how to approach him. Any ideas? (link)
well, considering your question topic is: talking to a crush, im guessing you like him a little more than friends


15/f

this one teacher i have is incredibly mean to me. hes always picking on me, ever since he found out that i was considering dropping his class. so i stayed in it, because it was hard to get out of. anyways, he really pushed me over the edge today. and made me to the point, where i almsot cried. i never cry. espically in school. anyways, we were suppose to get out of classes by last monday. but, this is an elective. so, do you think i'll beable to get out of it? i just want to put a study hall in its place. i hate him. if i stay in it, i'm gonna skip it. i refuse to walk into his class,and keep getting insulted. do you think the guidance conselor will let me out? (link)
First of all, i think that you should talk to your teacher after class in private, or with a friend. It sounds wierd, but my friends did it once. The same exact thing happend. Just say: Mr/mrs. i just wanted to say, like some of the things you say to me in class really insult me, so can you please not say those things anymore.
Or you should really have your parent/guardian call up, nobody should ever treat you that way, especially a grown adult-a teacher in that respect. I would go to guidance on him too if you wanted. But over all i would say most definetly they would let you switch out...especially if you explain to them the situation you are in currently. But just make sure you earn at least half the credits for staying in the class and having to put up with that jerk for half the year.
GoOd LuCk!!!
dont let it get to you...hes an idiot

:-]


I'm about 5' 8" and only in the eighth grade! I know being tall should be a good thing and all that crap, but i just need something to raise my self esteem. Being the tallest in the grade (even above the guys) is never comforting. is there anything you can say to cheer me up? :( (link)

http://www.taibros.net/archives/2005/07/22/its-better-to-be-tall

this website just has tons of reasons why tall is SOOOO much better than being short! :-]
but i have one too: i am mediumish-tall (if that makes any sence whatsoever haha) anyway, if you are a sports girl, VOLLEYBALL IS THE SPORT FOR YOU!!!! you will be amazing at it...and boys love girls that play sports
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[13 year old FM.]


One time, my friend *Jackie and i went to a party together. When i got there, this boy had his arm around her.Aperantly, they were going out. I didn't know that. So when my dad picked me up, i asked her [when my dad wasnt there] when she and that boy started going out. She said a couple of days ago.
It turns out that my other friends knew it as well, before i did. When it happened to be exact. I dont know why she didn't tell me, do you think she doesnt want to be my friend anymore?

*i didn't use acually names.
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well, i dont know if i would consider her as not wanting you two to be friends anymore, but that is a big set back. My advice to you would be to give what you get, dont completely ignore her and become enemies, but dont kiss her feet to try to get back up there in her high social status list. i would tell her the beef on whats up with you when you have juicy moments, but dont make it an inconvenience to put her on the top of YOUR list for juicy gossip. what comes around goes around.
GoOd LuCk!!!


okay so my boyfriend ended up breaking up with me after everything because he said that he loved one of my best friends at school and that he has ever since the beginning of last year and so basically he dated me three times while being "in love" with her and playing me thinking that he loved me. but nope i got played. and well i dont know what to do. i am fine in a way because well he has his own feelings and i understand... but well me and him are friends and me and my friend is.. but the feeling is still there (link)
girl, if i were you i would have:
a. slapped him accross the face
b. said wow, thats a coincidence because i like your best friend too...
so i give you MAJOR props for sticking it out and staying calm. You need to think, any guy that has the disrespect to do that to a girl, has not been brought up properly and so DOES NOT DESERVE YOU. no offense or anything, because i know you had menchoned how you two are still friends :-]
but just try not to think about it, and just hang with your friends alot (it helps ALOT)
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
if you need to chat, ill be here!


i was wondering, are rain boots in style, or going to be in style? thanks (: (link)
i would say rain boots are not in style right now...to wear lets say to school. I mean, where i live its not...i dont exactaly know where you live. But there are some really cute coach rain boots that i would definetly say are in style...so i guess it just all depends on what is cute or not. honestly, im personally one for setting trends, with items that i think are cute. if you like them...then go for it! :-] you are wearing them, nobody else, so you have to like them.
GoOd LuCk!!!


Im 16 and have had my license for a month ... i was just on the highway in the pouring rain and couldnt see a thing, i had to slam on my brakes and i may have hit the car in front of me, i dont even know! i jerked forward but i cannot remember if i hit him or not! he didnt stop or signal to me or anything, but what happens if he took down my license plate number? am i gonna be in big trouble? and i looked at the front of my car, but i just got into another minor accident lastnight (wasnt my fault, so please dont judge) so the scratches could just be from the one lastnight. im freaking out i dont wanna get in trouble with the cops or anything ... whats gonna happen?!?!?
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well, chances are if you couldnt see anything, than neither did he...and most likely he would have flagged you down, or done something. and the police would have come to you by now. i wouldnt worry about it too much, i really dont think anything is going to happen. You would know if you hit him, by the impact and sound and other aspects. if for some unfortunet miracle (1 out of a million chance) a cop does come to you, stay calm, get your story (the real story) in your head, and just tell the truth. Trust me, the truth will be MUCH better than a lie...they can TELL if you are LYING. seriously, dont loose sleep over it. In a few days, if nothing happens, you know you are safe.
GoOd LuCk!!!
dont worry!!! :-]



I have 2 ferret's; a boy & a girl. They both hack alot, and cough. I've bought some stuff to help it but it doesn't seem to work. Can this get serious, and if so what will cure it? (link)
try to give it softer, easier to chew food...it could be the problem. Also, make sure they always have fresh water, their throats could be dry because of old, or lack of water. you can also ask the people at pet goods or where ever you go for your pets, and ask them what they suggest. if it continues, i would suggest you see or call up a vetenarian.
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps

http://www.cypresskeep.com/Ferretfiles/Hairballs.htm


this site should help you out! I looked at it and it seemed to explain what your ferret is going through :-]


Anyone know where I can get these boots:

http://i28.tinypic.com/sfiaz4.jpg


or similar ones?

I've been looking EVERYWHERE. (link)
well, i dont know if i found the same boots, or look alikes...they are definetly similar haha:

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.global-b2b-network.com/direct/dbimage/50331536/Indoor_Boots.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.global-b2b-network.com/b2b/69/74/254/251634/sell_indoor_boots.html&h=360&w=360&sz=19&hl=en&start=91&tbnid=0kxRVUtAmlxTBM:&tbnh=121&tbnw=121&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dboots%26start%3D90%26gbv%3D2%26ndsp%3D18%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN



some more links:


http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.shoebuy.com/pi/minne/minne139404_75686_lg.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.20000shoes.com/buy-shoes.php/n%3DMinnetonka%2BGenuine%2BSheepskin%2BCuff%2BBoot%2B(Women%27s)%2B-%2BLavender%2BSheepskin/v%3DShoebuy.com&h=235&w=235&sz=10&hl=en&start=28&tbnid=IK3FE4gVhIboLM:&tbnh=109&tbnw=109&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dindoor%2Bblue%2Bboots%26start%3D18%26gbv%3D2%26ndsp%3D18%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN



http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.germes-online.com/direct/dbimage/50244246/Authentic_Ugg_Boots.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.germes-online.com/catalog/69/74/260/329276/sell_authentic_ugg_boots.html&h=360&w=360&sz=20&hl=en&start=9&tbnid=CTUgJNyPXCSouM:&tbnh=121&tbnw=121&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dugg%2Bboots%26gbv%3D2%26hl%3Den


http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.theweeboutique.com/boutique/images/59.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.theweeboutique.com/boutique/catalog.php%3Fcategory%3D5&h=177&w=230&sz=27&hl=en&start=56&tbnid=rclNuK3vHJZQCM:&tbnh=83&tbnw=108&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dblue%2Bboot%26start%3D54%26gbv%3D2%26ndsp%3D18%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN



wow i hope this helps you...i looked forever, and this is all i came up with.
GoOd LuCk!!!
hOpE i HeLpEd!!!


I have the old version on the sync..The cingular one..I don't get to receive multimedia messages, therefore I can't download ringtones sent to or from my phone..So if I go to the cingular website, can I buy one? Will it send it in a message? What about a ringback? Will it work? (link)
well, im pretty sure it should work, they are doing it for you, the company. (i have cingular too) but um i would just call them up real quick and ask them...it takes 3 seconds to get an answer. You can also buy an upgrade for your phone, my friend has cingular too and they did that. As for costs, I am not sure, but i dont think it will be too expensive. You can also record music on your phone and save it as a ring tone...you would send it to yourself.



I asked a question a little while ago about how my roommate always had her boyfriend over and how she deliberately invaded my privacy.

Well the good news is that I moved out. BUT my old roommate is still being extremely immature. She keeps harassing me because she claims that I unplugged her fridge when I moved out and she expects me to replace the food that spoiled. I know for a fact that the fridge was still plugged in when I left AND the outlets in which the fridge was plugged into were in really bad condition to begin with.

Anyway, I know I'm not guilty of messing with her fridge. The point is I'm sick of her bothering me about it. I have a feeling this has nothing to do with her spoiled food: it's because she's still pissed at me over all the stuff that happened before I moved out.

I've made a point not to walk anywhere by myself to avoid this huge confrontation with her, but I know that this needs to end, I just don't know how. Suggestions? (link)
well theres a number of things you can do, but my advice is to be straight forward with her. tell her that you are sorry about her refrigerator, and the food, but it was not your fault. Tell her that you dont want to be enemies, but it is clear that you guys will never be the best of friends. You should make it clear that you are not going to replace her food. and that you want to get this all taken care of. if she refuses, thats not your fault at all...tell her : fine, i tried to work this all out with you, and you refuse. this is the time i am talking to you about this, after this, i wont anymore. Listen to her side of the story, but stick to yours.
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how do i get my toenails smaller..i cut them down as far as they can go..one time i cut them so far they started to bleed. but they are really big and i hate them...this one person always makes fun of me for them..but i dont like her anyway..i cant even wear sandels in the summer time because im soo self-concious over them. please help (link)
honestly, there is really nothing you can do about it, im sorry to say, because i know thats not the answer you wanted. But you can help the situation, who cares about what other people think, maybe people feel as though you are a target because they know you are self not confident. Dont act so so shy about it, get them painted, a pedicure. everyone is self concious about something, yours just happens to be your feet...consider yourself lucky haha :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!! HoPe i HeLpEd!!!


i am getting my bf candy and making him a card and i wanted to buy him a nice shirt from like AE or Hollister but i dont know if he would like it. i think it would be nice and he would look good but do guys care about clothes??? thanx! :] (link)
try to pay attention to what he wears more, like the style, you still have some time befor valentine's day! Honestly, I really think he would like anything you get him. I dont know what kind of guy he is, but im sure he is happy he has you




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