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[13 year old FM.]
One time, my friend *Jackie and i went to a party together. When i got there, this boy had his arm around her.Aperantly, they were going out. I didn't know that. So when my dad picked me up, i asked her [when my dad wasnt there] when she and that boy started going out. She said a couple of days ago.
It turns out that my other friends knew it as well, before i did. When it happened to be exact. I dont know why she didn't tell me, do you think she doesnt want to be my friend anymore?
*i didn't use acually names.
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Its not that she doesnt want to be your friends she just may trust the other friend with that information more than you. just try to hang out with her more and try to talk to her more about things. This happens all the time and has happened to me before but dont take it offensively or anything
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I wouldn't have thought so, because if she did, then she would've sent out different signs like excluding you from other things.
She might've just want to keep this relationship private with only a few people to know. She didn't exclude you, she just wanted to make sure that only a small handful of people wanted to know.
Tell her that she can trust you with things like this and that you can keep secrets (well, you can, can't you?)
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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she may not have told you because she was worried about what you might think. maybe she thought you wouldn't approve or would think she was making a bad decision. however, it could be because she doesn't want to be friends anymore and is starting to hide things from you. focus on the way sh treats you. does she seem to want to hang out with you? does she seem genuinely interested in what you have to say? if she does, then she probably wants to stay friends with you and just had a reason not to tell you. or, she might not want to have as serious of a friendship with you.
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well, i dont know if i would consider her as not wanting you two to be friends anymore, but that is a big set back. My advice to you would be to give what you get, dont completely ignore her and become enemies, but dont kiss her feet to try to get back up there in her high social status list. i would tell her the beef on whats up with you when you have juicy moments, but dont make it an inconvenience to put her on the top of YOUR list for juicy gossip. what comes around goes around.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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