ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help.
You need to come straight out and tell him. You need to get the point across. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable. If he's your friend, he'll understand. He might not have any idea as to how uncomfortable you are. Hope my advice helps!
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my friend wrote me a really mean note saying stuff like im the boss of the sadie group and if u dont like it go in another group and like its none of my business about a relationship when i wasnt even talkin about it and all this mean stuff n i wrote back tellin her how i felt n she started showing everyone what i wrote n telling them n wen i walk by they look at me n talk n im on there awaymessages and i hate us fighting but she took it to far what should i do?
It doesn't sound like she's a good friend. I think you should openly come out and tell her how you feel. Just confront her. Try to stay calm and firm. If you want to avoid confrotation though, keep your distance from her. Try to avoid her. If you do see her though, just explain to her that you don't appreciate her actions and what she's saying. She's probably jealous of you in some way. This might be her way of getting attention from others. First find out why she is acting this way. Then go from there. If she continues to act this way, dont talk to her. There are plenty of other people out there who are probably dying to be your friend. Your true friends will back you up and won't listen to the mean stuff she's saying. Good luck with her! Hope my advice helps! Feel free to talk to me any time! Let me know how everything turns out with this girl! ~~Jenny
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ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do...
I think your problem is with self esteem. From what it sounds like, you are a very nice girl. Don't worry what others think. If you really like this guy, go for it. Any boy would be an idiot not to like you. And as far as his friends are concerned, Im sure they will like you. And if they don't its their loss. Don't be influenced by what people think. Feel free to talk to me anytime! Hope my advice helps! And stay confident!!
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what are some good sites for teenagers. like advice, stuff on beauty, fitness, and stuff that teenage girls would like! im always bored so i just wanted to know a few sites so i can unbored myself! &heart; nothing disgusting please! thanks
Some good sites are like gurl.com and some magazine sites like ym.com and seventeen.com. Hope my advice helps!
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OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them?
I think you should continue to hang out with them. See if your friend minds that you have the same purse. If she does, the you can still use the purse when she isn't around. Let me know what happens! Hope my advice helps!
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I really need a lot of help on getting over my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for 9 months and we loved eachother and everything*. but we broke up like 4 months ago and since he was my first love and first and only person to have sex with.. i was absolutly in love with him. But now he has a new gf and i need to move on. I sorta like this kid and he likes me a lot too but i just need help .. i can't like picture myself with any1 else yet.Nothings like 'clicking' with any1 esle.. nothings the same. Help please- i'll rate
I was in a similar situation before. What really helped me, was that I kept myself busy. Try going out with other friends alot. If you hang out with friends and throw yourself into your work, you will not think about him as often. Hope my advice helps!
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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!
Ask him what he wants. You could always treat him to a nice dinner on Valentine's day. Or you could get him chocolates or a gift certificate. Hope my advice helps!
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i have a guy friend that i am really close to we cant go out 1) bc of distance 2) bc he has a gf right now. anyways his gf is always a bitch to me. i think it is bc she jealous bc i am so close to him and that he cares about another girl(me) and she says shit that he will never do me and that i shouldnt be wastin my time and callin me a skank and trash.... and she says all of this to my best friend well she says shit when she doesnt even noe who the fuck i am and idk what do bc he is a great person and i dont wnat to lose him over s stupid bitch like her?
She's probably just extremely jealous and insecure about her relationship. Get your guy friend to say something or do something to make her feel better about her relationship. She might just be afraid of loosing him. Hope my advice helps!
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ugh my dad has really been pissin me off lately...i have had alot of cell phones but my last one i lost and now i dont have one..i have been trying to save up for one but it takes to long..how do i get him to buy me the one i want? and my step-mom is a real bitch and last week-end i walked in on them having sex...i dont know what to do!
Just do little stuff around the house to prove to your dad and stepmom that you are responsible. Hope my advice helps!
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ok so i have a friend and shes been dating this guy for a couple months. well first problem is that her parents hate him. they go to church together and shes not even allowed to sit by him. the thing is they have been dating behind her parents back and the parents keep finding out and she gets in trouble and they hate him more. well the thing is.. they always find ways to get together behind everyones back and first they made out and thats ok but then he fingered her on a church van. he keeps wanting her to go farther and shes a Christian and this whole thing is pulling her away from God, i dont think she even cares. he keeps hurting her (emotionally) and i dont want to see her go through this. ive tried talking to her but i really cant get through to her. i dont want her to go too far but he is pressuring her. sorry its long but i need advice.
You need to sit her down and get the point across. Explain to her that you are worried about her. If shes going behind her parent's backs too, she really needs someone to get through to her. If that doesnt work, explain the problem to a close adult that you can trust. Let me know how everything turns out. Hope my advice helps!
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my sisters are goin to have a big important party on the sam day as my graduation and my parents don want me to go bc it is on the same day as my sisters party and my mom made a hair oppointment for me and my siters at 9 in the mornin and that is around when my graduation is. if i do go to graduaction my parents wont be there because the will be busy wit my sisters. i dont know what to do?? ( i am graduating 8th grade)plz help!!!
I think you should go to your graduation. You are only going to graduate from eighth grade once. And you don't want to feel bad later on if you decide not to go. There will always be other parties too. Hope my advice helps!
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I really like this guy. Hes in all of my switching classes. The thing is i don't know what to do. I don't know if he likes me or not. Once i wasn't looking and he was right by me and when i turned my head i saw that he was staring at me...
At school i noticed that he wont look at all. He kinda avoids me... does this mean anything.
Also, does anybody have any good topic starters so i can try to talk to him.
Thanks! by the way i'm 13-f
He might just be shy and not sure if you like him. Just go up to him and start up a convo. Try starting up a convo by complementing him or if its a class that you have tests and homework in, just ask him if he gets what you guys are learning and then ask him to explain it to you. Try dropping subtle hints too. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!
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You are all gunna think this is bizzarre cuz i do to. But me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months and some weeks or days whatever. We havent even french yet!! How do i get that across that i want to! He always told me he would next time i saw him because we'd wish on a star and he knew that was my wish.. but no
He's probably just shy. Try making the next move. Hope my advice helps!
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I am part of a group of 5 with my best friend who i have known longer than everyone else. My best friend has been really attached to me and i feel like she doesn't want me to be friends with anyone but her. when i told her how i felt she started screaming at me and denyed it. Also, i never get any alone time with my boyfriend because she is always there and when i told her if i could talk to him alone she was like sure i'll walk behind you... but i wanted her to like be 100 feet away from us because he acts so much more romantic when she isn't around. How can i tell her how i feel without her screaming at me again? I want to have other friends besides her because every one i am friends with, she is friends with too... what do i do?
i rate high... sry this is kinda long
Try talking to her. Just tell her that you feel she is being to clingy. If she still keeps it up, try not telling her your plans and keep some distance from her. If she your best friend, she'll understand. She should get the hint soon. Hope my advice helps!
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I'm 14 years old, and I want my hair dyed. Like I want a drastic change SORTA. My hair right now is Dark Blonde. I don't want like blue pink colors though. I'm white, and my face is sorta red usually. I'm not really tan, I am sometimes. But not always. Whats a good hair color for me =)
I think maybe a dark brown color would work for you. I have similar coloring and it works for me. Hope my advice helps!
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I have a boyfriend who is abusive. He doesn't hit me.. but he makes me fear him. He's always telling me that my best friends don't like me and that i'm not as special or great as i think i am. When i ask him why he would say that because it really hurts he says that it's the harsh truth and i need to realize it and stop being such a poser. I'm also bisexual and he tells me that i say that to fit in.. that that isn't really who i am. he thinks he knows me so well but he really doesn't. Normally i wouldn't put up with this kind of stuff, i'd break up with him, but the problem is is that i really really love him. For a year we went out on and off 7 times.. this is the 8th. He's the one who always persued me and the one guy i always knew loved me. he's never treated me like this before and it scares me and i don't know what to do because i miss him.. the guy he was.. the guy who would run away with me.. the guy who loved me.. i don't know what to do and i don't think i'm strong enough to leave him.. please help
Even though you love him, I think you should break up with him. He has no right to treat you this way. You can try and talk to him first, but if he doens't shape up, break up with him. Let me know how everything turns out! Hope my advice helps!
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my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore?
Try explaining to your friend about how you feel. It doesn't mean that she doen't like you or anything--she's probably just excited about having a boyfriend. Try talking things over. Hope my advice helps!
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okay... well me and a few of my friends are starting a band, and allison wants to play guitar but she has no friggin clue what shes doing!(iv'e been playing guitar for a few years and she just started like last week) and she was going to be a singer in the first place, but i have no clue how to tell her that she doesn't know how to play guitar, and NO i can't just go up to her and say "you can't play guitar" or "you suck" because i'm not the kind of person that can do something like that. help please!
Instead of telling her that she can't play the guitar, say something like "you are cool at the guitar, but I think your singing is better. Maybe you should sing instead of playing." or something like that. Just try to compliment her and she'll be so happy that she wont even notice. Hope my advice helps!
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okay so im goin out with this guy and we've been goin out for like... umm idk a few weeks and like when we're together we always have funa nd hes really sweet and nice to mebut when we get to school then hes really mean like he treats me like S**T and i dont understand i mean i guess i knoe hes just teasing or sumthing or tryin to look cool in front of his friends well i dont like it and i wana tell him that but i dunno wut ta say? please help soon
Just openly come out and tell him that you don't like how he's treating you. If he gets mad, just let him go. If he cares more about his reputation than you, he isnt worth it. There are other people who would care for you alot more. Hope my advice helps!
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Okay so yes I have winter formal coming up on Saturday night. I got my dress and shoes, then I realized: I have no freakin clue what to do with my make up. My normal style of make up would look horrid with it. I have light blonde hair, blue green eyes and fair skin. My dress is an offwhite color with gold stitching in the top. Anyone have any ideas?
For this dance, I would go with a pale color for eye shadow. Possibly one that would go with your dress. Use colors such as tan, light pink, and so on. Use a little bit of blush and a light color of lip gloss. Hope my advice helps!
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