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shes going too far
ok so i have a friend and shes been dating this guy for a couple months. well first problem is that her parents hate him. they go to church together and shes not even allowed to sit by him. the thing is they have been dating behind her parents back and the parents keep finding out and she gets in trouble and they hate him more. well the thing is.. they always find ways to get together behind everyones back and first they made out and thats ok but then he fingered her on a church van. he keeps wanting her to go farther and shes a Christian and this whole thing is pulling her away from God, i dont think she even cares. he keeps hurting her (emotionally) and i dont want to see her go through this. ive tried talking to her but i really cant get through to her. i dont want her to go too far but he is pressuring her. sorry its long but i need advice.
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she... doesn't care... sorry. there's nothing i can tell u... just keep trying to help and do the best u can. but, i'm sorry, she seems 2 far gone.
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You need to sit her down and get the point across. Explain to her that you are worried about her. If shes going behind her parent's backs too, she really needs someone to get through to her. If that doesnt work, explain the problem to a close adult that you can trust. Let me know how everything turns out. Hope my advice helps!
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You should tell her parents! Maybe ask a priest to talk to her or bring her to confessions with you. Do something besides trying to help her as yourself as an individual. I know telling other people whats really going on might seem like your being cruel and betraying your friend but these acts will only help her. Its for her own good. Since all boys are equally as peverted because thats just how they are. It doesnt mean their bad because that kind of stuff is natural and if they arent something is seriously wrong. However, girls need to know when a guy is going to far. If this guy keeps doing this he could seriously hurt your friend. Maybe even after a while she could end up pregnant and we dont want that. So my advice is, make your move before its too late.
Jacki
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When you talked to her, did you tell her everything that was on your mind? If you don't want your best friend to fall into a bad lifestyle, which he is definitely leading her into, then you have to get your point across. But sometimes, all you can do is watch, try to help, and be there for her when he lets her go and she falls. Hope it works out.
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