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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :)

pac sun

i wish u hadn't said hot topic, where i am it isn't too expensive (dependin on wut u conside expensive)
i love hot topic

american eagle sort of

Gadzooks, journeys i love those places

if i think of ne more ill edit this!

like i have a concord mills
do u have sumthin like that
arizona mills, or sumthin

u can find punk in a lot of it's stores

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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age?

well, if u mean french, around 14 give or take 1or 2 yrs

if u mean THE KISS, where u really feel sumthin and think u love sum1, then most likely not until your much older, like 16-20's

Hope this helped

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i was depressed before this.. but this cut it! i jus started talken 2 this kid lets call him bob. iight well it seemd like bob was really sweet n nice. n then we kinda got in an arguement, cuz he said if we went out he wudnt call me like all tha time, boys rnt always supposdta call grls, i kno thats stupid 2 argue bout but i duno. but then i said sry.. cuz i think i really do like him. n he said sry 4 wat? n logged off tha cpu. so i duno if hes mad at me or not. or wat i should do. n to top it off hes kinda cuzins w/on of my good friends. n theres a game hes guna be at thursday.. shud i go. n wat shud i do bout tha whole situation?! plz answer ill rate. thanks alot,
confused nd depressed

well on my old cumputer, ther were errors thjat logged me off, nad sumtimes i couldn't get back on for over an hour it sucked

but maybe there was n overreaction, maybe he isn't mad at u, or maybe he is

the only way to find out, is if u go to the game.

Hope it all works out for u and 'Bob'
GL! :-)

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I like this boy Matt, long story shortened: he likes me, I like him. I make him horny...
Me and him have fooled around (touching, looking, etc) but we still haven't kissed. I want a relationship with him and I want to kiss him but I just don't know how to tell him without being completely blunt. I want to be creative but I'm kind of scared of how he'll react. I know he probably wants the same thing(he even said he wanted to be my boyfriend) but he still hasn't asked me out or anything. I don't know if he's just scared or what. I could really use some advice. Thanks :)

you could ask him out, there's nuthin wrong wit askin out a guy, grls ask guys and guys ask grls

in my opinion, the only way sumthin will happen is if u r blunt

try hangin at his house playin a game, or watch tv/movie and cuddle

maybe he'll get the hint, if not be blunt lol!

Hope this helps more for u!

but your only 13, don't go too far!!

After Feedback: ooo ok, i got ya now!! i deleted sum stuff that wouldn't work, and added sumthin else that mite :-)

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ok so heres my problem. i really like this guy.. we will call him david. ive told his friends that i like him and they say.. well thats a possibility for you. i know that david knows that i like him.. im just not sure if he likes me or not. what should i do?? HELP!

this isn't gunna be the best advice, but here goes ne ways

ok, you can talk to david, ask him if he likes you or not

or pretend ur name is Brittany...
u could have sum1 say, do u like alicia, do u like megan, do u like alyssa, do u like BRITTANY?

see if he says yea to ne of those, it sumtimes works
we've dun that 1 on r nayber b/c my friend liked him

or u can go up to him sayin, sum1 said u like me, is that tru..or have a friend say it, or talk to his friends and see if he likes you

Hope sum of this works!!
GL wit the guy :-)

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me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do?

she probably missed this old friend A LOT, maybe see if she'll let u hang with them

do you like her old friend?
if so, hang with them

tell ur friend that lately u've missed her and are feeling jealous, she'll probably understand and spend tyme with both of you

sry this ain't the best
Hope all works well for you and ur friend :-)

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My dance teacher recently had a baby boy(hes now 5 months) She also has a 2 year old boy. I volunteered to babysit for her once the baby is older. I've babysitted before but I had some help. Actually, I just helped babysit. I entertained them and the actual babysitter fed them, changed them, etc. I've never changed a diaper but I'm pretty sure I know how to fix them something to eat. I just want some tips on what all I should do and remember. Any ideas on activities? Snacks? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

if u have a car, or if ur old enuff, drive them around town or sumthin(if ur allowed to)

if u have a church, and they have nursaerys or sumthin, then volunteer there so u can see how it's dun

i'd never changed a diaper b4 until my 1st tyme workin wit this baby IN 8TH GRADE

it's not too hard, utake ok the diaper, u clean the but area, u put powder there and u put on the other diaper, it it's a boy then watch out, he mite pee on u

and about food, his mom or dad will show u the food, and give u a tyme to feed him, and u make sure he has a bib, and feed him as much as he'll eat, maybe a lil less, then pick him up, make sure u have a burp thing, and pat him on the bak for a bit until he burps

avtivities, movies and t.v
once u watch the movies for a while, they don't annoy u that much

see i've watch a 1yr old u couldn't talk but LOVED sesame street which i watched when i was yunger, after the 1st few tymes babysittin her, i didn't mind all the movies n stuff

if u need anything else on babysittin drop it in my inbox

i've been doin it since i was 11

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Hey. I was just wondering, is 5'5 tall for a 16, almost 17 year old?

it's about normal
heck i kno a 30yr old who isn't even that tall

ur good tho!!
plus u should still be growin for another yr

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hey i have decided to use tampns b/c i am hate pads. and when i used tampons i mean it went fine for a while and then when i tryed to take one out it was like stuck and it had a piece of skin the was preventing it from getting out. i was wondering has this happened to ne other girls ?

yea, it's happened to me.. embarassing to say but it has

well it's prolly the wrong size

if u still wanna use tampons, go a size or 2 smaller
if that was the smallest, then ur body is meant for tampons, my sisters friend can't use them, because her body is the wrong shape or sumthin like that


hope all goes well 4 ya
GL wit the tampon thing

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I have been unable to put a picture on my advice collumn. I had one ready and all, but then it said that it was wrong, even though it was the right size and all. Can someone tell me wats wrong with it?

maybe it was a bad file that u were tryin to upload and it wouldn't work

or maybe it was the wrong format
or maybe there's sumthin wrong wit the column or u could have too much text so it still wouldn't fit

not really sure on that 1
sry for wastin ur tyme
try askin Advice_admin they can help u

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I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
~Joyful~

well really it kind of depends on ur age
if ur under 16, and he is too, then yall or atleast him don't kno wut the meaning of i love you is

u need to be honest, just say sumthin like i care for u, but im nor ready to say LOVE, it means wanna be wit u forever, it means would die w.o u, it means so much and im not ready to say it

sumthin like that

i take the manin of love serious, but when i say it, whoever i say it to knows that i don't mean LOVE i just mean love, as in CARE ABOUT STRONGLY, like my bf joel, i just say it meaning i truly care, he means it the same way

u could use the small love instead of the BIG LOVE

if u get wut i mean
sry, this seems as if it's really confusin

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hey can some1 pleaze tell me what song this is nd who singz it..i kno it but i forget-the lyrics are..
If I traded it all
If I gave it all away for one thing
Just for one thing
If I sorted it out
If I knew all about this one thing
Wouldnt that be something

One Thing - Finger Eleven
i think

i like that song, i've only heard it a few tymes, but i like it!!

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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/***

treat her just the same

do ur makeup together
hang at the mall together, the only difference is she likes gurls more then friends now.

She's still the same old BEST FRIEND 4EVER..4ever-keyword
heck there's nuttin wrong wit her, she still cool!!
treat her just the same as u would treat ne1 else

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hey idk what the name of the song is but do u? some of the corus is:

one shot, one shot thats all we ever got
oo u got me started now im not gonna stop
now slide a long slide yeah baby thats rightt
im gonna show u the time of ur life

now im not positive thats the exact words but its close...it kinda songs like sugar eay sings it idk

PLEASE HELP and i will rate

that would be Shifty the song would be Slide Along Side

hope i helped

i love that song!!

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im 5'5" and i weigh 140 pounds.. am I fat? and if so what ways do u know that are quick weight loss but still healthy for you. I would exercise. but its not quick. I could try cutting my portions but i can't!

no, thats normal weight

but if u still wanna lose weight
then u can try doing the following

i kno u said cutting portions, but idk if u mean puttin less on ur plate or just havin 1 serving

if u can do 1 of the 2
or u can jog
get a group of friends and go walkin
if u live near a YMCA and have a membership
sports
babysittin, lol lotsa runnin wit that
mowin lawns, dependin on how big the lawn is

i think ur normal weight, but if u wanted to lose 5 lbs, or more which idk y u would, then u can do any of the above!!

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i have 100 questions answered....um how do i no im a level 2 thinggy now? explain a lot please..:o)

well u would kno if ur a level 2 mod, the same way u kno if ur a level 1 mod, i wanna be level 2 but so far im only level 1, i hope that i'll becum level 2 eventually

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if you ask a ?... can ppl tell its you? if your signed in?

nope
and im glad for it, sum of my questions are embarassing lol

just like rite now, idk who u r

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anyone have any good webisites that have fun quizzes like personality ones and stuff? thx

well, i used to go to this site and i think it's http://www.quizzie.com

but im not sure
i guess u could check it out n see if it's still up or sumthin

and 1 of my friends told me about this site, idk if the sp is corect, but http://www.quizilla.com

hope this helps
have fun!!

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im going to a camp in another state and my cousin is going to the same camp. (its a church camp) and i dont think my cousin likes me very much. i just move to this church so i dont know anyone but my cousin. i dont want to hang out with her cause she'll get mad! i dont know what to do.

well if ur allowed, maybe u could invite a friend
or if ur shy try to be outgoing, if ur outgoing then u'll make new friends

im sure ur not the only person who knows no1 there
i've gone on church trips where i was like omGosh idk ne1, cuz i was sposed to go wit a friend that attended the church but she backed out last minute

it's not too bad, i did go from NC to Tennesee wit people i didn't kno

It'll all work out just fine

GL and i hope u have lotsa fun!!

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Is it ok to have a make-out buddy? I mean, not a sex buddy, we're not having sex...but we're only making out once in a while. We dont like eachother, but is it still ok? Does it make me a slut?

i guess it would be allright as long as ur single
if u have a bf/gf, then it's wrong, cuz i kno my bf would hate it if i made out wit ther guys, and i'd hate it if he made out wit other grls
it all depends on the circumstances

Hope I Helped

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