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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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One of my teachers told us that we should be saving our work from every year. Do you think we should? Why? & For what grades? Like, does middle school work even matter? Thanks :)

Yeah, and here's why:

The final exam at the end of the year contains every piece of information you learned during the year. It can be a good study guide. Saving the information will help you so not only should you save all the information for that class, but you should do that for every class because it'll still help. Not saving it won't exactly hurt you, but it's not good to remove it either way.

Middle school work doesn't matter because I was told that they pass you anyways if you fail, but I'm not positive if every school does that since every school isn't like mine. But also, save the work even if the school year is done. They usually do review in the beginning of the year, so it's best you save it so you can remember a little. :]

okay well ive been on ortho tryclen lo for only two weeks. on the 11th day. i had sex, without a condom, he did not ejaculate in me. whats the odds of me being pregnant? thankss.

I'd say about 50/50. I'm no doctor, but you haven't been on birth control for very long & even if you are on birth control, there's still a chance of pregnancy. Even though he didn't cum, there's always pre-cum which does contain sperm, so if you miss your period, take a test.

my mom will usually get on to me for picking out high inch heels, and no strappless shirts, i keep telling her no, im in the 6th grade, but i cant get through to her that i am not 2 anymore. what should i do?

You're 12. You shouldn't be wearing high heels, or strapless shirts. You shouldn't even be on this site for that matter. You need be 13 to be here & you're not.

Follow your mother's rules, and come back when you're of age to be here.

does anyonee know how to like make money fall down from a picturee?

www.freecodesource.com

It has everything.

Does anyone know any good Screamo bands! I just got into screamo and i likie it but on itunes theres no genre for screamo. So yeah help me

Killwhitneydead.
Job For A Cowboy.
Saosin.
Senses Fail.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
Four Letter Lie.
The Used.
All That Remaines.
Suicide Silence.
Bless The Fall.
Mychildren Mybride.
Bleeding Through.
Chiodos.
Bullet For My Valentine.
I Set My Friends On Fire.
The Devil Wears Prada.
Underoath.
Bury Your Dead.
I Killed The Prom Queen.
Thrice.
Thursday.
Aveneged Sevenfold.
A Static Lullaby.
Dance Gavin Dance.
Bleed The Dream.
Escape The Fate.
Eighteen Visions.
Four Year Strong.
From First To Last.
Vanna.
Greeley Estates.
Heavy Heavy Low Low.
Men, Women & Children.
Emmure.
Seric.
Slipknot.
Silverstein.
The Number Twelve Looks Like You.
The Fall Of Troy.
The Bled.
The Black Dahlia Murder.

You can find most of these bands & more on MySpace. Just go to the music section & click on Screamo.

How do you graduate a year early?

Every school is different and has different options about early graduation.

Talk to your guidance counselor.

So I asked a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend who was constantly hanging out with his ex (who's a slut and cheated on him multiple times) and I thought he didn't like me and whatnot. But anyway, he cheated on me, and I was extremely hurt... he told me that he'd never hurt me and that I deserved the best, and I actually caught him and his ex making out. Now I haven't talked to him in 3 days, but I've seen him and he looks extremely depressed and he keeps saying he's so sorry. And now it makes me feel horrible for not talking to him because he seems so sincere and apologetic, and he keeps telling me that he understands it if I don't wanna talk to him... but I just feel bad for ignoring him. But I was just so damn hurt by what he did I didn't even want to look at him. But I still feel horrible, he just looked so sad and I just ignored him. Am I doing the right thing by not talking to him? I miss him.

Yeah, you are.

Once someone cheats on you, it hurts. Your trust that you had for them is broken. & you can't really see yourself forgiving them.

It can be forgiven, but you'll never trust them again. I'd say cool off for a bit & decide if you still wanna be with him.

And that "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing isn't always true. Not everyone changes, but some people do.

My friend said that i focus too much in my school work and that I'm an anal. What's an anal?

It means you're uptight.

what are the best girly perfumes i can get that smell amazing and fruity and sunny and just GOOD! im asking for one this xmas and these are my options. give me your reviews on them and maybe other perfumes you think are good.

- can can (paris hilton)
- daisy (marc jacobs)
- l0lli (its a "o" in the middle btw) pop (lancome. never smelled it but the bottle looked cute? lol)
- juicy couture (juicy couture)
- Escada Sunset Heat )Escada)
- with love (hillary duff)
- Brit Sheer (Burberry)
- covet (sarah jessica parker)
- ralph hot! (ralph lauren)
- princess (vera wang)
- diesel (that fuel for life thing.. it smells amazing.)
- delicious night (DKNY.. and i love love love it)

hm thats all i can remember at the moment. um so rate them and please keep in mind that this is for a 13 year old girl and i want my perfume to be not too sophisticated but like really nice smelling so everyone when you walk into the room's like "wow what smells so good?" and maybe somewhat fruity-ful cause i like those kinda scents. i dont go to beauty stores a lot so i only have a few samples from my teenvogue mag lol. btw i didnt put the perfumes in order of how i like them.

It's not really a perfume, it's a body spray, but it still smells insanely good. Love Spell by Victoria's Secret. :]

Uh, Lucky You for women is really good & not too expensive. It's in a pink/black box.

So Halloween is tomorrow and I STILL don't know what to be. I can't really go out and buy a costume tonight so what are some ideas for a costume that I can just get out of my closet?
Thanks! :)

Be a schoolgirl.

Get a plaid skirt, a white button down & some heels & there you go. A lollipop & pigtails can also help your look. :]

If you cut, will you go to hell? or can you ask God to forgive you?

I was born & raised a Catholic. However, when I was 14, I decided to break from my shell & think for myself. I think the idea of "God" is a piece of shit lie people made in order to have something to believe in.

I've always been told that "God" will forgive anything. I've always been told that committing suicide is a ticket to hell. I'm not sure if cutting gets you into hell, but since "God" forgives anything, you probably won't go to hell.

I suggest not cutting though. If you have a mental problem or just problems that trouble you, see a counselor.

how is nyc diff from the rest of the state of ny? and upstate is diff too? how?

The life of a person in New York City, and the life of a person in Upstate, NY differ from each other in crazy rediculous ways.

NYC: Their life is more fast-paced. They tend to have more money, better jobs, & things are just more entertaining there. The things they have/want are more expensive & it's just more fun.

A person in NYC would consider me to be an Upstate NY'er, but in Rochester, we consider ourselves Western, NY. Anyways, we're more suburbian, boring & middle to low-class. There's not many things to do or see, & we're a lot cheaper.

All he does is sit around and watch cartoons all day. Why wont he go out and make some money.
I say if he is old enough to carry a shovel he should.
He also sucks in school, I think he ll drop out from kindergarden.

What the hell? :|

Okay so like last night I was hanging with my friends, lets call them.. Hannah, Leslie and George

And george was gonna invite all of us over for a scary movie night for tonight and we all were like YAY YES WE CAN COMMEE!!
and the last night i slept at hannah's and this morning she was lile, "I wanna have alot of people over tonight" And then I was like "Well we are going to George's" And then Leslie was like "Yeah lets just tell him we all cant come though"

But i was like "no we can't do that thats mean we are practically ditching him"

And then we all go in this whole arugement and now we are pretty mad at eachother.

Hannah Said im still invited if i wanna come, BUt i dont know what to do.. Should I still go to George's? Or Hannah's? If I go to George's I would be the only girl but i dont really care.

BUt like the sad thing is George wasnt even invited to Hannah's SO i think that is really mean

Also this isnt the first time hannah has done this she done this before and when she did to it leslie would be like OMG SHE IS SO MEAN and now leslie is doing it with her and she is on her side 100%

I tried talking to them a million times but it keeps ending up in a fight..

so i just need help with this huge mess..
help!!!!

You had plans with George first. Hannah knew about these plans - I suggest you go to George's. It'd be rude of you to skip out on plans you knew you had for something so short notice as your friend's.

Go to George's. I'm sure he'd be pretty hurt if he found out you ditched something you knew about for a while for something you found out in the beginning of the day.

Hey ive been having all symptoms of being pregnant, and ive been pretty stressed over it and scard about it.. could i just be getting these symptoms because im stressing over it? or are you really only going to get dizziness and tender breast because your pregnant? please help =(

If you think you may be pregnant, take a test. Dizziness & sore boobs can be signs of many different things.

what is a good kind of colonge for guys
one that girls love
not like axe or tag
but actuall cologne

Lucky You.

My boyfriend used to wear it, and it drove me insane [but in a good way.] I loved it. :] The blue bottle is for men, and the pink bottle is for women. I'm not sure if you have Wegmans, but you probably don't because it's a North-Eastern US thing [more or so NY], but it's about $10.99 there. At stores like Target & Wal*Mart, it'll be more pricey. At Wal*Mart, it's about $18-20 a bottle, and at Target it's about $20-25 a bottle. :]

are there ANY sites where you can get ringtones WITHOUT downloading them? or not?
cause i dropped my phone in the water, about a week ago, and it works and everything, i just can't go to the at&t mall, and download ringtones.

is there any way i can get ringtones WITHOUT downloading it or whatever?
please don't say record them tho..

Thanks for any help!!!

www.myxertones.com

If you have Verizon, there's a special version for those types of users, so you need to read the semi-small print carefully. It just sends it to you in a text message & then you go on the link it provides to get the ringtone. :]

What are the signs of pregnacy I need all of them because I might be pregnate

This could've easily been googled.

how long should a hand job last?
like 10 minutes?
and don't say until a guy cums because i know that, but how long does it take for that

There really isn't a specific time.

All guys are different. Some guys will cum in less than 5 minutes, some take longer than that.

what do you say to people when they talk about weight and always say that youre skinny and how they want to lose weight?? its so annoying

and if these people are chubby or bigger? what do i say when they indirectly ask me if theyre fat or w/e????

[1] You tell them that they're not fat & that they don't need to lose weight. If they lose weight, they'll be unhealthy.

[2] You tell them that they're fine looking. You may be lying, but it's better to lie to them than to tell them that they're fat & ruin their confidence. However, I'm not one for lying, so I would probably tell them they look great, but they should try to lose a few pounds anyways.

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