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what should i dooo?
Okay so like last night I was hanging with my friends, lets call them.. Hannah, Leslie and George
And george was gonna invite all of us over for a scary movie night for tonight and we all were like YAY YES WE CAN COMMEE!!
and the last night i slept at hannah's and this morning she was lile, "I wanna have alot of people over tonight" And then I was like "Well we are going to George's" And then Leslie was like "Yeah lets just tell him we all cant come though"
But i was like "no we can't do that thats mean we are practically ditching him"
And then we all go in this whole arugement and now we are pretty mad at eachother.
Hannah Said im still invited if i wanna come, BUt i dont know what to do.. Should I still go to George's? Or Hannah's? If I go to George's I would be the only girl but i dont really care.
BUt like the sad thing is George wasnt even invited to Hannah's SO i think that is really mean
Also this isnt the first time hannah has done this she done this before and when she did to it leslie would be like OMG SHE IS SO MEAN and now leslie is doing it with her and she is on her side 100%
I tried talking to them a million times but it keeps ending up in a fight..
so i just need help with this huge mess..
help!!!!
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You had plans with George first. Hannah knew about these plans - I suggest you go to George's. It'd be rude of you to skip out on plans you knew you had for something so short notice as your friend's.
Go to George's. I'm sure he'd be pretty hurt if he found out you ditched something you knew about for a while for something you found out in the beginning of the day.
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It sounds to me that Hannah and Leslie aren't really good friends with you or george. If I were you, I'd forget about hannah and leslie because they are not nice people, and definitally not your clique. I think you know what the right choice is.... go to georges house. My dad is always telling me that if you promise something, that is not only a promise... but a commitment. You committed to doing something, and you can't just break it and give up. That shows that you are a loser. These girls obviously don't care what george feels. Now if you do go to George's, you should be prepared because they ARE going to be mad at you. But let them have their space and when the time comes... they'll see that what they did was a huge mistake. Just do the right thing and don't even care about them... you tried to convince them. that's the best you can do. You can't force them to make the right choice, it's their decision. You just need to lead them on to the right choice.. and let them think for a while about what is wrong and what is right.
The main point here is- don't let them influence you into doing bad things. You KNOW whats right, just ignore what they say and have fun at George's!
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Take a deep breath, go to Georges, have a good time and let it go.
You can't Hannah or Leslie from being cruel or inconsiderate. You can only control YOU. So, tell them simply that you are sorry you can't make it as you already promised to go to George's. You would do the same thing for any of them, if you had said you were coming, you would go, not ditch them. Wish them a good time and forget about them.
You can only do your best. You can still be nice and friendly to them, just tell them that you already had plans.
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