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Q: Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do??

Well she doesnt seem to be giving me the vibe that you 2 were to be friends.. your kinda like my friend Courtney and Kaleigh or April and Kaleigh i honestly dont think kaleigh should have met April or Courtney and they always fight but be friends again and say i hate you when they do fight but it always works out so hopefully you guys will work out just tell her to think about those times

Q: Hi there! I've got my own column on here (EMiLYELiZABETH) but today I'm needing some advice.

I'm 2O/f and tomorrow I've got a huge job interview with the police department. My question is... what should I wear and how should I do my hair?? It's brown with reddish highlights, half way down my back (about to the bottom of my bra). I like it either up or down, so that isn't an issue.

As far as what to wear, I was wondering about pinstripe pants or a skirt? Also, what kind of shirt? I've got a few nice sweaters or some that I can layer with.

Any help would be GREATLY appricated!! Thanks so much!

Em

Put it in low bun.. you'll look probably older and more professional then rather just a pony Just dont wear something thats girlie they might thing your not strong enough for the job!

Q: okay i was on a antiobitioic for a sinus infection, and its a form of penecilin, and i had these HUGE absolutley huge hives all over me, they were disgusting, i was wondering what exactly are hives?

You itch alot and u are allergic to something that u touched or were around

Q: sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it.

Well he might have thought u were referring to him... when you were talking bout allt his.. so its kind of a sweet moment.. cherish it i guess.

Q: Hi, I straighten my hair everyday, but now that its rainiing im afrid it will get frizzzy and wavy. I use john fried hair serum and i have a chi. Do u think it will go wavy on me? Or do u have any ideas wut to do with my hair so it wont get frizzy and wavy? * I rAtE*

Use catwalk from like M.J. Capelli's its in a blue bottle it works good for me

Q: I recently had sex for the first time (about a month ago) and since then I've needed to pee an unusual amount. And when I do pee, it can really hurt. I now have trouble controlling when I need to pee too. Like, the second I get home from school I have to run to the toilet or I'll like pee myself. It's so embarrassing. The other night I even peed while in bed and got really freaked out. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?!

You might have gotten some sort of a STD.. go find out and maybe you can stop it... but be more careful next time and use protection

Q: There's this guy who I recently developed hard feelings for. And just this past weekend, we we flirting extremely hard with one another and I just don't know if he likes me or not. Certain comments he would say to me and certain actions he'd do made me think that there was a possibility he was crushing back. The only problem is, I have a friend who likes him a lot and they are going to a dance together. The confusing part is all the flirting he and I did happend after he said yes to the girl for the dance. What should I do? He's been on my mind heavily.

Well.. maybe he is just a flirty type... theres alot of guys out there just ask him to a movie but make sure you dont hurt your friend though because friends come before guys

Q: ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!!

Just let him know that you like him and maybe do it on the phone email online text on thru or a note or the famous way of doing it... through a friend!

Q: I just got a Virgin Mobile phone for my b/day.. Thing is, I've already spent $70 on it in phone cards.. And I've had it for a month. I REALLY need minutes on the phone, because I ran out a week or two ago. Thing is, I'm flat broke & my mom isn't willing to buy me a phone card. Any ideas on how to make money? And don't say babysitting!

Well babysitting is what everybody says just ask your mom if there is some way you can get some money like chores or extra chores or get a job

Q: Me & my friend "Carrie" are really close. Thing is, she's really close to her soon to be step sister (me & her step. are friends, too) I always feel really jealous around them, because they get to hang out every day of the week & they have so many inside jokes & stuff that it makes me really depressed. Like we were shopping the other day & they saw a Barbie at Toys-r-us (don't ask y we were in there.... lol) & they were like "oh this one's me & that one's u!" It was like I wasn't even there! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love both of them, they're my best friends, but my stomach turns whenever they say or do something that I don't get, cuz I'm not close to anyone but them for the most part. I'm so confused

Well just talk to them i know its hard to do its easier said then done but you gotta do it if you want things to be changed so ... just talk to them and ask them to include u in more things or maybe you could have another friends of yrous tag along with you 3 next time that way its equal cuz if you go with a group of friends and its a odd number someone is most likely to get left out and everybody knows that

Q: Me & my cousin used to be like sisters when we were younger. Ever since she was verbally abused by her ex-boyfriend, though, she hasn't spoken to me much. I've tried to talk to her, but she never really opens up to me. I feel really bad because she just got dumped by her "friends" & boyfriend.. But I don't know what to do. I have a feeling that we're never gonna be close again & it hurts :( Is there anything I can do?

Well the best you can do is just reassure her none stop that you will ALWAYS be there for her and even if she isnt talking maybe just let her in on whats going on in your life letting her know you trust her and let her know you wont just walk out on her just like her friends did

Q: I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!

No you didnt know and he was the one making this mistake and not you so dont get the idea that your a slut because your not its all on him girl

Q: My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks!

Look online

Q: my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

1 word to describe him {asshole}

Q: hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!

siNcEreLy,stUck

i had to go thru the same thing except i went from a awesome amazing state to a small one but i love the friends i have now and if i didnt have them i dont know what i would do without them

Q: How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

whenever u get that feeling

Q: My two friends and I were in a chat room and one of my friends says, 'OMG! I got your email! Don't tell *Katie (me)* though" to my other friend. I hate it when people talk like that. I asked my other friend what it was about and she said nothing. What should I say/do?

let her know it bothers you and comfront that friend that said that and tell her how you feel and ask her how she'd feel if that happaned to her if u did that

Q: OK im 18 years old, and ive never had a girl friend before. Is there something wrong with me that girls wouldn't approach me or is it something that i have to do. My pics are at www.faceparty.com/dozzer check it out and tell me what you think please. It really sucks being alone.

hello there.. i know this may come off kind of mean im sorry if u get the wrong impression im just trying to help u out.. just groosum yourself up a bit and excersize but if your happy w/yourself thats thats awesome!! and keep in mind alot of girls are shallow and go for looks but the right girl will come around for your personality and not your looks :) trust me hun!!

Q: OK theres this girl i really like. We used to go to elemetry school together but for high school we went to different schools. I just saw her again at the fair, but i didnt get to talk to her. How do i find a way to talk to her, and when i do how do i approach her so its not to look like i'm a stalker?

just approach her just be like hey i saw u at the fair whats up? or whats going on these days long time no see how ya doin something casual

Q: okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do

i heard u can never get over your first love so i know if i move on from nathan.. i'll never forget about him i know ill never be able to forget about issac or jamie... but i am completely moved on but i think about the days when i was w/them. and that is normal

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"