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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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i've had two guys like me this year. i've been telling myself i want a boyfriend and i know i do. i've been single for a year and a half with one sexual relationship in between. so whenever these guys tell me they like me i'll like them for a day or two and then find some reason why it wouldn't work out and then i push them away. i won't even be friends with them. what the heck is my problem? if i want a guy, and i can get a guy, then why can't i accept what's given to me?
Alright, get a pen & pencil.
Write down all the good things you can think of them & skip over the bad things.
You might just be scared they`ll cheat on you or break up with you or something & you`ll get hurt.
That`s how alot of people are. Just before you get in a relationship, you gotta be sure you can trust them not to do any of those things. & also, try not to rush into a relationship or anything.
Good luck! =]
I have acne all over my face!I try to eat foods with alot of iodine in them, does that help or just make it worse?
ProActive & AcneFree.
Try those first -- start out using them once a day, then gradually two/three times a day. Try laying out in the sun two/three times a week for at least thirty minutes also. Drink lots of water -- it helps get the toxins & stuff out. Other than that, I don`t think food affects it. For some people it does, but for most -- it doesn`t.
If those things don`t work, you should probably go to your dermatologist & they`ll prescribe something stronger for you.
Good luckkkkkk! =]
I'm 16/f, used to be bestfriends with a 16/m. We were extremely close, the best of friends, we no longer are. We've grown apart due to random fights, and idk why. But anyway, I cry all the time over him. It's like mourning a loss, but really it's just a friendship. Basically, I've tried since February (when we were no longer best friends) to maintain a good friendship with him, and it's real hard.
I've come to the conclusion that continuing being his friend is the wrong choice. He's the only person that makes me cry, I always feel like I'm never good enough for him, I'm tired of being hurt. Would you say cutting all contact with him, not seeing him, etc, would help me forget about him & allow me to no longer be his friend?
In my opinion, you`re better off without him.
Alright, make two lists.
One of all the good things about him, one of all the bad. Whichever one is bigger, well, there`s your answer.
If there`s more bad things, don`t just suddenly start entirely ignoring him. He`ll probably freak out if ya`ll are still friends. Just gradually stop calling him, IMing him, etc. If he calls, explain the situation to your family & tell them not to pick up. Also, block his number from your cell phone if you need to. Whatever you do, try not to talk bad about him, somehow -- they always find out. Don`t start a fight either to end the friendship, just gradually break away. It`s hard, I know, but it`ll get easier after a while. =]
Good luck!
Hey, basically I've decided to cut off all contact with this person. And it's been about 5 days now, problem is, they haven't called at all. That obviously makes me feel like shit, like they don't care at all that we're not talking, etc. But I CANNOT/WILL NOT call them. I need some willpower, basically someone to say some things that will help me NOT call him. He is 17/m, I'm 16/f. PLEASE help, I DO NOT want to give in, but it hurts that he doesn't show he cares at all! THANKS!
Hah, I`m in the same situation, except it`s with a friend.
Well, think about whatever it was that they do make you WANT to cut off all contact with them. List all of the things they`ve done to hurt you or make you sad some how. If you have a cell phone & their number`s in it, delete it. OR just take your mind off of it -- go see a movie (comedy), go shopping, have friends over, etc.
Oh my gawd! In Book Burger's interview with Lisi Harrison, she said that the rights were just purchased and that there will be a clique movie! I want to know if anyone has heard about when and where the auditions are going to be held!?!?!? i am desperate to find out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
www.jointheclique.com
Look off to the write where it says 'Win a chance to be in THE CLIQUE movie!'
Good luck! =]
I recently just moved to Moore,Oklahoma from Henderson,Kentucky. Everything is different since I moved like on the line of a huge city. I'm so used to living in a small town. Now school is coming up,and Im going to a new school with new people. I want advice because last time I moved it was a disaster. The school I went to was horrible, it was so bad that I wanted to kill myself(no one say I'm emo, i didnt cut myself). No one talked to me and I had no friends, i didnt talk to anyone and no one talked to me. Unless they were going to pick on me. I talked to my mom's friend, who is really friendly and has a bunch of friends. But I'm just so scared of another school that was so horrible that I want to kill myself. What should I do?
P.S. srry if it was a bit long.
Yeah, I`m about to have to do this in four weeks when school starts for me. I know how you feel -- my dad`s in the military, so we`re always moving places.
My mom finally agreed on homeschooling me. Trust me, it`s much easier. Just tell your mom how you feel & explain what this site says to her. I did & my mom finally gave in. =]
http://school.familyeducation.com/home-schooling/parenting/29861.html
If you or your parents don`t want to do that, try joining a club or starting a sport rather it`s with the school or out of it. Most of my friends are outside of school, considering that most of them at my school are immature jerks. Do you go to church? If so, try joining something there. Most people who go to church are extremely nice, trust me.
Just whatever you do, don`t freak out about popularity -- that never turns out good for people. Plus, most of them just enjoy seeing people cry for some reason, so they`ll just make everything worse.
I can probably relate to alot of what you`ve been through, but don`t worry -- It`ll get better. Well, if you wanna hear some of my stories -- haha, they`ll probably make you glad it didn`t happen to you -- or if you just wanna talk, just leave something in my inbox & I`ll give you my e-mail.
Good luck! =]
ok i hate my hair. its frizzy and when i wash it its curly and then when it drys its just puffy! now that its summer i cant jsut keep it straight. i use gel to curly it up. i want to amke it curly but gel isn't helping anymore it becomes curly and then puffy after a while. my hair is long its like a little bit under my shoulders. so what product can i use to make it curly. please dont give me a product if you use it and your hair is naturally straight because we obviously have different kind of hair and it might work better on yours. i jsut want a good product one that i can get in wallgreens duance or ride aid you know stores liek that. also, that isnt expensive. thanks
Yeah, it sucks, doesn`t it?
Haha, my hair`s the same way sometimes.
Go to Walgreens or something & look for the Pantene Pro V Curls Hydrating Shampoo & Curls Hydrating Conditioner. I don`t know if they`ll have it, but there should be another bottle & it says Pantene Prov V Curl Restorative. Leave that in your hair over night (like the night before you wash it) & you`ll be surprised by how good it works. Try a leave in conditioner that`s made for people with curly/wavy hair & use that also to help with the frizz. I do those four things, & I normally have wavy hair, but those all make it curly & it cuts down on the frizz. Try to straighten it less also.
Good luck!
i have these reddish bumps on my arm. some other girls/guys i know have it too...i was just wondering what it was called. my doctor told me that people are born with it and it is not contagious but it can't be cured. what is this called? is there a website about it?
Keratosis Palaris.
I have it, yes, it sucks. Trust me ... I KNOW.
Haha, you can actually help it though.
Lay out in the sun for at least thirty minutes 2-3 times a week & use this stuff called Hawiian Tropic Golden Tanning Lotion 6 SPF while your out there. For some reason, that helps it alot. Also, ALWAYS keep it moisturized no matter what you use. Go to a dermatologist to if it gets real bad -- they`ll give you some stuff & you just have to keep trying things till they work. If you don`t want to go to one, go to a vitamin place & get the Omega 3, 6, & 9 -- it helps it alot -- or just get Vitamin A. It`s good for acne too I think.
& don`t worry, it won`t always be like that.
It gets better when you get older. No, it never completely goes away, but it gets less noticable.
Wow! Thanks for even looking at this. Well basically my life is in the crapper right now. In other words that are more understandable It SUCKS! Everyone is always telling me the same things. You are only 14 and everyone goes through it around your age or my fav! " Your life is not that bad" But yes it is though! My friends dont like me anymore and I dont have a boyfriend! Yes! I sound pathetic as hell but I am pathetic. I mean why does life have to be so damn hard. What made it this hard? Was it my fault? I sit in my room all day watching tv and I just cry because it sux! Everyone else has a boyfriend and friends that they can call and hang out with. Not me though! I just dont know how to make myself happy without having any friends! I mean I tell myself that this will pass over and one day everything wil get a lil bit better. And whats even worse is that I try to get A boyfriend but they dont like me and they use me then call me a whore and plus they always want another girl. They say I'm hott and I'm sweet and skinny but I dont feel that way anymore. Is this a sucky age or did I make my life this way? Cause I try to make things better and I try to make guys like me and notice me but that never works cause they always have a reason as to why they cant have a relationship with me! I cant take it anymore. And I've talked to everyone and they all tell me the same damn thing. Nothing works because at the end of the day I still have no friends and no boyfriend! I mean I'm nice! I'm not a bitch and I'm not that ugly. And everyone tells me I'm not mature enough to have a boyfriend but when I see everyone else thats not but like 1 year older than me have a boyfriend I cry because I feel like an outcast or like I dont belong in this world. Thats why I want to kill myself sometimes because what am I living for? Not myself because I suck at life. I try to play the game of life but it doesnt work ! does anyone know how to deal with my problem?
Well, I went through something preeeeetty close to that + having the people who weren`t my friends anymore start rumors about me + parents almost getting a divorce.
Those 'friends' who don`t like you anymore ... they`re immature. They`re just looking for a reason to start crap. If someone doesn`t like you -- too bad -- it`s their loss. Just try & find new friends, but yeah, that`s hard at first. If that`s difficult, do you have any cousins? Visit them & let them introduce you to their friends. Just forget about those other people, please. I did that & I`m so much more happier after I realized how immature & mean they really were to me after I did NOTHING to them.
Set time aside each day to go for a walk. If it`s too hot during the middle of the day, get up early or walk in the afternoon. Get a pet -- for some crazy reason, they help. Take something called Omega 3, 6, & 9 ... it contains this fish oil stuff, which does this stuff (haha, I forgot)& it helps keep you happy. Drink 6-8 glasses of water a day, that keeps you happy too. Also, exerciseee! It helps reduces stress ALOT & it helps take your mind off of things. Yeahh, I read all that in some book.
Take a break from guys for a while. Most of the time, they just bring you down cause half of the time, ya`ll aren`t gonna be together forever. You don`t need a guy to make you happy, TRUST ME.
I don`t have one & I`m smiling right now. =]
Good luck!
If you need anything, just me leave a message in my inbox & I`ll help you.
when i straighten my hair (on a daily basis), after a long day it flips and waves at the bottom because i tuck my hair behind my ears pretty often. but my birthday is coming up and i can ask for a chi straightener. i was wondering if they really are worth the money and would prevent my hair from "unstraightening" during the day? also, any recommendations as to which one i should get (in the chi line) would be helpful. (:
Okay, I don`t have wavy hair -- I have CURLY hair. All of the other straighteners except a few including the chi I`ve tried, my hair ends up wavy by the end of the day.
I`ve had mine for about a year now & I l-o-v-e it. My hair stays straight during the WHOLE day. I just have the plain one -- It`s black & has tan plates & says Global Beauty on the top. Plus, it doesn`t damage it as much as my old ones.
Also, make sure you protect it. Try getting this stuff called BioSilk. It`s kinda expensive, but it is worth it & it makes your hair verrrrrry shiney. & when you wash it, use a shampoo for dry or damaged hair unless it makes your hair to oily. & make sure to deep condition is at least twice a week to keep it from getting dried out.
What is the difference between freckles and moles? Im confused because my dad said moles are raised, but in a magazine they should a healthy mole that didnt appear to be raised.
Thanks.
This website describes them & stuff:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/skin/AN00399
i have like one person that i would call a friend so guys pretty much stay away from me... do guys mind if a girl is a LITTLE overweight, not much!!
i really want some guy friends im going to high school next year and NEVER had a boyfriend either!
so i want to broaden my horizon.
girls: please give me tips about meeting people at my all girls hs where i know NOONE! and meeting guys in the brother school.
guys: same lol. how do u like girls to meet you at a school dance or whatever?
thanks in advace
14/f
Personally, guys are way easier to talk to girls.
As soon as you walk away, they won`t talk about you. They don`t care about 'popularity' either or judge people as easily as most girls. Just think of it like that.
With girls, ugh. You won`t find too many true friends around anymore, but I be you`ll find some. PLEASE, don`t go to the 'popular' people -- they tend to enjoy hurting people. Try & figure out which girls are like you, & then just try to start a conversation with them if you have some classes with them. Just ask them for help about something in class if you`re shy.
They don`t care if you`re a little overweight, as long as you aren`t 500 pounds. =]
Im a 13 year old girl and I have only dated... 3 guys my entire life. I want to know, what do guys look for in a girl? I mean, I'm confident, not too smart, I have a sunny disposition, I'm sort of a tomboy, but I think dating is alright. I want to have a good relationship with a guy, not a bad one like my previous ones. Can anybody help me?
Um, I hate when people answer my question when I ask a guy to, but I`m gonna answer yours anyways.
I have wayy more guy friends than girls just because they have less drama & crap, so trust me, I know what I`m talking about.
It usually depends on the guy. Some are stupid & just like girls if they`re pretty or not. Then there`s alot who as long as you`re average looking, nice, confident, and/or funny ... chances are, they`ll like you. Just flirt & talk with them more & you`ll find a guy soon. =]
one the one where it says "meteor shower" or sumthin and it has the bomb wat do i do to pass it
Hah, this`ll help you wayyyy more.
1 - Four
2 - No, But a Tin Can
3 - K.O
4 - Click "The Answer"
5 - Press the button then without releasing the mouse move over to the next button.
6 - Shallots
7 - An Elephant
8 - Below the E is a green check mark that says OK. Click it
9 - Top right box ("That One")
10 - Teeth
11 - n
12 - Click the dot abobe the i in the word "Click"
13 - F'TAANG
14 - TORCH
15 - Spell HORSE
16 - H
17 - Click the level number (17)
18 - Hammer
19 - Blue,Orange,Green,Green,Yellow
20 - Seal
21 - Top left box
22 - +1 Skip
23 - BRAN
24 - Click the "V" in the word "lives" (bottom left)
25 - Shoe Polish
26 - Arsefacey
27 - Go to 28
28 - Abundance
29 - Egg mayonaise
30 - (See Q5)
31 - Woof. Woof. Woof.
32 - Babycham and human feaces
33 - 7
34 - Move your cursor off the screen until all 3 elephants are in
35 - Wait. Click the button when it appears
36 - A walk
37 - Of Course Not
38 - Mary Rose
39 - Cylindrical Adventures
40 - (See Q5)
41 - Click on Afro
42 - Click the 42nd 42 (Bottom row second from the left)
43 - Tom Cruise
44 - Complete the puzzle. Click in the little circle in the arrow, top right.
45 - Top right
46 - Bottom Left
47 - Click the button
48 - SNAAAAKE! (Top right)
49 - SPLAPP-ME-DO
50 - O.K.
51 - Keep clicking on the left monster (blue one)
52 - Second from the right (3rd from left)
53 - But PA might not.
54 - No, about 20cm off the ground
55 - QUICK! Top right. A game console for wholemeal biscuits
56 - Click the blue dot, then red, then blue then yellow
57 - Erm one?
58 - Shepards pie
59 - Repeatedly Click on the bottom left thing
60 - Yes
61 - Thumbs up (top left)
62 - Click the moss
63 - Tasteless white filth
64 - Egg > 28
65 - Click on the word "Largest"
66 - QUICK! Click the ! at the end of the question
67 - Big hairy arsonist
68 - Click and hold your mouse from the top of the back of his neck, down his back to his tail and then, let go. Do this over and over until the green bar is full.
69 - Lol, 69!
70 - Using it's anus
71 - Click the top left when it's green
72 - Below the question number
73 - Top-right
74 - Know one knows that
75 - QUICK press the escape button below the level number
76 - Sugar, Honey, Honey
77 - Question 77
78 - Four
79 - Click the "u" in "what do you mean".
80 - Filthy Romanians
81 - Move mouse up and down pole repeatadly
82 - Click all the nails
83 - National Dislexic Association
84 - Move over the button. Right click. When you see the star. Click on it.
85 - I loved it!
86 - The Prince
87 - In the circle 87 click the invisible dot
88 - Click repeatadly on his foot as fast as you can
89 - Blindness
90 - Nonce
91 - Tear paper from left to right. Start about 2/3 way down on left. You don't have to click. Just find the start of the tear and follow it across the page with your mouse
92 - Click in descending order... 194, 27, 26, 14, 9, 3, 2.5, 1, 0.4
93 - Drag the bomb away from the upper right corner. The arrow is under it.
94 - Do Nothing. Bomb is a dud.
95 - Move mouse off-screen. When the cat chases the bug, click the button
96 - A right mess
97 - +10 Times
98 - The WORDS Blue, Red, Blue, Yellow (Be careful)
99 - Click the sign when the lights turn green
100 - Two
101 - Type chihuahua
102 - Touch the circles but not the squares, when a small square appears, don't touch anything.
103 - Find the tomato. Before everything vanishes, put your mouse between the top of the letters "C" and "H"
104 - Click on the sad yellow moon. Bottom right corner
105 - Mouse over and type Banana out of the "B" in gooseberry, the "A" in apple and the SECOND "N" in nectarine
106 - Complete the game and DONT use a skip.
107 - Move your mouse over "I am ignore u" but don't click it, it will come up with game over. Ignore this and wait.
108 - Type in the missing numbers WITH SPACES. (4 8 15 16 23 42)
109 - click the monkey as quickly as possible, click it's poop, click the arrow in the poop.
110 - You must use ALL the skips in the game. Make sure you got the ones from the space level.
so its summer..yay! but i live in the middle of nowhere and i cant drive and my parents work so i have no way to get places. I usually just stay inside all day. any ideas on what i should do?
15/f
Some of these are probably gonna sound incredibly stupid, but they`re at least something to do.
Exercise -- If you have any exercise equiptment, use it. Or just do sit ups or run or anything like that.
Phone -- Call your friends & talk. Or you can just prank call people with the *67 thing.
http://evanlim.org/stuff/pranks.html
Cook -- Like just make up recipes. Haha, it`s kinda fun if you like cooking.
Camera -- Take stupid pictures or make even stupider videos ... or just look at whatever pictures you have on it.
Computer -- Make a website. Go to addicting games.com. Hah, if you go to that, take the impossible quiz.
Friends -- Just invite some people over or see if their parents can drop you guys off to see a movie.
Listen to the radio, or if you have an iPod, download songs. Watch a movie, clean the house or your room, look at old yearbooks, read, etc.
EDIT: Click on the exlaimation point.
Haha, or you can go to google & type in guide to the impossible quiz. =]
so i started a new school this year and i want to sit with popular kids at lunch and they are like my bffl but my othe bffl i have known them for a lot longer and the ones i have known longer are like all over me and will get pissed if i dont sit with them what do i do?
Noooo.
Alright, want to know what I have learned this year & I will never forget as long as I live? Those people who you called 'popular' probably talk about everyone who you sit with as soon as they leave ALOT. Now I`m not saying that`s what they do for sure, I said PROBABLY. If I were you, I would stick with the ones who have always been there for you rather they`re popular or not. You didn`t say that the 'popular' kids got mad when you didn`t sit with them, so sit with the ones you know longer.
people on this site think they are so mature and know everything but they don't know shit. (some do, most dont.) first of all, alot of people on this site believe that if they live a simple life and dont care about electronics and huge houses that they are better than people who care about their appearence and want nice things. just because i have some designer stuff doesnt mean im not a good person right?!! i shop at all of the expensive stores but its because i LIKE the clothes. if you like walmart thats good for you but i dont. and i dont give a f*** what the "popular" kids think. i do what i want and just because i want nice stuff and care about my looks doesnt mean im immature. alot of people on this site are prejudice. and prejudice means PRE JUDGING. you guys are pre judging teenagers just because they give a care about how they look or what they buy. and usually its the adults who critisize teenagers. but if you havent noticed alot of teenagers are smart and they dont always follow the crowd... these uninformed people give us teenagers sterotypes when they havent even met all of us. i say i shop at abercrombie and fitch and suddenly i have all these people calling me a follower. i know how i am and i dont follow. i lead. wow, so i like the same stores as other people. BIG DEAL. i dont smoke and drink and im not a slut. i just CARE about my appearence. deal with it! stop judging the teens on this site wrong and calling them whiny bitches because its not us, it's YOU.
opinions please. =)
I don't smoke, drink, or any of that stuff either. There's really no point in it, other than for the idiots who think they`re "cool" to do it. I mean, we aren`t all complete idiots. But because there`s some who are, everyone else thinks every single one of us does. There`s some kids who actually know the difference in right or wrong and half of the time, the parents are the reason they do. But not because they`ve showed us the right way. For probably at least half of us -- or me at least -- they`ve shown the kids the wrong things to do and half of us don`t ever want to put our own kids through that. Seriously, a few days ago, I had my aunt come up to me and say, "Now you better not ever think about smoking. It`s a terrible habit and there`s no point in it." Guess what she was holding? A cigarette. And guess what she was doing? Smoking. Wow, we got some great role models out there.
And I`m not one of the people who just shop at those places to 'fit in' or any of that crap either. I just shop at those places because I happen to actually like the clothes there and I care about how I look. I`m not one of the people who are obsessed with being "popular" ... so I agree with everything you said.
does anyone have one of those chi straightners because my birthday is coming up and i want to ask for one. is it worth it? does it work really good?
which one do you have ?
o yeah and my hair is wavy not curly buy not straight lol somewhere in the middle and its semi thick
Good things:
- Heats up fast.
- Doesn't damage hair as much as most straighteners.
- Straightens your hair no matter how curly/wavy it is.
Bad things:
- Breaks easily.
- Expensive.
Well, I have the original black one that says 'global beauty' or something on it.
I got mine at Ulta & it was around 100 dollars, but trust me when i say this ... it's worth it.
okay me and my friends are friends for 2 years.i told my friend that im moving to china this year and i dont think im gonna come back , last month we were doing good but this month she's acting weird because im leaving in 3 or 2 weeks and she doesnt really talk to me all of the sudden shes quite, and feels like shes ignoring me she looked pretty sad and all i asked her whats wrong she just said nothing and just kept walking is she sad because im leaving or she doesnt like me at all?
Alright, she's sad, but that's probably not the whole thing.
When someone moves, there can be two types of people. Some will try and spend every second of their life with you till you move and the other tries to pull away from you, so it's not as hard when they have to see you go. I think she's the second one, though.
Goodluck!
alittle backround: my friend used to like this kid names bobby, they likes eachother. but, this was awhile ago and he told her recently I was really hot. he explained to her that he wanted to be just friends with her and said he wanted her to care for him only in a friend way. she was getting pissed he thought I was hot and talked to me.
story: well I had a party to go to on saturday and I invited bobby. my friend(same one) had been over my house since friday, she wouldn't stop talking about him. saying to me he was doing this just to make her jealous. pretty much making me feel like crap. bobby explained to me that he wanted to spend time with me there, since he has been asking me to hang out. my friend jess(same one) said if I ignored her or talked to him all night she'd be mad. so we went to the party, he came around 10ish I didn't instantly talk to him, I kinda ignored him I guess. well since there were underaged drinking the cops were called. we were all in a room, about 10 people, jess was downstairs the whole time. well I was sitting next to bobby and his friend john. bobby would lay on me, put his head up to mine and talk to me, stroke my legs. he kept asking if I was mad at him. I rejected him about 4 times, he tried to hold my hands, kiss me, and hug me. he was saying if the cops come we could act like we are going out if you want and he would put his arms around me. he was also like I passed you 5 times and you never even said hi. his friend john was also flirting with me, touching my legs, touched my boob, grabbing me by the waist and rubbing my arms, he asked if I had a boyfriend, and I'm pretty sure bobby gave him look, and he goes "oh you have bobby." I got home and my friend was pissed at me because bobby likes me and I like him. well I asked bobby how his night was, and if he got into trouble with his parents, because he was home late and he goes " whatever my night sucked, you ignored me, and you gave me no attention, I felt like I shouldn't have been there and if I wasnt it wouldn't of matter to you, and he also said all I wanted was to be with you." today my friend jess told everybody at school I was the bad person, and she was mad at me.
my questions are: am I wrong? was I mean to bobby? does he like me, not wanna hook up with me? what should I do about this ? does john just want to hook up?
...bobby is 3 years older than me, and age doesn't matter. he's 17
jess needs help.
she's got some jealousy issues.
okay, first of all, you were NOT wrong. no matter what she says, don't you let her make you feel bad or feel like you did anything wrong. you can't control who bobby likes.
you might have been a little bit rude, BARELY though. whenever you see him at school say this:
"hey. alright, you know jess? well, she said that if i talked to you all night, she would be mad. i don't know. i wasn't really thinking & i didn't want her mad at me. i'm sorry."
in my opinion, i think he likes you.
GO OUT WITH HIM! lol.
& john probably just wanted to hook up or something. OR bobby told him ahead of time to do that just to see how you'd act.