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so i started a new school this year and i want to sit with popular kids at lunch and they are like my bffl but my othe bffl i have known them for a lot longer and the ones i have known longer are like all over me and will get pissed if i dont sit with them what do i do?
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Alright, want to know what I have learned this year & I will never forget as long as I live? Those people who you called 'popular' probably talk about everyone who you sit with as soon as they leave ALOT. Now I`m not saying that`s what they do for sure, I said PROBABLY. If I were you, I would stick with the ones who have always been there for you rather they`re popular or not. You didn`t say that the 'popular' kids got mad when you didn`t sit with them, so sit with the ones you know longer.
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Are you only sitting with the popular kids at lunch because they're popular? Probably, since you had to mention the fact that they were popular in the question. Stick with your true friends-- clearly you're closer with them, and imagine how you would feel if one of them ditched you to sit with the people they deemed cooler than you? In the end, it's your true friends who you're going to want, and you know that if you abandon them, you're probably going to loose them. Good luck :)
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I think I would sit with the friends who are better, truer friends. The ones who treat me as a friend should be treated.
Popularity status aside.
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