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whats wrong with my friend?
okay me and my friends are friends for 2 years.i told my friend that im moving to china this year and i dont think im gonna come back , last month we were doing good but this month she's acting weird because im leaving in 3 or 2 weeks and she doesnt really talk to me all of the sudden shes quite, and feels like shes ignoring me she looked pretty sad and all i asked her whats wrong she just said nothing and just kept walking is she sad because im leaving or she doesnt like me at all?
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Alright, she's sad, but that's probably not the whole thing.
When someone moves, there can be two types of people. Some will try and spend every second of their life with you till you move and the other tries to pull away from you, so it's not as hard when they have to see you go. I think she's the second one, though.
Goodluck!
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I think she's really upset that you're leaving. It's not that she doesn't like you, she just doesn't want to be close you to so that it doesn't hurt as much when you're gone.
Imagine if you were in her situation, you'd be pretty up set too right?
Try talking to her and tell her that you'll stay in touch via e-mail/msn or letters or something and that you'll see her sometimes (that's if you plan on visiting).
That may help cheer her up. But try to be understanding, hopefully you can see her point of view of this.
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Okay i think your friends just really sad. Imagine if she was leaving you? Shes probably very upset because your such a great friend and she doesnt want to lose you. Just tell her that even though your moving you'll still be friends and you'll stay in touch and hopefully visit, that might cheer her up. She'll be okay in a while just tell her your friendship wont change and you cant wait to see her again. Hope your friends okay.
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