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This Is A Question to guys, i need help with this.
Im a 13 year old girl and I have only dated... 3 guys my entire life. I want to know, what do guys look for in a girl? I mean, I'm confident, not too smart, I have a sunny disposition, I'm sort of a tomboy, but I think dating is alright. I want to have a good relationship with a guy, not a bad one like my previous ones. Can anybody help me?
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13, 3 guys.
Why is that bad?
I'm 15 and I've had 2 boyfriends.
You're so young, no need to rush.
Anyway, I know I'm not a guy but I've heard guys say this to me:
Guys like girls who are themselves, funny, but can be serious when needed. Someone who isn't rude to their friends, someone who doesn't boss them around and can let them have time with their friends & family. They like someone they can talk to and also have fun with.
I hope that helps.
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you are ONLY 13. its okay, dont worry about trying to impress guys, and three is alot, TRUST ME. If you want a good relationship, you just have to be yourself, and wait for that special person to like you for YOU. Even if it takes forever, at least you werent anything you weren't. thats whats important. seriously. stay true to yourself! and the guy will come! but it can also wait. :)
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well. im on the phone with this one kid right now, who is like a jock, and hott and everything, and i'll ask him. what he thinks of you. kkkkk...
"its good that you're like confident, because guys don't like it when girls have there heads down, or there nose up in the air. as long as your not stupid, and a guy can have a conversation with you, then its all good. since im a jock, i honestly dont want to date a girl, who is a tomboy. i might as well just date a guy. i wanna date a girl who is the exact opposite of me. someone who doesnt wanna sit and watch sports with me, and knows exactly whats going on."
so basically, yeah. i hope that helps k bye
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Um, I hate when people answer my question when I ask a guy to, but I`m gonna answer yours anyways.
I have wayy more guy friends than girls just because they have less drama & crap, so trust me, I know what I`m talking about.
It usually depends on the guy. Some are stupid & just like girls if they`re pretty or not. Then there`s alot who as long as you`re average looking, nice, confident, and/or funny ... chances are, they`ll like you. Just flirt & talk with them more & you`ll find a guy soon. =]
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I'm a girl, but I couldn't help but butt in...
3 guys at age 13. That's not bad. You're still very young, and your past relationships probably weren't even relationships at all. The special guys are worth waiting for. Trust me, I know. It sounds a bit corny, but if you're changing to meet other people's standards, then a guy isn't gonna fall in love with the real you. And, worse, the guy that you're really meant for won't be able to love you, because you're too busy pretending to be somebody else.
Take it slow and value your relationships. You're still young and you'll have many more hearts to break as you get older.
Good luck and God bless. <3
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