Hey, basically I've decided to cut off all contact with this person. And it's been about 5 days now, problem is, they haven't called at all. That obviously makes me feel like shit, like they don't care at all that we're not talking, etc. But I CANNOT/WILL NOT call them. I need some willpower, basically someone to say some things that will help me NOT call him. He is 17/m, I'm 16/f. PLEASE help, I DO NOT want to give in, but it hurts that he doesn't show he cares at all! THANKS!
Well, think about whatever it was that they do make you WANT to cut off all contact with them. List all of the things they`ve done to hurt you or make you sad some how. If you have a cell phone & their number`s in it, delete it. OR just take your mind off of it -- go see a movie (comedy), go shopping, have friends over, etc. [ xY0M0MMAx's advice column | Ask xY0M0MMAx A Question ]
You_Got_Advice answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:38 pm: if he doesn't care you aren't talking, why should you care? obviously he's an ass and why would you want to call somebody that doesn't care if you're in their life or not? you just have to think "i dont need him" and know you're doing the right thing for you. [ You_Got_Advice's advice column | Ask You_Got_Advice A Question ]
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