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I am a 15 year old girl and whenever I shave my armpits its like I dont get all the hair off. It leaves little short hairs and my razor is new so I dont know, my friends seem to get it all off, and I am so self conscious of my armpits because of it. (link)
One way to make sure all stubble is gone is to get them waxed. It hurts temporarily but only takes five minutes to get done. It also lasts for a much longer time. Some salons and spas do it for as cheap as $5.00!


ok my boyfriend and i had sex and he never jizzed in me but i am scared i could still be pregnat?? am i? (link)
There's always a chance you could be if he didn't use a condom or if you aren't on birth control. You might want to take a pregnancy test just to be sure because some sperm may have been released prior to him cumming. Hope I helped


ok so there's this boy that i was obsessd with this year because over the summer we broke up after 8 months, but i still wanted him back because he was the best thing that happened to be in a while. Now, i have a new boyfriend and we're completely happy but i keep on thikning about the old guy when im with my new boyfriend. i don't want to have these feelings, but sometimes when i think of the memories it makes me feel guilty of my boyfriend. (link)
Do you still want to be with your new boyfriend? If you do, just remember that what happened is unchangeable. Be happy with what you have now and just try to have fun. If you and your ex are meant to be then maybe you can get back together after a while. I hope I'm help to you.


my friend is goin out with this lad for about 4 months now and she want to have sex with him and she is still a virgin! but she told him that she wasnt so she wants to know is there a way of hiding the fact that she is?.. (link)
He won't even realize if she's a virgin if she just stays calm and doesn't freak out. If she freaks out it will show that she is uncomfortable. Also let him lead so then she won't have a lot to deal with :) I hope I helped!


My friend recently got a boyfriend and I helped hook them up. I am really happy for them but ever since they've started going out I've been having this weird feeling like I'm jealous. But, I don't even like him like that he's just my friend. What does this mean?

P.S. I like somebody else and I already told him. (link)
This has happened to me before and I think that jealousy isn't a good way to describe it. Its just hard to think wow the people I hooked up don't need my help anymore and they are becoming their own people. The feeling will die down I promise. Go out and do something with other people and totally forget about them. They are in the beginning stage and that is always the most amazing section. :) I hoped I helped!


im a 15 a girl and my boyfriend and i went to have sex and he couldnt get his penis in it hurt
a bit we tried again and it happened again
its not real big what can we do? (link)
A lubricant would make it a lot easier but if you can't buy that you could use saliva. Also if he fingers you before it could stretch you out a little and make it easier. Even if it hurts still let him go in because it will stop hurting you just need to stretch out a little. I'm sorry girl


My carrier is Altell and I am getting a new phone soon. I am torn between the Blackberry Curve and the LG Tritan. Lots of my friends have the Curve, and it's an okay phone, but I would really like a different one. If the LG Tritan is a good phone, then I want it.

So if anyone has that phone, or has a suggestion for another smart phone that Altell carries (the only carrier that has service in my area) then please help me out. I would love to have a review for the LG Tritan from someone on this website.

Thanks. :) (link)
I have the curve and I love it a lot. I don't know how I ever lived without it! Another good lg phone would be the dare if you like touchscreens. Its really fast and has a bunch of cool options. I had it for a year and loved it. Good luck choosing!


I am a 17th year old female and I want to ask my dad for Birth control.
He has told me before that if I want it, don't hesitate to ask but when the time comes its going to be awkward and weird. So when should I bring it up and what should I say.
My dad is very understanding about everything, I just will feel awkward.
Thank you. (link)
Next time you two go on a walk or are washing dishes together just say dad, I'm respecting your words on how you told me to ask you if I wanted to ever be on birth control. I just want to make sure I'm being safe and would feel much better if I got on. Can you make me an appointment?


Alrite, me and my best friend are really close. I started liking him like a few weeks ago, we've been best friends for a year. but he likes my girl best friend. and i rlly want to go out with him. we got so much in common. We have these cute little fights about "Insane Clown Possie" and "Eminem" its really funny. What do i do to get him to like him? o yea and we are the same age. he lives rite near me. What do i do? you give really good advise (link)
Girl I am SO terribly sorry I'm so late answering this, If you could- would you let me know if you still need this answered? I've been busy with this internship in Paris.


This might be a weird question but I need help finding a good username. My name starts with a K and umm...I like the color green, red, and blue, also black. I'm 13 too. I always have a stupid username and I would always want a better one. I want a really nice and cool username. Thanks! (link)
so i'm assuming you're a girl- so. (if you're not, feedback me & i'll give you guyish options!)

K_baby_xo

xo_k_love

x_K_o

x__kay

k_cutie

k_x07

ect.

[it would really help if you'd let me know your name, and hobbies. sorry these might not be what you have in mind!]



My sixteenth birthday is comin up and I am all out of ideas on what to do. Please tell me some activities that are affordable, little crafts we can do that will last a while, such as something different than just a friendship bracelet. Maybe some fun teen games that we could do in a mall ;) Or you can tell me what you did for your sixtennth birthday :) Something fun ~ thanks (link)
one of the funnest things i think is haeing a huge neighborhood hunt.


you start by splitting up your friends into teams teams of two or three & coming up with a list of random household objects (example-packet of ketchup, papertowel, newpaper, plastic spoons/forks, soda bottles, pencils, etc.)
then give each team a list of the objects and send them hunting around to all your neighborhoods houses looking for these objects.
you can only get ONE object from each house and you simply get the objects by going to the door and asking.
be sure to tell them it's for a hunt though.
:)



happy sixteenth girl!



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ok im 14 and i had sex twice with my boyfriend and i dont know if "it" {cherry} popped becasue everytime we have sex it hurts so bad is that normal for someone? i really really need to know before i have sex again>33 thanks :) (link)
girl, you can't even tell when your cherry pops! it just hurts because it's something you're not used to..it'll get better ;)






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is there a way i can download sims 2 university without having to pay for it? like from a free website or something? cause my sims 2 university cd doesnt work anymore. i think the cd has some scratches. if i cant download it from a website is there anyway i can clean the cd? (link)
there's no way you can download it online but i'd always try to like get it clean with windex of something- that usually works for me.





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What type of hairstyle does Lexi Cyrus have, like in these pics.

http://i34.tinypic.com/20l065x.jpg
http://i38.tinypic.com/24vi81s.jpg
http://i33.tinypic.com/208zdzs.jpg


If someone can find bigger pictures of Lexi Cyrus I would really appreciate it to show my hairdresser, but what type of hairstyle is it called? (Not the sidebangs part, but I'm talking about the rest of her hair) Thanks! (link)
long detailed layers. make sure your hairdresser understands you want LONG detailed layers, not choppy. you could even go into detail by saying you want the layers to start below your shoulder.






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Okay, well i really like this guy. and im in 7 th grade and hes in 9th grade. Last year he was on my bus. and everyone told him tht i was inlove with him. and i asked him out, but he said no =[. and we got some stuff in common. his sister is a year younger then me and we are friends. she tells me that hes mean and stuff like tht. but i really like him. and he knows who i am. we talk sometimes but never in person. only on AIM and we may say like 4 things to eachother. how do i get him to like me? i really like him. (link)
the only thing you can do is just talk to him..he's a few years younger than you so you really have to work on being very mature about the situation. don't be too pushy and definetly don't let your friends be like "she likes you she likes you!"- it'll drive him crazy. good things take time. i wish you luck sweetie! :)









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my boyfriend basically cheated on me, now i want to get REVENGE. i dont want to hurt anybody or vandalize property or whatever, i just want to get even and bring him to his knees. any ideas? please dont say oh be the bigger person dont do that.. yeah i am the bigger person im not the one who cheated.. i just need to have a little fun and this will certainly do it. its all in good fun. im 17 hes 18 and we both live with our parents. (link)
take all his stuff that you're in possesion of, and lay it all in his drive way, hang it off of his trees, or whatever.
(i did this, except i bleached and stained all the stuff before doing so ;) )

or you could just become so very interested in hanging out with ALL of his bestfriends just randomly ;)

and i think you'd have to go majorly extreme to even begin to be as low as he is- so..have fun!



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so i was in the ocean the other day and my boyfriend was fingering me and i started jacking him off but i told him to finish it so that he didnt cum near me cause in the water its harder to control where it all goes... so i went away from him and then a little while later he fingered me again... is that bad?? that cant cause pregnancy right? (link)
i don't think anything went wrong. the only thing i see that could've gone wrong is that he could've touched his cum with his fingers but i doubt cum is any where near as strong in salt water as it is in the open air. think about how disgusting that water is..so i doubt any sperm survived. in my opinion, since there was no direct contact, you're more than okay. :)





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18 me
20 him
-my boyfriend and I will be together for 3 months when he leaves to college in california. in september (8 hrs away if that matters)
-i want to get him a couple of gifts that will remind him of me and that are just funny going away gifts.

-no websites please.
-just ideas.
-he loves baseball favorite team NEW YORK YANKEES. likes basketball favorite team LA LAKERS.
-he likes to do anything thats active and he is an outdoors typea guy but he does like staying home and relaxing sometimes.

hope I helped you so you can help me thx! (link)
a scrapbook/picture collage is always super cute. you could even write him something at the end of the scrapbook mentioning future-tickets promised to a yankees or lakers game. or maybe even just a plane ticket out to see him or for him to come back. letters ALWAYS are wonderful so maybe you could hide one in there somewhere.

my cousin got this really pretty box and bought silly little things and put in stuff that reminded her of him and all their inside jokes and wrapped it all up and snuck it into his trunk so when he was moving in, he found it and was totally suprised. it was too cute.

maybe you could make a care-package like thing sort've like my cousins box idea and put in like his favorite food & yalls favorite movie, and cute stuff like that.


i'm sure whatever you do, he'll absolutley adore! good luck.



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Okay so, I'm 15, I wanted to start using tampons becuase I havn't yet, but I think I'm having trouble putting it in, or something. It seems like theres a lot of tissue or somehing around the place where I stick the tampon in, is that my hymen? its like I can't put it in becuase its super small, its really hard to explain, and like I don't know if this is normal or not. Its the hole where I stick in the tampon, its just really small I think, and it doesn't really open very easily AT ALL. like I have to use my fingers, and even that doesn't really work. Its really weird, what is that? is it normal? Help! I'm a littl freaked, because if Ican't even put in a tampon, could I not be able to have sex? when I'm older though, I'm not sexually active until like college or something. (link)
usually tampons come with directions so i'd be sure to read those over & try again. trying to insert a tampon when you're really dry though is so painful fyi. most girls insert them right after they've peed which makes it much easier. things can only get better with this situation, it just takes time.




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I am in a HUGE fight with one of my best friends at school and she is a really complicated person to get along with! Fights with her are like going into world war! I already said sorry and she isn't cracking! This was all over a HUGE misunderstanding about this boy but then we brought up other things like how we were never really were friends and sometimes I just find myself crying over it all! What should I do? I really don't want to lose my best friend! (link)
aw, i'm so sorry to hear this.
first- since sorry just isn't working, i'd ask her to sit down and have a serious talk with you. that way you can figure out what the problem really is and both of you can learn where the other is coming from. maybe after you discuss it you'll each have a new understanding and she'll be able to forgive you. but don't push her and try to guilt trip her..that will only make her not want to forgive you even more.
i hope everything works out. :)


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