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i need to know if it hurts to get ur cherry popped
ok im 14 and i had sex twice with my boyfriend and i dont know if "it" {cherry} popped becasue everytime we have sex it hurts so bad is that normal for someone? i really really need to know before i have sex again>33 thanks :)
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The person below me explained that getting your cherry popped is basically having your hymen ripped. But in fact, a lot of the times your hymen rips or tears slowly over time without you even realizing it, or having anything to do with sex.
If you have had sex twice, then there is a pretty good chance you do not have a hymen. If it still hurts, it probably has nothing to do with that. It's probably because you aren't lubricated enough when you have sex. If you can't get lubricated enough on your own, you can always buy KY.
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I first had sex when I was 14, and did it ever hurt, haha.
The "cherry" concept is kind of difficult to explain. It's not actually, like round or anything. In fact, it's a piece of skin over your vagina called the heimen (sp?).
Usually you remove some of this piece of skin when you first use tampons, but that's not the case for everyone. As I'm sure you've figured out, a penis is alot bigger than a tampon.
If you've only had sex twice, I wouldn't be concerned if I were you. Your vagina changes shape and size to accomodate things (i.e. a penis, tampons, fingers, specculum, ect.). However, it can still be uncomfortable the first few times.
Try using more lubricant, get something water based as to prevent allergies. You can purchase them at most drug stores/pharmacies without anyone knowing. ALWAYS use a condom. Those are lubricated but for some females it's not enough, and it's a must in preventing unwanted pregnancies and STD's/HIV.
You could also use a vaginal moisturizer. KY makes a great one, called silk-E or something.
Good luck.
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well,
he may just be to "big" or hes going in a little deep most girls cant tell when there cherry pops
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honestly,
it hurts because your body is telling you that it's not really ready for sex. and at 14, i have to agree.
god our generation is so oversexed.
-collin
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girl, you can't even tell when your cherry pops! it just hurts because it's something you're not used to..it'll get better ;)
x's. <3
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