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short 'orgasms' why?
this is probably the wrong category. again. but oh well.
i've been asking lots of questions lately so sorry.
okay. this is goingn to sound dumb but whatever. when i get horny i masturbate, and blahblah. but once i climax, i'm done, and i'm just like, "okay. whatever. how could i not resist doing that?" i don't know why, and it's kind of annoying. maybe i should just stop doing it so much and then my 'orgasm' if that's even what it is, would last longer.
i also feel kind of guilty afterwards, because i'm already paranoid of having something happen to my family or pets, and though i'm not really, really religious i do believe in god, and i pray occasionally, so i'm worried that he's going to punish me for masturbating, even though i'm not hurting anyone or thinking of anyone when i do it.
sorry my questions are all kind of messed up but i don't want to ask people in real life. haha.
thank you.
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Masturbate all you want. God himself masturbates 5 times a day. What do you think sleet is? He really only gets horny when it is cold enough to rain, but not really cold enough to snow.
But, I don't believe in God so I think you should be able to do whatever you want.
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OH honey it isn't a sin! Feel free to do whatever you please with yourself, in fact it would be a little unhealthy not to. It's perfectly normal, just not talked about very much amoung young women. And as you continue and learn what you like, your climaxes will be different....sometimes long and sometimes short. Don't you stress.
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From you comment about worrying that God will do something bad to your family, I'm assuming that you may have heard that masturbation is a sin.
To the best of my knowledge, this is the scripture that many people point to in order to say that masturbation is a sin:
(Genesis 38:8 - 10) "And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled [it] on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also."
See, Onan's brother was dead, but Onan was supposed to marry his brother's widow and make her pregnant and the resulting baby would be raised as his brother's baby, not his. Some people translate these passages as saying that instead of making her pregnant, he masturbated, then got killed for it because he "spilled [it] on the ground" (his seed).
If you read it, it's pretty obvious that's not what happened because it first says "he went in unto his brother's wife". So basically, he had sex with his brother's wife, then pulled out at the last second in an effort not to make her pregnant. He didn't want to "donate" his seed to his dead brother, but he still went ahead and had sex with his brother's wife, you see?
It had nothing to do with masturbation. That's the way, I read it, anyway.
If, however, you are a Catholic, there may be some other reason why the Catholic Church thinks it's a sin. If they have a different reason, it might be from one of the exclusively Catholic doctrines.
The Catholic Church believes that the Bible is not the only authority. Their teachings include such documentation as Catechisms, and Papal Encyclicals (defined as "authoritative teaching instruments from the Vicar of Christ" (the Pope)) which have been written and added to throughout the years of the history of the Catholic Church.
Because of this, the Catholic Church has many teachings, beliefs, and traditions which are different from a Christian who believes the Holy Bible is the exclusive authority of Christianity.
Their belief that masturbation is a sin may come from one of these other authorities, rather than the Biblical scripture I quoted.
For more information about the differences between Catholicism and *exclusively* Bible-Based Christianity, see the following link:
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Not doing it isn't going to make the orgasm longer. You should probably try fantasizing about something. That way, when you've already had your orgasm, the fantasy is still going and you can keep going too.
God isn't going to do anything to you. You're celebrating your sexuality. That's a GOOD thing. Never feel guilty for masturbating. I don't know if there's a God or not, but if there is, why would he care about you pleasuring yourself when there are people living in slavery?
So just masturbate. Have fun with it. Get experimental--it gets boring when you do the same thing every time. And don't worry about it.
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Ok god isn't gonna do anything bad to your family because you masterbate.. and how do you even get turned on to do that if you don't think of anyone lol. but anyway.. go to your doctor and ask him (or her) how you can make them last longer. it may seem wierd but it will help.
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