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Q: I used to be confident, satisfied, and comfortable with myself.

Now, I'm far from it. I can do anything without judging my every thought, every want, every action. Even as I write this I worry 'what would people think if they found out I result to an internet advice sight to gain some sense of mind'. I'm going crazy, I hate not being able to do anything without worrying if it'll hurt me, make me fat, make me lose a friend, break a rule, look dumb, sound stupid, look ugly, seem dorky, or even if I'll regret it the next minute.

What can I do to clear my head of all my new found insecurities, I don't know what has brought them on me. I'm mentally exhausted from fighting them.
Ok first take some deep breaths
then push out all the negative things u think twords yourself and maybe talk to your mom or someone u can open up to about things
i have low self esteem too and i have manic depression but ive learned to be happy with my self and take life as it comes =]
and maybe think about what caused these insecurities parents, dating, siblings. I hope i helped and if you need anything else let me knnow

Q: ok im 14 and i had sex twice with my boyfriend and i dont know if "it" {cherry} popped becasue everytime we have sex it hurts so bad is that normal for someone? i really really need to know before i have sex again>33 thanks :)
well,
he may just be to "big" or hes going in a little deep most girls cant tell when there cherry pops

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KatieKhaosxo
Hey guys the names Katie i'm 14 and feel free to ask me anything. and if u gotta myspace add me www.myspace.com/iloveeric94

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