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we're two years apart
Okay, well i really like this guy. and im in 7 th grade and hes in 9th grade. Last year he was on my bus. and everyone told him tht i was inlove with him. and i asked him out, but he said no =[. and we got some stuff in common. his sister is a year younger then me and we are friends. she tells me that hes mean and stuff like tht. but i really like him. and he knows who i am. we talk sometimes but never in person. only on AIM and we may say like 4 things to eachother. how do i get him to like me? i really like him.
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Hey, okay well for starters you can't exactly make a guy like you. If he's not interested he's just not interested. Sometimes you just have to pick up the signs he said no once, you barely talk, and his sister says he's mean. Sometimes you just can't get everything you want. He is two years older and maybe the reason he isn't interested is because he wants to find someone his own age. If you really really want him i do have an idea. Okay first make him notice you. When you see him in the hallway or anywhere just walk pass him and don't say anything. Infact pretend he's not even there. Now when he talks to you don't be too anxious. Just be cool and collected. Being that you are in different grades and all you have to realize that he may not like you and that's just that. Well i can't guarantee that this will work, but i have hope. I hope this helped.
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From my friend, Jack's answer:
"First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =]."
But maybe this guy isn't as great as you're making him out to be. His sister knows him better than you, and maybe she's right. Maybe you should try to find another guy who likes you for you, and who won't treat you bad.
-Laura. (16-f)
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Ok, if you want to make him like you than ignore him for a while.
Make yourself busy for a while. Ignore him when you guys chat and talk to his little sister if you guys are friends. Talk to his little sister only. If his little sister want to hang out at her house say yes but only hang out with her. Ignore him unless he offers you a drink. Do this for a month or two weeks. If he misses you he will come to you and not you come to him. You'll se if he likes you or not. If he doesn't then we'll see.
Lifescomplicated
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the only thing you can do is just talk to him..he's a few years younger than you so you really have to work on being very mature about the situation. don't be too pushy and definetly don't let your friends be like "she likes you she likes you!"- it'll drive him crazy. good things take time. i wish you luck sweetie! :)
x's. <3
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