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so confused about this guy
so theres this guy named bobby that i've been talking to. at first he initiated it and we always talked he would text me in the morning then when he was on lunch at work and then when he got off work. we hung out a couple times and the second time he kissed me and everything seemed good. he got a new car but he had to do a lot of work on it so hes been pretty busy lately. one thursday we were supposed to hang out but then he couldn't because he had a lot to do on his car. then he was going away for the weekend and he didn't talk to me all weekend. now hes back but he's been so different and he barely talks to me at all. i'm so confused here i don't know what to do. does anyone know how i can figure out whats going on?
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this could mean 2 things.
1. he is stressed out and seriously does not have time for you
2. he is doing this on purpose to break up with you
if it is option 1. then you should call him and talk to him and let him know that you miss him being around and that you want to know whats going on in his life and that you 2 should hang out so that he can get his mind off of things.
if you think its option 2. then do a test. call him and tell him "i think you are busy but can you call me when you are not busy?" and then just wait. i know... it seems so hard just to wait there and not do anything. but you need to be patient. then, like the other advicenator said, if he does not call back within 2-3 weeks, that means that you are done with him.
you can try to get him back... but i dont think it will work. by getting him back, you can try talking to him more and setting up dates for you 2 to go out. but if he says he cant, then give him a break and have a pause in your relationship with him. then call him again after a few more weeks.
sorry....
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Just text him and tell him that you miss him and for him to let you know when he wants to hang.
Then don't text him for like another 2-3 weeks.
If he doesn't initiate a hang-out time by then, he's stressed and just needs a break from things for awhile.
And you'll just need to let him have that break, otherwise it could make things between you worse, you know?
hope i helped, let me know. =]
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