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party & a guy.
alittle backround: my friend used to like this kid names bobby, they likes eachother. but, this was awhile ago and he told her recently I was really hot. he explained to her that he wanted to be just friends with her and said he wanted her to care for him only in a friend way. she was getting pissed he thought I was hot and talked to me.
story: well I had a party to go to on saturday and I invited bobby. my friend(same one) had been over my house since friday, she wouldn't stop talking about him. saying to me he was doing this just to make her jealous. pretty much making me feel like crap. bobby explained to me that he wanted to spend time with me there, since he has been asking me to hang out. my friend jess(same one) said if I ignored her or talked to him all night she'd be mad. so we went to the party, he came around 10ish I didn't instantly talk to him, I kinda ignored him I guess. well since there were underaged drinking the cops were called. we were all in a room, about 10 people, jess was downstairs the whole time. well I was sitting next to bobby and his friend john. bobby would lay on me, put his head up to mine and talk to me, stroke my legs. he kept asking if I was mad at him. I rejected him about 4 times, he tried to hold my hands, kiss me, and hug me. he was saying if the cops come we could act like we are going out if you want and he would put his arms around me. he was also like I passed you 5 times and you never even said hi. his friend john was also flirting with me, touching my legs, touched my boob, grabbing me by the waist and rubbing my arms, he asked if I had a boyfriend, and I'm pretty sure bobby gave him look, and he goes "oh you have bobby." I got home and my friend was pissed at me because bobby likes me and I like him. well I asked bobby how his night was, and if he got into trouble with his parents, because he was home late and he goes " whatever my night sucked, you ignored me, and you gave me no attention, I felt like I shouldn't have been there and if I wasnt it wouldn't of matter to you, and he also said all I wanted was to be with you." today my friend jess told everybody at school I was the bad person, and she was mad at me.
my questions are: am I wrong? was I mean to bobby? does he like me, not wanna hook up with me? what should I do about this ? does john just want to hook up?
...bobby is 3 years older than me, and age doesn't matter. he's 17
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jess needs help.
she's got some jealousy issues.
okay, first of all, you were NOT wrong. no matter what she says, don't you let her make you feel bad or feel like you did anything wrong. you can't control who bobby likes.
you might have been a little bit rude, BARELY though. whenever you see him at school say this:
"hey. alright, you know jess? well, she said that if i talked to you all night, she would be mad. i don't know. i wasn't really thinking & i didn't want her mad at me. i'm sorry."
in my opinion, i think he likes you.
GO OUT WITH HIM! lol.
& john probably just wanted to hook up or something. OR bobby told him ahead of time to do that just to see how you'd act.
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