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kinds of girls (guys answers too!)
i have like one person that i would call a friend so guys pretty much stay away from me... do guys mind if a girl is a LITTLE overweight, not much!!
i really want some guy friends im going to high school next year and NEVER had a boyfriend either!
so i want to broaden my horizon.
girls: please give me tips about meeting people at my all girls hs where i know NOONE! and meeting guys in the brother school.
guys: same lol. how do u like girls to meet you at a school dance or whatever?
thanks in advace
14/f
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i never knew a guy to like girls who are overweight. i just asked my one really good guy friend this question a little while ago.. [hes really popular, a major jock, and just way hott.] ..
"ew, what if i go to kiss her and it would be like her other chin? and then what if shes so fat, i cant even like reach her lips, because of her stomach. and when they wear those clothes, that are tight, and you can see all there rolls. sicknasty. i know looks arnt everything, but if im walkin in the mall, and i see two twin girls, one who is skinny or normal or whatever and shes like just really hott and then her twin sister who is the exact same as her, but fat, im obviously gonna pick the skinny one. but that doesnt mean that like really skinny girls are attractive either, because if they dont have any tits, i wont like them. they gotta be average. but any more then average, isn't attractive."
for meeting new friends, for girls, thats easy, just be polite, and smile. find ones who you think are similar to you, and just ask them for there screename or something. i switched schools, at the end of the year, and i still made a ton of friends, trust me it works out. (:
and for that other questions, about how to meet guys ,i asked my one other guy friend, who is average, and like really cutee..
"i like girls, who arn't afraid to talk to me. like they will come up to me, and just be like whats up, and not just stare at me. if you want to talk to a guy, just go up to them and be like hey, im whoever. and guys usually wont be mean, and theyll talk you out. but once you meet them, dont be all clingy, and annoying. because they'll probably end up telling you, to go away."
i hope that helpedd. (:
kcya.
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Personally, guys are way easier to talk to girls.
As soon as you walk away, they won`t talk about you. They don`t care about 'popularity' either or judge people as easily as most girls. Just think of it like that.
With girls, ugh. You won`t find too many true friends around anymore, but I be you`ll find some. PLEASE, don`t go to the 'popular' people -- they tend to enjoy hurting people. Try & figure out which girls are like you, & then just try to start a conversation with them if you have some classes with them. Just ask them for help about something in class if you`re shy.
They don`t care if you`re a little overweight, as long as you aren`t 500 pounds. =]
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First of all, if a boy is worth having as a friend/boyfriend, he WONT care if you are slightly overweight. There are some jerks that only like stick thin girls, but usually they are not worth it. So mostly, and you have probably heard this before, just be yourself. I learned from experiance. When I wear what I was comfortable wearing, I had a huge group of friends. But when I tried to be SUPER popular I ended up without many at all. To meet guys, go to sporting events, parties, clubs, just so the guys that you enjoy what they do too. Dont be shy, just talk to them. Theres nothing to be nervous around boys, they are just people like you.
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