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Does anyone know where I can buy the movie Cheats? It's a pretty old movie and most of my friends haven't heard of it. I'm in love with it, though and I'd really like to find it somewhere.

Thanks

Hey, sorry I don't know if they do have it, but try checking at the following:

www.overstock.com

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Hello,

I'm that type of girl who never wears make-up at all. Some girls that I know look, well, scary without make-up, but I don't really look that bad, and I'm pretty critical of my looks. I was wondering, is there any make-up tips that you can give, such as how to apply eyeliner, what shades look good on my skin type. I'm pretty tan so my skin is fair. Is there anything I can apply so I don't look like a make-up junkie, but people notice I started to put on make-up? I don't want to put on too much make-up, I'm only 14.

Seventeen and Cosmogirl give the BEST advice for all skin types. You should pick up one of them, or both, they will help you with EVERY makeup need or question you have. Personally, I'd reccomend a light pink lipgloss with a bit of foundation, and eyeliner, but I usually don't wear it, so I honestly can't tell you how to perfect it, but I heard if you put it over a lighter for a second it make it easier to apply. Hope I've Helped!

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hey guyz i really need help! ok april fools is coming up and me and my best friend want to do something to our boyfriends but we dont know what to do! please help us....april fools is tommorow!thanks

Hey .. I'll tell you what I've been telling practically everyone else lol, there great and funny! ♥

look what I've done in the past:

1. Wear a wig to school [haha, I have brown hair and I wore red long wavy and they were like WHAT DID YOU DO?]

2. Fake oreos that are really chocolate - They sell molds for them or they might be sold in a candy store near you. They always fool people, some don't even know until they eat them!

3. Fake food - made of chocolate- There's a site that sells it, I think chocolatecreations.com or something, but obviously I think it'd be too late to order- they have little tv dinners that are purely chocolate that you could bring to lunch.

4. Get that sparkling jello mix or w/e its called, and make it in champagne glasses! It looks like champagne until you go to TRY to sip it, then the jokes on them.

5. Just be silly. Make jokes like "Oh my god, what is on your shirt?" when there not expecting it. It's basically the oldest trick in the book, but if they aren't paying much attention, they will fall for it.


HAVE A GREAT APRIL FOOLS!

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Ok well i'm 16 and cute (lol if i do say so myself :D ) ok well I have pretty thick hair. Its not like obesely thick or whatever but it's thick... and its not like extremely frizzy or crimpy or anything... but it gets a bit frizzy after blow drying it and its naturally wavvy. Do you have any advice for me? I hate that it's as thick as it is. I dont even shower every day BECAUSE that means i would have to do my hair all over again and it takes forever to straighten. When I blowdry it straight it not only takes forever, but it poofs out and i have to sleep on it like 3 nights in order for it to look good. some days I even had to go to school with it greasy just because it sucks when i wash it. ugh its so annoying! any ideas besides chemically straightening it and getting it thinned out (already done the thinning and chemically straighening it isnt an option for me)

JOHN FRIEDA .. Frizz Eaz Serum. I've heard it works WONDERS. Good luck! ♥

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ok so my guy friend i like him but idk he's been acting werid huging me and stuff touching my hair holding me and he always says i love u babe its freakin me out! wat should i do ?

He obviously likes you! ♥ If you aren't interested in him in that way, just.. be honest. Don't let him fall for you and then get extremely hurt when he finds out. If you just want to be friends, tell him that right now, you just want to be friends. However, the "I Love You" thing can be friendly, but I doubt it. Hope I've Helped!

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ok..is it possible for someone to only have their period every other month??...i rate

Well, everyone's body is different, so it might just be. Some other factors that affect it is if you just got your period [it can be irregular for up to 2 years!] or if your sexually active. It most likely is normal, but you should tell your mom anyway and tell your regular doctor just so they know. Hope I've Helped!

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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly.

First off, you have really nice friends to try to get someone to makeout with you and not trying to make you feel leftout. BE YOURSELF and you WILL find a guy- a guy who will LOVE YOU for YOU, and not any other reason, and of course you deserve a guy- every girl does, especially when they are good people! Just, enjoy your life now, and the right guy WILL come along, you can't plan it, and as for being prettier- don't worry- I'm sure your great just the way you are, but if you want to feel "flirty" you might like to wear some cute lipgloss! Hope I've Helped!

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ok so i liike tthis boy he likes me..but i never talk to him EVER what do i do?

Just get over the awkwardness and talk to him! It's worth a shot- you might even see that you don't like him as much as you thought, or like him even more! I Hope I've Helped! ♥

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In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks!

Hey!

I faced this little problem in 7th grade and actually now a little bit lol!

Spanish- what I take- is a better choice if you are interested in a career in law, medicine, and/or science. The advantage is its used more in the USA than French, and used more worldwide.

French- It's extremely fun! I loved it! It's good to know because you never know when you'll need to know it, or just take it for fun.

Either one is easy to grasp, Spanish however, does have less accent marks lol. I chose Spanish because I felt that I could use it more in everyday life, but it was a hard choice, and I'm sure either one really would have worked out. Choose from your heart- it's what I did! HOPE I'VE HELPED ♥

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Kind of a dumb question but...

How do you make pancakes with a mix? Like what do you add? I lost the box and I can't remember...

Also, where can I find info about the history of pancakes? I've already googled it and asked jeeves but i can't find anything. (It's for a project)

Tres merci!

Hey! Usually it's 1 or 2 eggs [really doesn't matter much lol] with a cup of milk. But, it really does depend on what brand or how big the quanitity of mix is, but there basically all the same. Some require like a third cup of oil, so if you want you can add it. For the pancake thing, check out maybe www.foodtv.com, you might find something, or you might want to try going to Barnes and Noble and looking at a little Kid's cookbook- they usually tell you how things began and stuff. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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ok.. well mayy 22nd is this crossfade concert that REALLY want to go to. im 13 (f) lol and my mom wont let me go because of the place that its in. its called toads place its in new haven connecticut (kinda ghetto but not really} and i need to convince her to let me go, because she doesnt understand how much that i really want to, their my fav band and blah blah blah.. so what im asking is how can i convince her to let me go? thanks for the help! ashley

I doubt you will be able to convince her, she seems to really care about you, just realize why she is doing this, especially because of the areas. Maybe she could..go with you? I mean, she could just sit there and you can still have a great time seeing your favorite band live. Or, you can maybe see if theres other tour dates at a different location. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate

Your friend who is like a sister, tell her how much she means to you and that you need her support. You made a mistake, but atleast you knew enough not to keep doing it. You should be proud that you didn't keep up with it, and your friend should be supporting you, even though you used to cut and you tried this. Try talking to her, like I said, and I'm sure it will work out. ♥ If you need to talk, just message me!

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today im goin to watch a movie with my boyfriend and some friends. i want to wear a thong with the pants in wearing but im afraid that the pants might slip and show my it while im sitting there. im not a slut so i dont want him or anyone else to see it. i dont know if they would tell me if they saw it since most of them dont even know i have any. any pointers?

Hey! A belt would probably help, but don't wear ultra ultra low rise pants, because it will more likely have the chance of popping out if you don't want that. Also, it's not really a big deal if you bend over just be careful and not try to provoke it if you don't want it to happen. Good luck, and have a great time at the movies! ♥

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me and my boyfriend broke up and i think he wants me back. what should i do!!!!???? he flirts with me and he is so sweet to me. should we go out again? plus he said he loved me

First, think about WHY you broke up with him. Then, if you don't feel that it is a major deal, give it a shot again- it won't hurt to just start over, will it?! lol, good luck and hope i've helped! ♥

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hi, i asked a question like 3 days ago and the answers i was getting were...you've got a yeast infection.
my questions is...what exactly is a yeast infection?!

It's an infection in your vagina. It's not really that bad, but if you don't get special cream [Vagisil, over the counter] it can get really bad so if it is the first one that you've ever got and don't know really how to deal with it, go to the doctor, they will explain a little more detailed, and probably tell you to get Vagisil too, and I heard yogurt helps [if you were antibiotics, it can cause a yeast infection, but yogurt prevetns it.] Hope I've Helped!

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We all live in Soutern Utah in a mobile home park. 140 families who live here many of whom are disabled and/or on fixed incomes. Many of us have mobile homes that are on a foundation. A greedy land owner has bought this property and has imposed a 79.5% rent increase that a lot of us just can't make. we have approx. 1 month to figure out what to do. No one here seems to have an answer. This man is known to buy land which he in turn drives people out, then developes it.WHAT CAN WE DO? If anything please let us know. Thank You for your time.

Sorry to repeat giving you what others have suggested, but the only thing I can think of is a petition or going to like City Hall and trying to fight it. I really feel badly and I wish I could help you out more, but I hope everything pulls through for you! If you need to talk, just message me! ♥

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Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!!

Well, if you've been intimate and enjoyed it, you might have a little bit more of "friendship love" for your friend, or you could have enjoyed it and just not really felt anything but friendship after it- get what I kinda mean? I doubt your bisexual, a lot girls experiment [I haven't, so I can't completely tell you off first hand experience]. Just because you tried something, doesn't make you bisexual, so just sort out your thoughts about your friend, and see if its just mind over matter with feelings. Hope I've Helped- and if you need anything just send a message!

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Hey, My best friend and i were wondering were both girls and she's 13 an i'm 14. We have experimented once and we loved it. My best friend doesn't have a boyfriend and either do i. We've experimented 2 or 3 more times. Does this mean for right now were each other's sex partner right now. My best friend and i do act like were a couple when were around each other. We've mentioned a few times that we should be a couple. Just because we experimented 3 times and we've liked it that it means my best friend is my previous sex partner? Help some girls out, please!!

Well, it's your choice to actually be considered a couple, but technically she is your sex partner, well- was lol. It's hard for me to put it in words, its like the same it would be with a guy, except its a girl, not really a big diff I suppose lol ♥ Hope I've Helped

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What's the best way to ask your parents if you can go out on a date- I'm not talking about "boyfriends" that you have in like 7th grade, I mean HS bfs .. and how to tell your parents that you have a bf without feeling-weird and uncomfortable! Thanks

Just be honest- they were once there, so it won't feel uncomfortable after the first time!

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Does anyone know where I can buy "entertainment memorbilia" aka.. The 2005 Bush Inaugarational Balls/Parties on VHS/DVD ? I've already checked ebay, but if someone has it and is going to list it, please let me know- THANKS! I've been looking ALL over and no luck!

Cspan, apparently.

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