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Question Posted Wednesday March 30 2005, 2:56 pm

Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!!

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Gtownhelper321 answered Monday May 16 2005, 7:39 pm:
ok 13/f i think you Bi becouse my sis is a lesbian but first she was bi then i guess she got ovr guys. Well tell you friend and if she is not the same feeling then its ok it just means ur bi

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Pixiemagic14 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 2:35 am:
ok i think your bi or maybe your gay but you just don't want to edmit it.

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Kels answered Saturday April 2 2005, 9:52 am:
its okay! your just going trough puberty, its fine!!

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karazimonki answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:45 pm:
You might be bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that or it could be friend ship love. I don't know test things out see where they go.
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fall_to_pieces answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:53 am:
to me, it sounds like you're bi. that might not be a bad thing, but its not something i would do. that's just me. if you are happy, then go on with.

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alisonmarie answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:55 pm:
To clear up a myth: bisexual or lesbian women are not automatically attracted to every female they see. No one is like that - certain people are attractive because of their attitudes, looks, beliefs, sense of humour, etc. Everyone looks for different things in a person.

You don't have to make decisions about only dating women or only dating men; the world is opening its eyes to see that life and sexuality isn't always black and white. Rather than concentrating on the gender of the people you are with, concentrate on WHY you enjoy spending time with them.

A penis or a vagina does not make someone your perfect partner. It's their soul, their spark of life, the way they connect with you. Don't limit yourself with labels if you aren't sure where you fall - the important thing is to be honest about your feelings and brave enough to follow your heart.

Best of luck.

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X3ReDhEaDX3 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:14 pm:
sounds like your bi to me! idk what to tell ya, expiriment more and see how you like it

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:54 pm:
You might be just confusing your feelings with freindship love..sounds like your lonely to me.. your young and sex is runnin through your mind so it pretty normal..much luv dez x0x0

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xOtWiXi answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:42 pm:
Well, if you've been intimate and enjoyed it, you might have a little bit more of "friendship love" for your friend, or you could have enjoyed it and just not really felt anything but friendship after it- get what I kinda mean? I doubt your bisexual, a lot girls experiment [I haven't, so I can't completely tell you off first hand experience]. Just because you tried something, doesn't make you bisexual, so just sort out your thoughts about your friend, and see if its just mind over matter with feelings. Hope I've Helped- and if you need anything just send a message!

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softballcatb answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:31 pm:
if you think taht you are bisexual,then deal. experiment a couple more times and see which sex you mre feel comfortable

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horsesare666es answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:30 pm:
YOUR 14! You don't know if your bi sexual. Or straight. I've dated girls and guys. "experimented" with each and I STILL don't know. For most of my friends it took them a couple of years exploring to figure out their sexuality. i've only felt strong sexually feeling for a few woman. as i've only felt strong sexually feelings for a few guys... Ur 14... Don't worry about it. Just take ur life slow and see where you are in a few years then examine your sexuality.
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twstandshout32 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:21 pm:
ummm....your bisexual

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