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Okay so me and the boy have been going out for a year now and ive never let him do anything to me until recently. Sure, I've done stuff for him, lots. Either way like I said, basically hes done the two main things you can do to a girl without going the full way, and I got so worried. Because I thought, what on earth could possibly be pleasant about doing something like that?! I worried about it for days, thinking he'd been like ewwwwwwww for days afterwards. Thing is, he always seems keen and I want to know why?
Boys, do you find doing those things to girls in any way attractive or are they just things you do to keep the girl happy?
If you do like to, how much?! And Why on earth?!
Also. Another bit of advice. I always feel wierd about telling my boyfriend I've enjoyed something he's done. For all my life I've been clever, and everyone knows that. They know, and most of my friends and his friends think that I'd never do the things I have done with him. Sure, I'm popular, but I'm innocent too, in the eyes of most people. It feels wierd admitting to pleasure to him, 'cause I figure he mights be creeped out - I don't know why.
Do guys like it when you admit to pleasure??
This all sounds really naive. But I'd love it if you could help me out :)
Thankyou very much :)
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I'm a guy. I've always enjoyed giving the girl pleasure. It's half the fun. Is going down on a girl pleasurable for me? Not really. It's something I don't mind doing. I definitely don't speak for my gender. Some guys like it, some don't. Some do it to pleasure the girl, some refuse.
As for admitting pleasure: communication is important. It's good when you tell him you like something or would like him to do something and I would advise him to do the same. He would be completely lost without your input due do every girl liking different things. It's the best way to fully understand the body of who you're with. If everyone tried to hide how they felt, sex would be quiet and boring.
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can u get pregnent from fingering yourself??????
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Yes.
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Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and I honestly do love him. It's the most serious relationship I've ever been in. We live together and everything.
Lately, though, I've kind of been having second thoughts about this whole thing. We've been fighting quite a bit (but we've always fought), and I just miss dating other people. I know it sounds mean, but I can't help it. Sometimes I think I want to be with him, and sometimes I think I don't.
Don't think it's just me being mean and everything, because he's messed up a lot, too. He's lied to me, and some girl told me she slept with him (She's known for being a liar, and he denies it, but I just don't know). The thing he lied to me about, though, was him saying he wasn't with the girl when he was, and stuff like that.
I just need some help, please. Sometimes I just feel like I'm way too deep into this relationship to leave him even if I wanted to. (link)
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You are never too deep. People get divorced all the time. If it isn't too late for them, it isn't too late for you.
The sad truth is that most people grow apart. Sometimes it takes weeks, sometimes it takes years. I wouldn't advise using the time you spent together as a reason for staying together. Everyone's afraid of change, but everyone has to face it sooner or later. Sometimes you just have to do it to be happier.
If you think you'd be happier with someone else, I would leave. If it's bothering you this much, then I would at least advise a break. At least spend time away from each other for awhile. It really all depends on how you feel and what you want more.
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Ok here is my problem, I am becoming a assistant manager at my job which require me to count money. Which means I need to know how to add + subtract. Now I can count the only deal is when some one asks like 20-7 any questions like that I have to use a calculator are even 100-22, I can't respond. Now I was in resource math in elementary thats why I am not to good at math. So what do I need to know to be able to add and subtract and respond right away. (link)
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Bring a pocket calculator to work.
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i took a pg test and it said i was pregnant but then i started to bleed a couple of days later and then i took another test and it said negative but my periods are shorter and my mom says i am gaining weight and i have been feeling bad (link)
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There's a lot of factors involved in the accuracy of pregnancy tests. For a test to be as accurate as possible, take one at least a week after your first missed period. If you think you recently got pregnant, weight gain won't be a sign of a baby. You generally won't notice a lot of weight gain until well after your first month. There's also a countless number of reasons why you may be feeling bad.
False positives are rare (far more rare than false negatives), but they do happen. Since you're still getting your period, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
And irregular periods are pretty common among young girls (I'm assuming you're one of them).
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sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any.. (link)
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I don't think it was over the stupidest reason. He was being selfish. He put his own wants ahead of your feelings and overreacted when you decided to put your feelings first, then you left. It sounds perfectly reasonable to me.
You never explained what you want to do. How do you feel about your ex now? Do you want to give this other guy a chance? Personally, I wouldn't approach any high school relationship with serious intentions, so if you aren't sure who to pursue, I would try dating the new guy for awhile.
As for the conversation with your ex, there's no harm in talking.
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Ok, this question has probably been asked a thousand times before but here goes.. i broke up with my girlfriend because i no longer trust her.. problem is i still love her and i dont see myself getting over her anytime soon. Too many reasons to list y i lost my trust in her but a few of the not so cool things shes done.. i was leavin the state and we hadnt seen each other for awhile.. the last day i was there she was supposed to hang out with me all day.. i wound up getting to see her for about 30 min because she was hangin out with a friend.. was a guy and i know for a fact that they have slept together before.. i went back to visit a couple months later.. stayed for 2 weeks.. seen her for a total of about 4 hours =/.. shes 18 btw so parents arent a big issue. the guy in question just got a myspace that she made for him and right above one of my favorite pictures of her is the question whod id like to meet.. answer: already found her and i love her.. she says that was an accident and shes gonna help him fix it soon.. even as im typein this i know i sound stupid for still haveing anything to do with her but... like i said i still love her even though im not treated the best and maybe shes not lieing about all the coisedences (link)
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I seriously think you should start getting over her. You said you won't any time soon? Well, that may be, but it'll take even longer if you continue to bother yourself with this.
You don't trust her. You can't have a healthy relationship with someone you don't trust. It's as simple as that.
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(This category seemed like the closest fit.)
Is it hypocrisy to oppose capital punishment on moral grounds yet condone war as sometimes being necessary? ... Perhaps _nobody_ has the right to decree death as punishment for a person, but then, doesn't that mean justifying war _by any means_ is a morally indefensible stance? (link)
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I agree with Scribble. It's not necessarily hypocrisy, though I'm fairly against both. There's almost always the possibility of killing someone who was innocent. It's more harsh to kill someone in that than to follow through with war when you no longer have a choice.
"No one has a right to decree death as punishment"
It depends on whether you take war as punishment or defense.
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This guy and I we have always had a connection through the way we smile and the look in our eyes, we knew we had a connection but we never told each other whats more, we didnt talk alot.
At the prom I asked him whether he ever had a cush on me, he said he did for a year or so but then 'he got the feeling we were just friends' I thought that meant he stopped having a crush on me. My friend on the other hand said 'whattt no!! that means he wasnt getting the right signals from you'..so im perplexed to what he meant by that...i never asked him whether he still had a crush on me, but through the prom he kept holding onto me asking me to dance and impulsiveley kissing me on the cheek...do u think theres something there?? what do u think he meant? anyways take care xxx (link)
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Your friend is right. He probably meant that he liked you, but since he thought you thought of him as just a friend, he figured you wouldn't be more than friends. The things he's been doing are definite signs that this is true. It's extremely likely that there's something there.
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I asked a question maybe 4 months ago. I got lots of answers. I just recently rated the answers, though. Do the ratings that I gave them count toward their average rating, or are they passed the one month time limit? (link)
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They count.
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Hey. Well, I'm like 5'6 to 5'7, and I'm 14/f African American (if that helps) and about to enter the 9th grade as a freshman in August. Anyways, I was just wondering if you guys thought that I was tall for my age, average height, etc. Also, can you guys tell me if long legs look good in mini skirts. Thanks.
P.S.-I have like a couple scabs on my legs and I'm brown skin and the scabs are like a dark brownish color, so I was wondering if that would look good in a mini skirt as well, and also whatI can do to clear it up quickly. Thanks again, and sorry for all the questions. (link)
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You're fast approaching the age where a lot of girls stop growing. I'd say you're tall, but not too far above average height. I'd say you're at the upper part of average.
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Okay, one of my friends are bypolar...but i have no clue what that means. I know when he gets really mad, his eyes turn like, blood red and he shakes, i don't know if that has anything to do with him being bypolar any;thing....
i'll rate 5 for good answers (link)
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Sudden shifts in emotion. He can be happy one moment, depressed the next. His highs are extremely high and his lows are extremely low.
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I was just wondering what most people thought.
Would you rather regret something you said or regret not saying anything at all? And why? Your opinion means nothing if you don't explain. (link)
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I've been through both a number of times. I've talked about my true feelings, taking a shot in the dark and not knowing what the response would be, and I've kept my mouth shut about feelings too.
In my experience, it was far easier on me when I didn't say anything at all. People speak of the constant wondering of what could have been, but honestly, it's not always constant. You normally meet someone else.
When you tell someone how you feel, you risk a lot. I've had a number of situations where I was almost sure of how the other felt. But when you ask someone out or tell someone you like them, and they nervously change the subject, it's another constant wondering. Why don't they feel the same way or why did their feelings change? It's normally something as simple as "they just did", but I'm guessing rarely is anyone satisfied with that answer.
Since in the question you're doomed to regret something, I would rather regret not saying a word. It's far less awkward and painful.
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got any good advice. Answer my question. It's about dog poo.
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=423757 (link)
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So, me and my boyfriend just bought a house and the previous owners apparently never raked the leaves up, so the yard was full of leaves and trash and various poo's. Yesterday, we just got the last of the leaves raked up, and throughout noticed that there were a few piles of dog poo that weren't there the day before. I didn't think much of it, because I assumed that whoever left it just assumed that since the area was full of leaves and trash, that we wouldn't mind or notice a little "fertilizer".
But, today, just one day after getting the lawn trash and leaf-free, we noticed yet another pile of dog poo.
My questions are...
How can I catch whoever is letting their dog poo in our yard?
And, What should I do to make them stop?
Just so you know, the law in my town is a $500 fine for getting caught for not picking up after your dogs, but no one ever gets caught even though we live 50 feet from the police station. (link)
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Can you guys afford a fence? Someday you should save up for a fence to prevent this type of thing. Set up a camera, maybe? I just checked and that idea was already mentioned. I'm such an answer thief!!! I don't know how impractical a camera would be. I have a small yard that would work just fine with the camera I have. I suppose it depends.
If not, set up a few bear traps. When you hear a loud yelp, BAM, you got the source of the poo piles, unless it's just some innocent bystander. In that case, you'll have to reset the trap and try again.
Or you can wait next to the door and scream at anyone who comes near during a 24 hour watch. That might do it too.
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I split up with my sons father about 4 yrs ago and have always let my son go and stay with him on a saturday night. He is not a good role model. He has verbally abused me badly in front of my son, tells my son that i dont love him any more and that its my fault we cant be a proper family. He is unclean and unkempt, doesnt have a job and not really any morals but my son says he loves him. He comes back unclean, tired, argumentative, agitated, naughty, tearful and keeps having little 'accidents' in his pants. I am currently taking my ex to court for harassing me over the last 4 yrs and my son has seen the police come round to discuss it but is always in another room. Twice when i've asked my son (when he's playing up) if he's worried about anything and he has said hes worried his fathers been arrested and hes worried about when hes gonna see his dad again, if at all. I have assured him that his father wasnt arrested and wasnt in trouble but that the police wanted to talk to him about a silly thing he'd done. I have told him he is not to worry because he will continue seeing his dad every saturday as usual.
My question is... am i doing the right thing keeping him in touch with his dad when he comes home like that or would it be better for my son to not have him in his life and let him decide whether or not he wants him in his life when he is older?? If i do stop him seeing his dad, what do i tell him?? My son is 5 in a couple of weeks, we live with my partner of 1 year who is 32 and i am 31. My son kept asking to call him dad so in the end we agreed. I would be grateful for any advice on this matter as i just dont know what to do for the best anymore. I always thought it was better for my son to have contact with his real father but i am now beginning to wonder. Thanks for taking the time to read my (somewhat long) query. :-( (link)
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Of course your son would be better off, but should you keep him away from his father? I'm not sure...
I'm not certain that there will be long term affects on his dad's ignorant lifestyle. The fact that your son fears his dad will be arrested probably shows that he can tell such a lifestyle doesn't go without punishment. Kids are impressionable, but generally intuitive. But because there's evidence of harm to your son, mentally or physically (argumentative with uncontrolable urination from one night a week? That needs to stop, regardless), I would be reluctant to continue to allow him to see his father. Are you required by law to do so? If not, I wouldn't allow it while these things are happening.
In a perfect world, supervised visits with his father would probably be best for him. Such a man sounds like he belongs in captivity.
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Ok, me and my boyfriend almost had anal the other night. We're both curious about it and might even try it. Does anyone have any advice on anal. I always said I would never do it, but I also said I would never have sex before marraige. Any advice to give me on anal? (link)
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There's no rush at all, so start off really slowly if your serious about trying it. a finger, then two fingers, until your ready for actually doing it. Use enough lubrication and make absolutely sure that THIS is something you want to do. With such an act, being spontaneous is definitely a bad move. For it to be enjoyable for YOU, you should probably make sure your both prepared.
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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!! (link)
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You have to make it absolutely clear that you aren't ready for anything beyond making out. If he really likes you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, then he's clearly only after one thing, and that thing is something you don't want to give him. If that's the case, you're better off not with him.
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Rock music categories, there's so many! Please help me on the differences between industrial?, goth?, emo, classic rock, screamo, punk, rockabilly, etc etc. How does one keep up with it all?? (link)
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Classic rock is rock from awhile back. I usually place 70's rock in that category, but I suppose 80's would fit too since it's been 26 years since the start of the 80s.
Industrial is when certain sounds that mimic machinery or sounds you may find in industrial buildings are used frequently.
Emo is a subgenre of punk with extremely emotional music. Whiny, if you will. Hardcore (Aggressive punk) split off into two subgenres: those that remained hardcore and those that took to softer sounds, emo.
Screamo is a mixture of emo and hardcore.
Punk is generally a choppy, aggressive subgenre of rock with generally a political theme and commonly uses power chords.
Rockabilly is an extremely early form of rock. Normally sounds like it has strong blues and country influences.
Goth rock is hard to define. I think it originated by making glam rock far more aggressive.
Subgenres are ridiculous. basically, if you want something to be a certain type of music, it probably is.
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okay, well im on my mom's laptop which is her work laptop. and i was just going on cartoon doll websites like, pixlebee, cartoon doll.com and stuff like that. and all of a sudden this porn pop up came up! and idk what to do! what if someone finds out? i cant have my mom think i look porn because i dont! ah oh my gosh, i seriously cant have this happen! please help! (link)
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Calm down. If it's a pop up, it might not even register in the history of sites. If what you say is true, explain to her what happened before she finds out anything.
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