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cheating..
Ok, this question has probably been asked a thousand times before but here goes.. i broke up with my girlfriend because i no longer trust her.. problem is i still love her and i dont see myself getting over her anytime soon. Too many reasons to list y i lost my trust in her but a few of the not so cool things shes done.. i was leavin the state and we hadnt seen each other for awhile.. the last day i was there she was supposed to hang out with me all day.. i wound up getting to see her for about 30 min because she was hangin out with a friend.. was a guy and i know for a fact that they have slept together before.. i went back to visit a couple months later.. stayed for 2 weeks.. seen her for a total of about 4 hours =/.. shes 18 btw so parents arent a big issue. the guy in question just got a myspace that she made for him and right above one of my favorite pictures of her is the question whod id like to meet.. answer: already found her and i love her.. she says that was an accident and shes gonna help him fix it soon.. even as im typein this i know i sound stupid for still haveing anything to do with her but... like i said i still love her even though im not treated the best and maybe shes not lieing about all the coisedences<-- probably spelt was wrong i know.. question is i guess what do i do.. i dont know for sure and id like to.. but she never trusted me with her passwords to anything and im not gonna try to hack.. think i should even bother? or maybe you got some advice on makeing her act right? all i know is im pretty miserable and i dont want to be... gimmy anything you can i guess thnx and sorry for such a long ?
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Trust is a very important thing in any relationship. If you can't trust her, and/or she can't trust you then you can't build a relationship off that. Relationships need trust and love. I know you feel that the love is there but the trust isn't so... the best advice I can give you is to move on. You deserve someone who loves and trusts you as much as you love and trust them.
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this wont make you any happier but if she doesnt treat you right then why bother. you need a girl that will respect you and honor with you doing the same back of course. but if you have had strong evidence of her cheating on you then the onl thign you can do is move on. i mean if she hurt you once she will keep doing it..
about the passoword thing i dont think it is that she is hiding soemthing from you just that she wants her privacy. that is how i am but except with me and my bf i let him look through it by being with him n lettign him look throgh it because i know that things will happen if i give him my password like him talking to peopel on my list and starting shit.
honestly you just need to move on and let her go.
you can try talking to her about it but i doubt you will get anywhere with it.
hope this helps you out.
♥ Steph
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I seriously think you should start getting over her. You said you won't any time soon? Well, that may be, but it'll take even longer if you continue to bother yourself with this.
You don't trust her. You can't have a healthy relationship with someone you don't trust. It's as simple as that.
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