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Girl Foreplay... What's So Great, Guys?!
Okay so me and the boy have been going out for a year now and ive never let him do anything to me until recently. Sure, I've done stuff for him, lots. Either way like I said, basically hes done the two main things you can do to a girl without going the full way, and I got so worried. Because I thought, what on earth could possibly be pleasant about doing something like that?! I worried about it for days, thinking he'd been like ewwwwwwww for days afterwards. Thing is, he always seems keen and I want to know why?
Boys, do you find doing those things to girls in any way attractive or are they just things you do to keep the girl happy?
If you do like to, how much?! And Why on earth?!
Also. Another bit of advice. I always feel wierd about telling my boyfriend I've enjoyed something he's done. For all my life I've been clever, and everyone knows that. They know, and most of my friends and his friends think that I'd never do the things I have done with him. Sure, I'm popular, but I'm innocent too, in the eyes of most people. It feels wierd admitting to pleasure to him, 'cause I figure he mights be creeped out - I don't know why.
Do guys like it when you admit to pleasure??
This all sounds really naive. But I'd love it if you could help me out :)
Thankyou very much :)
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my boyfriend likes it because he likes my reaction.
i told him he never has to do it if he doesn't like to, but he swears it's fine.
mostly he just does it because i've gone down on him and it's only fair.
i didn't understand it either, i didn't even want him to do it at first, but he was really eager so i was like, what the hell, knock yourself out.
guys (generally speaking, obviously i'm not an expert) like it when you show gratitude for something they've done. it makes them feel good and makes them want to pleasure you more. there's never anything wrong with saying thank you :]
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I'm a guy. I've always enjoyed giving the girl pleasure. It's half the fun. Is going down on a girl pleasurable for me? Not really. It's something I don't mind doing. I definitely don't speak for my gender. Some guys like it, some don't. Some do it to pleasure the girl, some refuse.
As for admitting pleasure: communication is important. It's good when you tell him you like something or would like him to do something and I would advise him to do the same. He would be completely lost without your input due do every girl liking different things. It's the best way to fully understand the body of who you're with. If everyone tried to hide how they felt, sex would be quiet and boring.
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I suppose from a female's point of view.. you wouldn't really find doing that attractive. But most guys seem fascinated with the female body and if he's willing to do something to you, then you know he likes it. Guys like to hear that you enjoy something that they do... it makes them happy or turned on.. depending on how you react. =P
I think it's weird. I don't really like some things but my boyfriend does. Guys are willing to do it to see and give you in pleasure. Some guys don't like it though but still do it. It's just about giving and receiving.. and being fair about it.
You don't have to make a big deal out about admitting anything. I'm sure he would love to hear your input about what you like exactly so he can continue doing that.
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well, i'm not a guy but i feel that i can help a bit with this. a lot of guys do like doing stuff like that a lot. my bf practically begged for me to let him do it. it just depends on the guy. but most likely he's doing it because he likes it and wants to make you happy. and, yes, guys REALLY appreciate and like it when you tell them you like something you did. it makes them feel good and confident about their skills.
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