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So I'm a sophomore now in highschool and my WHOLE freshman year I did a long distance with a guy who's basically across the country. There were other guys at my school who wanted to go out with but I stayed faithful and told them I have a boyfriend. I got teased a lot because how now days there's so many catfish scams. Anyways we planned for him to visit this summer but it didn't happen because his parents wanted him to stay with us because they trust my family but my family said no. Then in May I asked for a break because I finally realized that we'll never be together and I asked for a break because it seemed the easiest way to break up without hurting each other. But then all of June we talked as if we were still together but we werent officially together but finally one night his supposed cousin who he has never mentioned or said was staying witj them and texted me acting as him. Basically what he said were very out of line things only the guy I was kind of with would know. Then magically he wakes up 30mins later and apologizes for his cousins actions. I never believed it though. Plus I saw proof he has been cheating even when we were together... anyways now I have finally and officially ended things with him. Thank goodness. But now I met this guy who goes to my friends school not mine and we've been talking for a week nonstop. We even went to the movies Tuesday. We both just said we like each other but unsure if we could even do anything about it. Anyways my question is, is it too soon? Because I don't want this guy to fall as rebound or anything I genuinly like him. So I'm not sure how to handle it. Do I proceed with my feelings with this guy. Or stop and stay clear of any relationship for awhile. Any advice welcomed ! Thanks :) (link)
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Any break up you go through will be difficult. Even if it was with someone you never met or was able to spend a great amount of time with.
So I'd just take things slow with this guy. It's good that you don't want this to be a rebound. I wouldn't totally push him off. But let him know you just got out of a relationship and you'd like to take things slow.
If this guy does really like you, he won't mind.
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My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old and have been dating for 3 years. I feel as if he "jokes around" way too much by grabbing my "lady parts" per se in public and I tell him to stop and he doesn't. I feel like the only time he tries to be romantic or nice is when he's trying to get it in with me and I can tell it isn't genuine. He stopped doing alot of the cute date things he used to do and I he gets mad when I don't give him sex. It's so frustrating. I do love him but he gets mad because we only have sex on "my terms". But it's hard to get turned on to him when I feel like a giant meatsack being grabbed all of the time. I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and says things like "I can't believe you think I only care about sex blahblah" and then turns the whole thing around. Please help. (link)
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I've noticed it's really not uncommon for people to stop trying after awhile in a relationship.
Some think since they got the girl, they don't need to keep doing the things they used to do to win her over, but obviously, that's wrong.
I know since you've been with him for 3 years it'll be difficult to say no and back away from him, but it's probably the best thing to do.
If your friend was in your situation and asking for help, I'm sure you would tell her to either break up or have a very serious talk with him.
He'll say that he isn't all about sex, but I guess he just doesn't want to see himself that way either.
But no one should keep doing something their partner doesn't like or feel comfortable with. Once they say no, they should never do it again.
And no guy should ever get mad when they don't get sex.
He really should care about how you feel and not blow it off. Like even if he truly felt that's not how it is, then he should show you, not tell you that you're wrong, he needs to prove it.
So if he's not listening, you might want to take a break because what's happening right now isn't working.
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So I am only 17 and was was dating this girl who happened to be christian for two months until she broke up with me. The reason we broke up was because I am agnostic and she couldn't take it anymore, even though I told her I was in the first place. In this relationship she never gave me a blowjob but only handies but she said no sex and no bj's while we were dating and I was totally cool with that untill... when she broke up with me she almost immediately had a thing with another her guy and she sucked his dick after she was supposedly against it. She came back to me a 2 weeks or so after she gave the other guy head and she told me everything that happened and was extremely sorry and I took her back. She said if she could go back in time she would definately change what happened. She told me she now did blowjobs and here we are five months later and I haven't even gotten a handjob, I only finger her which ive done about 10 times since we've been together again. So my question is should I talk to her about giving me head or just anything sexual? Or am I just way overreacting and I should leave this whole thing alone. She's really in love with me now and I almost broke up with her about a month ago because of what happened right after our breakup. One thing about this girl is that she has been fingered and gave hand jobs to plenty of men in her past and it just bothers me that I never get anything in return. (link)
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I don't think she's the girl for you. You seem to be holding her past against her.
It seems like you're bothered because she doesn't do anything sexual with you, at least what you want. If you like her, that stuff shouldn't matter.
I agree with the others that said maybe she didn't like it, or maybe she just doesn't want to do it again. Just because a girl has done stuff in her past, even if she did it a dozen times, she doesn't have to do it again. She doesn't owe that to you.
You almost broke up with her because of what happened AFTER your break up...
It just doesn't seem like you love her.
So I'll assume you do love her, and care about her. So if you do, don't hold the stuff she did against her. She was sorry, you took her back and forgave her so that should be done and it shouldn't keep coming back.
Just because she did things with guys in the past doesn't mean she has to do anything with you.
Talk to her if you want to get sexual, if she says no, then leave it at that.
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So im having trouble on what to do my ex told me he still likes me nd in a way I still have feelings for him but the problem is and was hes going into the army so I still wanna be friends but he said he wants nothing to do with me because he still has feelings for me and the even bigger problem is I have a bf but to be honest I know my boyfriend and my relationship arnt going to last I mean he barley messages me I always message first what do I do should I message my ex and try to be friends
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First I'll start with your current boyfriend.
I don't know why a relationship wouldn't work just because he doesn't message you first. There has to be more going on if you wanna break up with him.
Secondly, if you feel like things aren't just working with your boyfriend and you've already talked with him about how you're feeling and all that, then you should probably break up.
As for your ex, I think you need to respect his decision. If he doesn't want to keep in contact with you, then maybe that's what's best for him to move on.
I do think if you have feelings for another guy, and can't get them under control, you shouldn't have a boyfriend.
Take time to think about what you really want.
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Okay so the guy im dating now kinda sucks at first he was a sweet heart amd would do all the sweet things now he sometimes does stuff but rarely he dosnt even message me first I dont know what to do should I break up with him? (link)
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Communication is important. So you need to talk to him about what's bothering you.
Maybe he's not a guy who likes to text. I know when I was dating my boyfriend, when we first started dating, he would text me all the time. After awhile he'd stop texting but we were still really close. He just didn't really like texting.
If he doesn't message you first and doesn't do as many sweet things as he used to, I don't think that's a good reason to break up with someone. If you just don't feel the same, that would be a good reason. Because the situation you are in right now can be fixed.
If he likes you, he'll listen and explain that he just might not be someone who likes texting. Maybe phone calls work better or face to face.
Talk to him and see what's going on.
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so basically im having trouble deciding if i should break up with my byfriend he dosnt message me first we barley hang out and when we do we dont really talk we like kiss in stuff i dont know what to do should i stay and see where things go or dump him because honestly i dont feel like we are gonna last
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Have you talked to him about this at all? Or is this something you've been keeping to yourself?
You should talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. Just sit him down and tell him that you guys do a lot of kissing but you'd actually like to hang out more and do things together. If he seems up for it and understanding, he's worth keeping around and seeing where things go. If he doesn't seem willing or that enthusiastic about having a real relationship with you, then you should break up with him.
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He likes to have control over everything. This morning I asked if he wanted me to wash his pants. He didn't respond so I asked again.In return he said I told u no. I said no you didn't say anything. So he got mad and started yelling at me. I'm driving him to work and I asked did u want to stop at a store. He looks at me and says ain't it obvious. In return I said I don't know what you want to do.I can't read mind s and I never assume I ask. He turned and said just take me to work. I'm just agreeing with what you suggest. I'm like what I never made a suggestion I just needed to know what next. We got to an argument over that. When I have company he sits in my friend's conversations. But when he has company he tells me and my kids to to our room. If we come out we get into a big argument. We really have to stay in our room until he says we can come out. Sometimes it's for 8hours no exaggeration. I have a bucket in my room to use for the bathroom. We eat when he decided to let us eat. He has hit me on three different occasions. I told him I don't like him and he said he was moving with his mom. So I took him and I told him he will never see us again. The next day he was at my door asking for forgiveness but I don't feel like he's going to change. He still act's the same way. But now he says he don't give a fuck about anything I do. (link)
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Leave him and don't continue staying with him.
You're unhappy, he's unhappy, your kids will grow up unhappy, just leave, there's no point in this.
He's controlling and abusive. You don't want your kids growing up around that. They should be your first priority, so dump this guy.
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so long story short, i liked this guy from 6th grade till around early this year (im now in 9th grade) and i got over really quickly because a month before i got over him and found out what an ass he was, i started getting these feelings from this other guy. and let's just say he was the main reason why i got over the other guy so quickly. and eventually my feelings for him started to grow and grow and he found out that i like him and he was really sweet about it until a month later when he told my best friend that he would never ever date me... which really broke me because i went through a lot those 2 months. anyways, after he told my best friend that everything changed... he would get closer to me like be around me but not talk to me and he would stare at me A LOT. as in a lot i mean whenever i see him in the halls and he sees me, he stares and doesn't break eye contact... it's as if he doesn't care if i know that he's staring. whenever i'm at lunch or something, my friends would keep on telling me that he's staring or glancing at me. but we haven't spoken since may because he decided to say "hi" to me in the hallway a few days after he said he'd never ever date me. so how can i ignore him? whenever he does get around me or somehow is near me, i get pissed and frustrated but at the same time im jumping around and my heart is beating extremely fast. i've tried to get over him multiple times but whenever he stares at me... i just go back and i can't help it. he is kinda friends with 2 of my friends and his little group is associated with mine but i'm not really 'friends' with them or him. plus the only way i realty stop liking someone is by having a new interest in other guys and i just don't like any other guy at my school... like school ends monday (and you're prob like yay now you wont have to face him anymore) but i'm going to miss him and being around him in the summer. and what if i still like him next year? i tend to get attached to someone easily and once i am, it's for awhile... (i've had a bit history with this guy too. i liked him back in 6th grade before the other guy and he kinda found out i liked him back then from someone and yeah he confronted me about it and yeah... he was a douche when i liked him but when i stopped liking him and liked the other guy, he was nice to me and we became friends and we had nicknames and ugh but then after 6th grade we drifted but we'd occasionally say hi and all but that stopped in may...) i just really have no idea how to get over him. im literally going to think about him all summer and mope about him (link)
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Feelings sometimes suck.
But you do have to move on from him. I know that school is ending, but it helps not being around him. You don't need to find a new guy to be able to move on. That's the wrong way to move on anyways. It's not bad to notice other guys though.
So do other things with your time. Don't mope around about him not liking you, that won't do you any good. Just keep yourself busy, try new things, hang out with your friends and you'll be fine.
He's one person, it's not the end of the world so it's time to let him go.
A lot of girls say they want to, but they never do. They somehow convince themselves that the guy is perfect for them. So they're stuck on that guy for years when they could've moved on and met someone better.
You are in control, so don't sit around and think about him. It's fine to be upset that he doesn't like you, but don't make that the number one thing on your mind.
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"Not having a crush is boring and having a crush is more exciting (whether it causes something good or bad)" (link)
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I don't agree with that.
I guess having a crush is fun but you have no life if your life is boring just because you don't have a crush.
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So I am in the 8th grade- going into 9th. I'm pretty sure this all started in 5th grade btw... but I think I have a depression/ anxiety/ bipolar disorder. I've taken A LOT of these quizzes and screenings online for them and it states that I have a high case of it and I should get some help just in case... I also had one of my friends take it and she got a high ish score too but her mom found it and she took her to get help and she has been getting help from medications because she was diagnosed with quite a few disorders like depression and anxiety. I've told her about my scores and she has told me many times to ask my mom but I'm afraid to. I mean I don't cry every night or day about my life but I do a lot and when i do it's horrible and i have no one to talk to about it. If i tell my mom, she'll either think i'm crazy or she won't believe me. And what if I am actually diagnosed with those disorders? I'm going to have to talk to a therapist (she does) and get on medication.. and that's going to cost a lot of money... and nows not the time to make my mom worried and have to pay money. she and my dad have been stressed lately and it's just too much money and i don't think we could afford it with all this shiz going on. I want help but I don't want my parents to have to go through all this... (link)
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I agree with Dragonflymagic that it could definitely be puberty. But obviously I'm not a doctor, and neither are those quizzes so it's best to talk to a doctor.
I was pretty bad when I was in 7th, 8th, 9th and 10th grade. I would cry a lot and was very up and down with my moods. A lot of tests and friends would say I was bipolar.
But it was actually nothing.
But in case you actually might have a disorder, you should see a doctor and talk to your mom.
Money isn't your concern, your concern is your health and could possibly make things much, much worse if you don't catch it sooner than later.
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I was on Instagram and came across a comment. It read:
"If you stop reading this your going to die. I am teresa fidalgo if you don't repost this on 20 photos I will sleep with you forever. This girl ignored an her mom died 29 days later and its true. You can search me on google". I posted that on 20 photos because I was so scared. I still am. I'm so scared and I don't know why. I searched the girl's name and saw a picture and immediently clicked out. I didn't read the story because I was so frightened... What should I do?? Is this normal? Please oh please help me. (link)
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All that is fake.
If it was true, then I would've been dead probably like 20 times for not reposting or fowarding any of that.
I think those are super annoying. They're just to freak people out and I guess they really do.
Just don't read those types of things and realize that they're fake.
It's not a nice thing to do to other people either, so don't post on their pictures or videos.
I suggest google ways to ignore those because it sounds like you're young and haven't realized that these things can't actually hurt you.
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I have a problem finding a boyfriend and I think it may be because of my appearance. I am 162cm tall,weigh about 65kg,I have long blonde hair,blue eyes and I dress nice. I am told by many people that I am actually beautiful but I have trouble believing it because it is really hard for me to find a boyfriend. I do take care of my looks but I'm no supermodel. My good friends and family told me they think I'm having difficulties with this because I don't want to go for just a one night stand,I want a serious relationship with a normal guy. But I feel like nobody will even try to get to know me because there are so many prettier girls than me out there. Pretty face will be gone,but a good woman will always be a good woman. So is appearance really the main factor for a guy who is choosing a possible girlfriend? Just thinking about it makes me stop pursuing anyone ever again.
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I don't think her friends and family were encouraging her to have one night stands. I think they were trying to say, that's what a lot of guys want. At least, I hope so!
Anyways, appearance is a big deal. But everyone finds different people attractive. Even girls who aren't considered the prettiest can get a great boyfriend so it's not ALL about looks. It's really good to take care of yourself and put effort into how you look, but obviously, it's not all about that.
I think being attracted to someone is the first step, then you get to know them and you either have feelings for them or you don't.
So just keep your head high. You're only 20. Keep your standards high and don't stress out.
A lot of girls start feeling insecure and bad for themselves when they can't get a boyfriend easily. But then that lack of self confidence will show.
So don't be that girl. Don't be that girl who doesn't believe they are beautiful JUST because they don't have a boyfriend, that doesn't define beauty.
You'll see beautiful girls who can't find the right guy for them. Then girls who aren't the most attractive to find guys.
Don't rush, just take your time. It won't happen overnight and it'll take awhile to find a guy worth your time.
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Hello, I am female and 19. I've been talking to this guy I met at college. We started texting on move out day and we haven't really stopped since. He has no problem wearing his heart on his sleeve whereas I'm very introverted and have a hard time with "feelings." We argue a lot and that sucks a lot because we both get kind of pissed off pretty easy but I think that factors into us knowing each other so well that it just kinda happens.
Anyway, I have a lot of guy friends and I talk to him about them quite a bit but they are all only friends and I can promise that's all they ever will be. Well, he gets jealous of me talking about them because he thinks I'm going to hang out with them so much and forget about him. I talked to him about this numerous times that they're only friends and I don't hook up with them and all of that stuff. Whereas, he talks about this girl that's now his best friend but he used to like her a lot and, honestly, I get pretty jealous when he talks about her because I know how much he used to care about her and I told him that and he completely overlooked it. I believe he actually told me "i think you're making it a way bigger deal than it is. She's so cute but she isn't who I like right now." So, that pissed me off. Then today, we were talking about people from school and who we miss and everything and he told me he thought there were a lot of cute girls living in our building so I became very despondent in that conversation which lead him to name all of the cute girls in our building. He put me first in the list, obviously, but it just pisses me off a little when he does that because I am trying so hard to not talk about my guy friends as much to him anymore because I know he doesn't like it but he talks about all these girls to me all the time even after I told him that I'm not the biggest fan of that. What do I do? (link)
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He told you how he felt talking about your guy friends. But you're not rambling on about how cute they are and even you took that into consideration.
He doesn't really seem to care about how you feel about this. Especially since you told him, and he brushed it off saying you were the one making it a big deal.
So I think when he does it again, just tell him you don't really like it when he talks about how cute other girls are. If he cares, he'll stop.
If he keeps doing it, just stop talking to it. He'll realize it actually means something.
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A few days ago I realized I like a guy from college. Who happens to be one of my best friends. Today we had an awkward situation where I nearly toppled over him. I was extremely embarrased and I realized I am like that because I like him. I don't get embarrased easily unless it's a crush. The thing is,I had a bad break up recently and I don't want a rejection to make it any worse. Any ideas to get my mind off of him? I wanna stay his friend,I just don't wanna like him anymore. (link)
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I understand not wanting to be with someone because of a bad break up. But maybe give it some time and he might be a good guy for you?
In the mean time, if you really would like to move on. Then give yourself some time away from him. Don't hang out with him too often and go out and meet new guys. Eventually, if you let yourself, you'll move on.
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So I really like this guy and I've liked him before in 6th grade which he found out about and then when i got over him, we were like friends. But then drifted and now i like him AGAIN and I'm now in 9th grade. and he found out somehow in april and confronted my best friend about it too.. so yeah.. he basically acted like nothing happened until the end of april, he told one of my best friends "I will never ever date (My Name) ever"... and like after that i tried to get over him and he didn't even talk to me.. and 2 days after he decided to say hi to me and act like he didn't do shit. then literally after he said that and i found out, he's been staring at me often... like whenever i'm around him, he would look and stare at me, even my friends would tell me he was too. now, he hasn't talked to me since the beginning of may which was a simple "hi" and he still stares at me and makes it really obvious.. and today i had a talk with my friends and they told me that lately he's been getting close to me whenever i'm around... but he (he's friends with one of my best friends) even told my best friend that he couldnt do anything about not liking me, last week. also, yesterday we had a field trip to a nearby lake and when i was in the pool he would be there and he would be with these people in line to dive and before he'd dive each time, he'd look directly at me (my friend said) so when i finally got the courage to look at him in the eye when he's about to dive, he's already looking at me and it's just so awkward and he doesn't even break the eye contact until he dives... and when he swims up he would look at me and being my stupid self i would state back & when my friend and i were tanning, (i had a shirt covering my face) he threw some water at her... and me. but why? he doesn't talk to me. we arent even really friends and he doesnt talk to my friends whenever im around but he does when im not around... but anyways so my friend told him that i didnT like him anymore (ha i still do) today and he responded with "oh... okay?" so i'm confused.. i mean he didnT sound like he cared but i mean he wouldnt sound like he cared to my best friend bc then she'd be all like blah blah. so basically the times whenever he would stare at me is in the hallways, lunch, choir and probably on the bus. (hes at my busstop but i now get a ride to school)... so yeah he's single and all but i also have noticed that he has been around me and whenever i'm at this one place he would move near to it/me...and my friends have said that to me today and i've been indenial to it until now... so i'm completely confused ... he says he doesn't like me yet he's always somewhere around me / looking & staring at me. (he and i used to talk somewhat, not a lot this year and last year but it's not like i could call him a friend.. but yeah that was before he found out i liked him which was in march) (link)
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Guys your age don't really know how to handle situations like this. They're still learning.
Honestly, I don't think there is much to go off by besides him staring and saying he doesn't like you.
If he did like you, there isn't really anything you can do to make him say that he does.
If I was in your situation, I'd just move on. He sounds like he's either confused, likes you or is just being dumb. And none of that would be worth my time if he had said times before that he didn't like me.
So I think you should just let this one go and find a guy who really likes you. This one sounds like someone who can't get his head together and needs some time to learn.
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
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He's crossed the line of being inappropriate. He's very controlling.
If I were you, I would have dumped him a long time ago.
Even if he wasn't around his friends and doing this, it doesn't matter, he shouldn't do ANYTHING when you've said no.
This could seriously be sexual harassment.
You need to sit him down and talk about it. Tell him that you are not ok with him doing ANY of that and it makes you very, very uncomfortable. If he keeps doing it, or brushes it off, you need to break up with him. It wouldn't be smart to be with someone who doesn't care about how you feel. It could lead to worse things since he really doesn't care when you say no.
It might not seem like it, but he definitely has the possibility of rape.
He could tell you he loves you or even say the line, "If you love me you'd let me". That's not even close to love.
I dated a guy when I was 15. He was kinda the same way but not in public. But he was very touchy and I wasn't ready for that but he was very pushy about it. Eventually things went wrong and went very badly for me.
You can't let these things slide. It'll just get worse.
So take stand now and if he tries kissing you to get you to shut up, push him away and leave. He doesn't care about you.
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My friends always pick on me because I'm skinny and it is embarrassing because they say it loudly. One time, someone offered me a cookie and I said no because I just finished lunch and they were like super loudly so everyone heard, but your not fat! Look at your wrist your so skinny! Just eat the cookie! I didn't even mention the word big or fat! Another, during a sleep away field-trip they were saying how they gained weight over the trip and when they asked how much weight I gained I said I didn't gain any, they started saying super loudly and saying that's because you didn't eat anything! You skipped all your meals! Which isn't even true. For one, i ate all my meals and ate several pop tarts during the time they served snacks which is twice a day and skipped only once because it was gross food and I went to my cabin and ate popcorn instead! I always tell them to stop because I eat enough and when I don't eat it's because I already ate but they never listen and continuously say it's because I don't eat which I know isn't true because I have been told that I have a big appetite. How do I respond next time they pick on me that isn't too serious that they think I'm mad but they won't brush off? (link)
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I think you need to be stern with them.
Let them know you do eat, you enjoy eating, and you're just naturally skinny and you'd like them to stop making scenes about it.
You don't need to act mad, just serious and stern. Don't yell, just tell them with a stern look.
Some of my friends used to do that to me too. I had never called myself fat or anything but they'd still get on me about being skinny.
They don't realize it's just as hurtful.
So just let them know that it bothers you and hurts your feelings sometimes too. I'm sure they'll stop. If not, you might want to talk to them one on one.
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i use to date this guy named alex a month ago. he's a freshman in college and im a senior in high school.i can say that I was really in love with him enough to lose my virginity to him and he's one those guys that doesn't show his feelings and he hasn't been in many real relationships and I know what we had was real. we broke up because he never made time for me when he came into town for the weekend and we never really had the typical relationship regular people had. all we did was txt and occasionally oovoo. I wanted him to do the simplest things to show he cared and he never did. I cant really explain all the wrong things because no one gets it but me. and I just really got fed up with it all and ended it. and right after I started talking to this guy named allah. he's perfect and he does everything that alex never did and I really like him. the problem is that its hard to let him in because of past things with alex. I told alex everything , our connection was different than ive had with anyone. I cant open up or let myself love anyone else. im even scared to have sex with him because I don't feel right having sex with someone else. if im being honest I still have feelings for alex and I haven't let go of him hurting me so much. I literally just found the guy I want but still stuck on feelings for alex. he was really something special to me and idk how to move on. allah understands it all but why cant I just let go of alex (link)
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You didn't give yourself enough time to move on. You still miss your ex.
This new guy could be everything you wanted but because you just jumped into talking to someone else and didn't give yourself time to accept that it's now over and it's in the past, you won't ever be able to move on.
Right now, you need to give yourself some time. At least you're honest with yourself and admitting that you still have feelings for your ex and haven't let go.
Take a break from this guy and be honest with yourself. When you get lonely, don't just go running back.
It will take time to move on. You really cared about him. Just take time to accept that it's over, even though you guys had great memories, it wasn't meant to be. You don't need to hate him anymore, you just need to be like, "It was fun, it was real, but he wasn't the right guy for me."
Once you feel ready again, then go ahead and date. But right now, it's not fair to you and any other guys you date.
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How to convince a girl to sex
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You don't convince a girl to have sex with you.
If a girl says no when you ask about sex, then it's a no and if you keep trying to convince her after she says no, you could be in a lot of trouble because that is considered sexual harassment.
So the bottom line is that you don't try to convince a girl to have sex.
Masturbation will be your friend until you meet someone who you can have sex with.
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I met this girl online. She says she's 15. She seems like a normal teenage girl. I use fake pictures because I don't want to use my real ones, but I do use my real first name. She has asked me when my birthday was and how old I was but not like "out of the blue" or anything. We were just on that subject.
I do think I'm safe, and I'll tell you why: I don't use my real pictures, she does seem like a regular teenage girl, she's mentioned her family a few times, and I've seen her like twice. I know it could be anyone, and that the internet isn't exactly "safe", but should I make something up just in case? (link)
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The ways to be safe is to not give out where you live, like address or email address as they can easily find you on Facebook or something.
Although I don't understand why you're talking to someone online when you're just lying to them. I mean you're not exactly friends when you're doing that.
It's good that you're being safe but you're using fake pictures.
Anyways, if you're looking to meet friends, you might want to do it elsewhere in person because you won't be making real friends online when you're being fake.
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