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So im having trouble on what to do my ex told me he still likes me nd in a way I still have feelings for him but the problem is and was hes going into the army so I still wanna be friends but he said he wants nothing to do with me because he still has feelings for me and the even bigger problem is I have a bf but to be honest I know my boyfriend and my relationship arnt going to last I mean he barley messages me I always message first what do I do should I message my ex and try to be friends
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First I'll start with your current boyfriend.
I don't know why a relationship wouldn't work just because he doesn't message you first. There has to be more going on if you wanna break up with him.
Secondly, if you feel like things aren't just working with your boyfriend and you've already talked with him about how you're feeling and all that, then you should probably break up.
As for your ex, I think you need to respect his decision. If he doesn't want to keep in contact with you, then maybe that's what's best for him to move on.
I do think if you have feelings for another guy, and can't get them under control, you shouldn't have a boyfriend.
Take time to think about what you really want.
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Okay first of all, just because your current boyfriend doesn't "message you" doesn't mean your relationship won't work out. The reason it won't work out could be that you still have feelings for an ex.
I think you should be friends, strictly friends, with your ex and tell your boyfriend about your decision. If you want to break up with your boyfriend, please don't do it because he "doesn't message you".
A relationship shouldn't be based on your texts, so maybe you try doing the wooing. Guys liked to be wooed. Maybe if you spent some more time with your current boyfriend, you'll appreciate what you have.
Best of luck!
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