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why are guys so confusing !
Okay so the guy im dating now kinda sucks at first he was a sweet heart amd would do all the sweet things now he sometimes does stuff but rarely he dosnt even message me first I dont know what to do should I break up with him?
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Communication is important. So you need to talk to him about what's bothering you.
Maybe he's not a guy who likes to text. I know when I was dating my boyfriend, when we first started dating, he would text me all the time. After awhile he'd stop texting but we were still really close. He just didn't really like texting.
If he doesn't message you first and doesn't do as many sweet things as he used to, I don't think that's a good reason to break up with someone. If you just don't feel the same, that would be a good reason. Because the situation you are in right now can be fixed.
If he likes you, he'll listen and explain that he just might not be someone who likes texting. Maybe phone calls work better or face to face.
Talk to him and see what's going on.
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Some guys are not really into texting if there's great breaks in between answers as there would be in a face to face conversation. Some prefer phone calls over texting. Some dont like either and only do best in face to face with a girl where they have the added aids of studying her facial expressions, hearing tone of her voice and reading her body language to help him interpret what she is saying. When young people start dating there is no experience yet on how to understand the opposite sex yet so its going to be a learning process. If you are really dating him, I am sure it wouldn't bother him if you were to say,'I really don't know much about how to understand guys, including you. Would you be willing to teach me how guys think and feel and what they mean? It means i'D have to ask you lots of questions sometimes...so would you help me?
I think a guy would be flattered that a gal feels comfortable enough to ask him to teach her. Most likely he'll be asking you to explain yourself and how you reached a certain thought or conclusion too. Be patient with each other. It will work out if you both are willing to do it. I've read relationship experts mention this trick as a way to understand the other and that takes care of the confusion factor.
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