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My boyfriend is a mess! What should I do?
He likes to have control over everything. This morning I asked if he wanted me to wash his pants. He didn't respond so I asked again.In return he said I told u no. I said no you didn't say anything. So he got mad and started yelling at me. I'm driving him to work and I asked did u want to stop at a store. He looks at me and says ain't it obvious. In return I said I don't know what you want to do.I can't read mind s and I never assume I ask. He turned and said just take me to work. I'm just agreeing with what you suggest. I'm like what I never made a suggestion I just needed to know what next. We got to an argument over that. When I have company he sits in my friend's conversations. But when he has company he tells me and my kids to to our room. If we come out we get into a big argument. We really have to stay in our room until he says we can come out. Sometimes it's for 8hours no exaggeration. I have a bucket in my room to use for the bathroom. We eat when he decided to let us eat. He has hit me on three different occasions. I told him I don't like him and he said he was moving with his mom. So I took him and I told him he will never see us again. The next day he was at my door asking for forgiveness but I don't feel like he's going to change. He still act's the same way. But now he says he don't give a fuck about anything I do.
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Why you stoop to his level, You bring all that drama to yourself, you need to focus on being a mom to your children, learn to gain control in your own life and stop allowing men like THAT in your life. You are a grown woman, so really you dont need a man to rule your life and ruin it at the same time. You need to apoligize to your chikdren and tell.them as of today , nobody will hurt you or them ever again, change your locks on your doors. Get a restrain order on your boyfriend, also talk to your landlord and let him know you have been having issues with a boyfriend, have him or her to type a letter stating that nobody is allowed to live in your apartment unless that tenant pays the same ammount of o money monthly on the rent. Plus talk to a police officer have him to do a routine ride throgh or even have him to make random visit , just in case you feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend lurking around near your property. Make sure your family know whats going on with you. Buy a gun get a license to carry the gun, take lessons on how to shoot a gun, take self defense courses, these classes will teach how to protect yourself in case of an attack. Take cintrol of your life, havevyour plans in action and prepare to move forward with your head high, and dont back down on nobody not even your sorry azz boyfriend.
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Hey girl! I'm going to try to help as best I can. In the words of Ms. Celia from The Help, "I'd hit him over the head with a skillet and tell him to go straight to hell." You do that. Seriously, if he ever hits you, take something and hit him. ***I DO NOT BY ANY MEANS SUGGEST USING A FRYING PAN*** Just like take a picture frame or like one of those lap desks and hit him. give him a taste of his own medicine. As for the situation about you two not being happy together, you probably aren't happy at all. Have a talk with him. If you're married in the Catholic church or other Christian denomination, consider getting your marriage annulled. If not, just file and leave. Take your kids and move to another part of town. Rent a place if you have to. And if you do move, make them happy. That's the most important part, making others happy, including yourself. Take them to the park, bike ride with them, and just enjoy your free time together. I truly wish you the best of luck.
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LEAVEEEEE.Tell him its done take your kids and go.Thats not a healthy relationship.Trust me youll be better off
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Leave him and don't continue staying with him.
You're unhappy, he's unhappy, your kids will grow up unhappy, just leave, there's no point in this.
He's controlling and abusive. You don't want your kids growing up around that. They should be your first priority, so dump this guy.
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You have children, don't you dare let him come back! If you want your children to be happy, I think that you should move out somewhere very far away from him. If you want him back then I don't think that you should be the one taking care of your children! That men seems very dangerous and he reminds me of someone I know. The stuff I have been through changed me a lot so please don't ruin your children's life because they have a bright future that's waiting for them. Please,move out! Far away from him, because if you don't then your life is going to be a living hell.
P.S. I'm not saying this because I think it's true, but I know so!
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Just stay broken up. He's an abusive, controlling freak. He probably just remembered that his mommy doesn't put up with that shit. Tell him to go away. If he doesn't listen, call the cops. Don't put yourself in harms way.
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just leave the arsehole. there in no need to have that anywhere near you or your kids. thats that there isnt much more someone can say. dont take him back he obviously isnt going to change if he hasnt already. and if he does come back for forgiveness then wait it out a while before you take him back to see if he really means it or hes just saying it.
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