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Does he like me?
So I really like this guy and I've liked him before in 6th grade which he found out about and then when i got over him, we were like friends. But then drifted and now i like him AGAIN and I'm now in 9th grade. and he found out somehow in april and confronted my best friend about it too.. so yeah.. he basically acted like nothing happened until the end of april, he told one of my best friends "I will never ever date (My Name) ever"... and like after that i tried to get over him and he didn't even talk to me.. and 2 days after he decided to say hi to me and act like he didn't do shit. then literally after he said that and i found out, he's been staring at me often... like whenever i'm around him, he would look and stare at me, even my friends would tell me he was too. now, he hasn't talked to me since the beginning of may which was a simple "hi" and he still stares at me and makes it really obvious.. and today i had a talk with my friends and they told me that lately he's been getting close to me whenever i'm around... but he (he's friends with one of my best friends) even told my best friend that he couldnt do anything about not liking me, last week. also, yesterday we had a field trip to a nearby lake and when i was in the pool he would be there and he would be with these people in line to dive and before he'd dive each time, he'd look directly at me (my friend said) so when i finally got the courage to look at him in the eye when he's about to dive, he's already looking at me and it's just so awkward and he doesn't even break the eye contact until he dives... and when he swims up he would look at me and being my stupid self i would state back & when my friend and i were tanning, (i had a shirt covering my face) he threw some water at her... and me. but why? he doesn't talk to me. we arent even really friends and he doesnt talk to my friends whenever im around but he does when im not around... but anyways so my friend told him that i didnT like him anymore (ha i still do) today and he responded with "oh... okay?" so i'm confused.. i mean he didnT sound like he cared but i mean he wouldnt sound like he cared to my best friend bc then she'd be all like blah blah. so basically the times whenever he would stare at me is in the hallways, lunch, choir and probably on the bus. (hes at my busstop but i now get a ride to school)... so yeah he's single and all but i also have noticed that he has been around me and whenever i'm at this one place he would move near to it/me...and my friends have said that to me today and i've been indenial to it until now... so i'm completely confused ... he says he doesn't like me yet he's always somewhere around me / looking & staring at me. (he and i used to talk somewhat, not a lot this year and last year but it's not like i could call him a friend.. but yeah that was before he found out i liked him which was in march)
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Guys your age don't really know how to handle situations like this. They're still learning.
Honestly, I don't think there is much to go off by besides him staring and saying he doesn't like you.
If he did like you, there isn't really anything you can do to make him say that he does.
If I was in your situation, I'd just move on. He sounds like he's either confused, likes you or is just being dumb. And none of that would be worth my time if he had said times before that he didn't like me.
So I think you should just let this one go and find a guy who really likes you. This one sounds like someone who can't get his head together and needs some time to learn.
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Well I think you should confront him.Because really when he is looking at you like that it's either he is experimenting with his feelings,he likes you too or he is just playing with you.
(But don't get your hopes up,so (in case) you won't get hurt that much (=)
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