Prolonged sadness or unexplained crying spells

Significant changes in appetite and sleep patterns

Irritability, anger, worry, agitation, anxiety

Pessimism, indifference

Loss of energy, persistent lethargy

Feelings of guilt, worthlessness

Inability to concentrate, indecisiveness

Inability to take pleasure in former interests, social withdrawal

Unexplained aches and pains

Recurring thoughts of death or suicide

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hey! yeah i know some people who have done that with abercrombie. i think i might have tried it a time or two too. if i remember right the kids store clothes fit too. xoxo helpachick

hey! well, no matter how many other people are doing it, don't do it until you have absolutely no regretting feelings. you want to really really love the person you do it with. and if you do, well i know how you feel. but you need to keep your sanity. even though sex is "everything" it might not be. even though there seems to be a lot of people doing it, there is also a lot of people who dont. it just depends on who your talking to. xoxo helpachick

hey! well what i would do, is wear tampons on the weekends or when you're out of school, to begin with. once you wear them for so long this way (when you have lots of time to practice getting them in and changing them.) then once you get so you can do this fast, and you think you will be able to change them at school quick enough, that is when i would start wearing them to school. xoxo helpachick

hey! well when i was about 12 going on 13 the hair there started to be more noticable. so..what you need to do is go to the hairstylist and get it waxed. if you get your eyebrows waxed, its much like that. yes, it is going to hurt the first couple of times you get it done and it may be red for like a few minutes afterwards. but it is all worth it, and some places if you ask for it have like a numbing sort of lotion they can put on you before they wax to make the pain less. this is what i would do. xoxo helpachick

yeah i think as long as you have the 5 in above the navel part covered..it will look cute!
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hey! well, i would say that since this guy is shy, and his friends know it, then they are used to him being this way. since he's shy, then he is absolutely shy around girls, and so his friends have never really seen him really really interested in girls before, so they never think of it i dunno possible really. this recently happened with one of my guy friends who is pretty shy around girls, and all his friends that are guys thought it was so weird when he asked a girl out..and got a girlfriend not too long ago. i think that since this guy will talk to you, and seems interested, then he probably is. just go easy and don't flirt so much that it will make him shy away again. dont always listen to what the friends say, because sometimes they dont know as much as they think they do.
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yeah..wearing it that long is a little to long. i'd change at least once about half way through the day, like after lunch
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Nancy Drew
Descent
Matters of Life and Death


"Las Vegas"
- TV Episode
"Into the West"
American Crime
Stateside
My First Wedding (

Tempo
11:14
The Big Empty

Scorched
29 Palms
Tangled
Texas Rangers
Josie and the Pussycats
Blow Dry
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Antitrust

"Batman Beyond"

Batman Beyond: Return of the Joker

Get Carter
Sally


The Bumblebee Flies Anyway
"Dawson's Creek"
She's All That
The Hi-Line (
Living Out Loud
The Naked Man
Strike!

"The Outer Limits"
... The Eighteenth Angel
The Defenders: Payback
True Women
Country Justice
The House of Yes
Carpool
26 Summer Street
Tom and Huck
The Baby-Sitters Club
"WOAK Live"
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hey! well i know exactly how you feel...
what i would do is wear of course some jeans and then wear warm socks and tennis shoes. as for your top, wear a long sleeved shirt and a hoodie over that. it should keep you warm. if you're a person who's hands and ears get cold easily, then bring some cute looking gloves and a ear band or cute hat. as long as you wear clothes you like that are warm, i think you'll be ok! have fun
xoxo helpachick

hey! well you sound exactly how my skin is at times, and when it gets dry like that i use mary kay velocity moisturizer. it works really good..like it moisturizes but you dont break out! xoxo helpachick

hey well this is a sort of list my sister has made up to get herself ready for the same upcoming things. i follow things like this mentally, too.
1. only eat when your hungry, and only till full. also, try eating 2-3 meals a day that are healthy foods and portions. if you are a snack person instead of the cookies or chips try a apple or some yogurt.

2. excersize daily. this one is pretty much self explanitory. find a type of excersize you yourself really enjoy, and try doing it everyday. also, try doing some sit ups or crunches before you go to bed or in the mornings.

3. i've also heard that getting lots of sleep can also help you loose weight. i've been trying to get enough sleep myself lately, and it's hard, but really really try getting at the least, 9hours each night.
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hey! well i'm not sure what your social status is like, or how much "you time" you get. so if this is your case, then please maybe try taking my advice. maybe the case is that you don't get enough time just to yourself. think about it. if you're around people most of the day except for when you sleep, then there are times when your just worn out from everything, and just want to relax and not talk all the time. this is very understandable. what you should try to do is get (haha this is gonna sound really anti social..but) get away from people for a little while every day if you can. and i mean really try to do this. if you can't find somewhere in your house to just be by yourself not doing much, then go outside on a long walk or a run. just take time to be by yourself and relax every once in a while. the results of this will be that once you've been by yourself a little while, you'll be ready for people again and all the hectic talking going on. xoxo helpachick

it's a simple solution..but it's gonna sound a little harsh and hard to do but i'm sorry. i know how you feel that you really like this guy, and you don't wanna hurt him, but tell him that if he really likes you, he will be able to break up with the other girl. if he really likes you..then why won't he break up with the other girl? ask him that, and tell him that you know cheating isn't right, and that if he likes you then you two should be together, and he shouldn't stay with the girl that he doesnt feel that way about. it would be hurting him and her.
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hey! well my parents have had the same rule, but i have found a couple ways to bend the rule (with their permission!) first off, just calmly and casualy tell them that you have a boyfriend now. and if they know who he is, say "ya know,____?? yeah.." and they might start freaking out about how "no boys till 16" so then you need to get a little creative. a good way to do this would be by saying, well, he didnt ask me out on a DATE..and you guys just said no dating... and then propose the option of if he did ask you OUT then propose the idea of the two of you going with a group of people. this way it won't be just the two of you (this will look good to your parents i'm pretty sure) and so there will be other friends around too. but the group thing works for them, until your sixteen. and i know its hard but you're just gonna have to tell them about your b/f. just spit it out before you know what you're doing. seriously i thought a week about how i would tell my mom about my first b/f without her killing me. but it turns out...that she said that was ok. just say it calmly and cool and full of confidence. xoxo helpachick

well, if i were you i would tell him. i know how it feels to fall in love with someone, and kind of quickly. he said it first to me though, but we'd felt it longer before he actually came out and said it. so now that i think about it wait a couple weeks and really watch and listen to the way he treats you, and how he acts towards you and when you're around eachother. if it's clear that he feels strongly about you, then if i were you, i would tell him. sometime when it's just you two (or just you two in hearing range at least) and a moment when it wouldn't be totally random either. maybe sometime when he's bringing you home from a movie/date...if your old enough to where you go on those. or sometime over the phone, but i think in person would be best. best of luck and i think that if your best friend thinks he loves you, you will most likely have a good response from him when you tell him how you feel! xo helpachick

hey! well i sort of know how you feel because my sister graduates soon and will go to college, and we are super close so i know it will be hard for me too. but you still need to live a life of your own..and enjoy it!!! so here's somethings to hopefully keep you occupied:
**find a hobby that maybe you havent tried before or don't do that much; scrapbooking, collaging with old magazines you have, drawing, poetry, writing, reading, or anything else that comes to your mind. those are things you could do at home.

**find at least one form of excersize you can do everyday. like go on a run every morning or night, do some basketball..even if it is just shooting hoops, maybe practice tennis somewhere or volleyball.

**also, friends are important so since your friends live sort of far away (i definitly know how you feel...this is how it is with me too) you need to just like get on the phone/im and plan times to get together on weekends and stuff. if they go to the same school as you, then also you can all go to the sports stuff, dances, or other school activities. if they dont go to your school then plan times to get together anyways, and also if your schools compete in things, go to those events to see eachother too!

well, i hope i helped give you an idea on some stuff to do anyways! hope i helped and hope you find something to have fun with!!!xo helpachick

hey! well i couldn't get the pictures to paste on here so here are some links you can go to to look at the pictures yourself..it should have some instructions too!! xo helpachick

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip167.htmns

http://beauty.about.com/od/zassortedhairstyles/

http://beauty.ivillage.com/makeovers/hairlessons/0,,n88m,00.html

hey well i would go to the movies for a first date. that way there won't be any really awkward moments where you dont know what to talk about...since it is the first date. it will turn out to all be pretty fun and pick a movie that you know a girl wouldn't mind seeing..but that you wouldnt mind either. if you have another friend that's a girl maybe ask for her opinion on what she thinks a good date movie would be (since i dont know which movies are at your theatre...) but just something with not to much blood and goor and fighting, but something that you would enjoy as well. xoxo helpachick

hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

what about me?
I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
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