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is he really not interested??
14/f...ok so i kno this guy named Peter and two of his friends, Tyler and Trevor. So I like Peter a lot but he's really really shy and hard to get to know but I still am able to talk to him. One day i was talking to him and everything seemed like it was going well but after he was gone one of my friends said that Tyler said behind my back that Peter has absolutely NO INTEREST IN ME. But the next day I was talking to him and it seemed like he was SORTA FLIRTING with me. But after that I asked Trevor if wat Tyler said was true and he said probably yes. I dont kno wat to think and keep in mind that he is REALLY shy and wat i consider flirting could just be him talking. Please help
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thre are 2 possible reasons why these guys are saying that perter isnt interested in you.
1. they are right and peter is just a flirty guy who doesnt knwo how to let you down gently or doesnt want to be unliked by anyone.(sry if thats it)
or 2. one of these or both of these guys are interested in you so they are trying to get you to just give up on peter.
so the best thing that you can do is ask a more reliable source or ask peter. if hes scared to hurt your feelings and is telling you what you want o hear or being dismissive you should be able to tell. but thats the only sure fire way to get the answers you want.
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Well they could be right or wrong but they have no proof really. Don't go totally nuts over this guy, his friends could be right about what they said but then again Peter could change his mind if he gets to know you better. Maybe if he's really that shy, he's just afraid and might be trying to avoid people in this way.. So try talking to him, get to know him a bit more and then you can see if he likes you or not.
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well thats tough the friends could be telling the truth but in my own experience, i believe that its best to get your information from the source not its friends. Ask peter out is my suggestion or tell him how you feel, becuase sometimes guys lie about who they like or dont talk about ho they like. one of my best guy friends told me that he would never tell his guy friends who he likes, he said girls understand more and dont judge. so maybe he just hasnt told his friends how he truly feels. you got nothing to loose ask him out! good luck and tell me what happens!
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hey! well, i would say that since this guy is shy, and his friends know it, then they are used to him being this way. since he's shy, then he is absolutely shy around girls, and so his friends have never really seen him really really interested in girls before, so they never think of it i dunno possible really. this recently happened with one of my guy friends who is pretty shy around girls, and all his friends that are guys thought it was so weird when he asked a girl out..and got a girlfriend not too long ago. i think that since this guy will talk to you, and seems interested, then he probably is. just go easy and don't flirt so much that it will make him shy away again. dont always listen to what the friends say, because sometimes they dont know as much as they think they do.
xoxo helpachick
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