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i need advice
hey my names melissa fatato in 14 years old theres this kid chris that im like in love with but he has a girl friend and he likes me but he doesnt wanna break up with her so he wants to cheat on her with me but i cant do that because i would hate it if some one did that to me but i cant stop thinking about him what should i do?!?!
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Hi melissa this is HE who YOU speak of. I found this randomly on da internet the other day and then i saw your name on it so i got curious and sure enough its YOU lol neway. Mellissa i told you i liked you at a time i didnt really like ma girlfriend but after alll these months am starting to love here back and that point out da fact why you getting mixed messages. Dont wait on me to find someone who you really like go out and do watever you dont need my permission. And if something does happen wit me n ashleys relationship ill give you a HOLLA ight
i see you when i seee you
PEACE tell megan i said HI
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Do you really want to be with a guy who thinks like that? He's still thinking with the trouser department and not his head, he needs to grow up and you need to be with someone who will respect you. I don't think you're in love with him, you're in love with love and he got in the way. Forget him and wait for someone to come along who is worthy of your time. He certainly isn't.
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Your surname is Fatato?? Mwahahahaha.
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There's really only one thing you can do. You need to make him make a decision. He can either have you or her. He can't just have his cake and eat it too!!
If you were to agree to let him see you AND her, knowing that it was going on, you would basically be letting him use you and I'm sure you have a lot more self respect than to stand for being the third wheel in a relationship.
So you need to tell this guy that it's her or you and then deal with the consequences.
On a side note, I know you say that you're in love with him but I do really want you to think about this carefully. Suppose you were his girlfriend. What is to stop him from treating you the same way? Yes, he says he likes you but what if he's with you, find someone else he likes and makes them the same offer he just made you? You wouldn't even know about it and given the fact he's already tried this on, I doubt he'd have problems doing it again.
So please do think about it before you make your decision.
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Hey Hun:
ok first thing get him out of your head because if he wants to cheat on his girlfriend means he will cheat on you to soo that means his a loser if i was you i would tell his girlfriend that he wants to cheat on her no matter how much you love him his a cheat and thats not something he should be proud of he sounds like a jerk and if he did heat on her means he would be kissing 2 girls everytime and thats just bad there is another boy outthere that is righ for you but this chris guy is a no no honey make up your mind k well take care mwa mwa
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if you gave your real name, shoot yourself now. anyway just wait and see what happens but dont let him cheat. And just dont believe him when he says they broke up, go and ask her before you to actually start at it.
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it's a simple solution..but it's gonna sound a little harsh and hard to do but i'm sorry. i know how you feel that you really like this guy, and you don't wanna hurt him, but tell him that if he really likes you, he will be able to break up with the other girl. if he really likes you..then why won't he break up with the other girl? ask him that, and tell him that you know cheating isn't right, and that if he likes you then you two should be together, and he shouldn't stay with the girl that he doesnt feel that way about. it would be hurting him and her.
xoxo helpachick
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Ok, first of all, your last name rhyms with potato and I think thats awsome, but that has nothing to do with anything. Anyways, Tell him what you think of him cheating on the other girl. If your not comterable, talk to the girl about it. Don't mention anything about "Cheating on her" to the girl. That would make the girl mad at you and the guy.
Tell the guy that you only want to be with him if he dumps the other girl. It's usually more comfterable if you say it online or on the phone, but it will mean more if you say it in person.
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Well, I think cheating is pretty much one of the most disgusting and disrespectful things.
Ohkay now, If this guy isn't willing to break up with his girlfriend, then obviously he's not worth your time. You can't go on liking someone who is taken, and even if he says he likes you back he might not be serious because he's not willing to be with you. He's not worth your time. And, if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, what makes you think he won't cheat on you?
-think about it before you do anything, this guy sounds like a scumbag =]
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