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what do i say if sombody asks u out (link)
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You tell them the truth. If you like them, then go out with that person. If you don't want to go out with that person, just politely say no.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Why is it so hard too kill yourself?.... I've tried it soo much . I can never do it! Ive puttin soo much knives to my throat i even asked people if they would do me the favor. I offered a couple grand. Just im sooo depressed ! The love of my life is in mexico visiting family! Im just soo sad cause out of no were she calls me and i barely wake up and she says i cant deal with your bullshit anymore, soo i say what ?? Whos this ? She says yesenia and i was like wasup babe?? She says she doesnt wana talk toe anymore. She clicks and i call her aunt and says she doesnt want to talk to me ever again! Soo i gave her time to think a couple of days and i call her again and she dont answer her aunt says shes busy or do something! You know what i think is she found somebody else over there in mexico and probably did something with him and she doesnt want to feel guility so she broke up with me..... I would still take her back thats how madly in love i am with her ! Shes my life ! I live for her ! I want to get married with her , i want to have kids , have a great family, have tons blessings, and be very healthy , the most important thing is to be with my wife! I know she wont take me back sooo im giving up! Its the easiest way! I know what im going to do. Im going to make her CD and leave my girlfriend yesenia a letter say i want her to be happy amd how much i love her! And her to have tons of kids and have a great husband cause i cant! Im a mess up. I know i dont make her happy at all. Im the most horrible person! Being heart broken is sooo painful ! Ive lost 15 pounds in 9 days i never want to eat. i just wish we together and she was laying on me shoulder just telling me how much she loves me! But i know thats never happeningg! Im 15 and im going to kill my self ! The best way listening to our songs and staring at pictures we took and just get hammered and just cuting my wrist. Doesnt sound painfull at all. I want yesenia to have a great life and just to be happy! I wish i would of gaven that to you babe! I love you! I love you soo much more then love! Te amo mamita chula mi princesa! Love you babe!! Us way past forever te la promento ! I more then promise and swear maybe well be together after life who knows!! I love you my queen! Bye. (link)
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I'm sorry if I might sound a bit rude, but I'm upset that you're giving up on love and you're about to commit suicide over one girl! This is what makes me upset: Someone who has so much life to live and they hung up over the petty thing and the small things in life and they think death is the only way out! SUICIDE IS THE COWARD'S WAY OUT!! There are more girls in the world other than Yesenia. And so what if she found somebody in Mexico. She's HAPPY! So why can't you go on with your life and be HAPPY? It's upsetting to me that you think this is the end. THIS IS NOT AND WILL NOT BE THE END OF YOUR LIFE!! You need to search yourself and find out why she said she couldn't put up with you anymore. Maybe if you work on that, you'll be ready for another relationship. I'm here to tell you suicide is not a way out and you will not find peace on the other side if you go through with your plan. I'll be the first one to admit, I have no idea what your going through! I don't know the first thing about having a girlfriend and I'm 16! But I do know about life. But I know about love. And I know what it feels like to lose somebody whether they were an ex-girlfriend, or a loved one. My grandmother passed away a couple years ago, but I know for a fact that she wouldn't want me to kill myself. She didn't let people stop her from living. She always pushed me out of my comfort zone and inspired me to live even to this day! I know it's not the same as you and your girlfriend, but love is still love. You have to accept the fact that she is gone. She is happy in Mexico. So you be happy. DON'T EVER COMMIT SUICIDE BECAUSE ONE BAD RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WORTH YOUR LIFE!
I really hope this helps!
~Andrew~
P.S. You always have a friend here.
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Hi. I'm sorry if this gets lengthy. Most of it is venting. But, it will help you get a clearer picture. First let me point out that I am 21.I will be turning 22 soon. I am graduating from college this December with two Bachelors degrees and then going on to pursue a Master's. Most people tell me that they wish they had me as their daughter. I'm a very religious and spiritual person. I don't like to stay out too late unless something runs late, but not as a habit. Right now, I stopped working, because i had a part-time job, and since Im graduating college, I am ready to start on my career. However, I never ask my parents for money, unless it's for books for school or for gas, because I don't want to get stopped in the middle of the road.
I use to be very close with my mom. I use to tell her EVERYTHING. I think the problem was that I let her in a little too much, till I let her control me most of the time. I let her dress me however she wanted and I would wear whatever she told me to wear. I was such good friends with my mom, that I decided to stay here to pursue my undergraduate degree. Although my mom always told me what to wear and what to do, she seemed to have a pretty lenient side. On the other hand, she would let me go wherever I wanted and do whatever I wanted (within limits, I'm not saying that I was at a nightclub at 16. I'm just saying I had fun). She never told me I couldn't go to a party or anything like that, as long as she knew where it was. I think that the reason that we had this kind of relationship was because we had such good communication, which is great and rare during the adolescent period.
Moving on to something very personal. Being such a religious and spiritual person, it took a lot of thinking on what I felt would be right in terms of losing my virginity before marriage. I even talked to my mom about it! Letting her in on this very personal part of my life should be evidence that I keep very little from her. Yet, she's always accusing me of lying. The other day, I went to the zoo. Because I didn't take any pictures, she said she didn't believe I was at the zoo. Where does she think I was? Having sex?! If she already knows that I'm sexually active, would I not have just told her I was going to spend time alone with my boyfriend? It is irritating me more and more how she's always telling me what to do. And she is so childish about it, too. If I don't do what she says, such as wear the shoes that she wants me to, she will not speak to me for days.
No one in my family holds her accountable for her actions. They are always excusing her saying that she is "just nervous" or she has "been through a lot." Being though a lot is the following: her boyfriend died when she was 15. Her husband left her for another woman. She adopted a baby who died at birth. She adopted another baby (me), and I was a very sick child so she spent a lot of time at the hospital taking care of me. Now, I understand this is a lot. However, just 5 months ago, I lost my little cousin, to cancer, and he was the only person in this family who I was truly close to. She adopted me, but I found out I was adopted at 18 and she arranged a meeting to meet my bio. parents behind my back. She may have been taking care of me, but I was the sick one. Her husband may have left her, but I lost my first close boyfriend to drugs. So, I'm not trying to degrade her troubles. I'm just saying that I have had my share as well. And no one ever excuses me for ANYTHING. If I breathe to loud, they tell me.
My aunt was talking to me the other day about the argument I had with my mom because she wouldn't bring me a towel when I was in the bathroom and there were no towels. And as I mentioned, I'm adopted. And she tells me "you're mother gave you up because she wanted to. She didn't want you.' Then she calls my dad my "supposed father," because of the fact that I'm adopted. Then she proceeds to telling me that she's "glad" I'm here, and that I should feel lucky. I feel that this is extremely insulting.
My cousin (the brother of the one that passed away) treats me awful! He's only 26. He is a medical student. So, he, himself, is a student. And whenever I talk about my graduate programs or just intelligent conversations about psychology or sociology (my majors), they (him and my mom) just turn away like I'm some little kid who saw this information on Elmo. I feel horrible. They are like two little allies. She is always calling him and texting him to go out for dinner or whatever. And while their out, he starts texting me "when are you coming home?" super serious, like if he were my father. It disgusts me! Most of the time, when he's texting this, I'm at the library or my boyfriend's family's house playing board games. I've done nothing wrong and nothing to deserve this! I wish that I could work and move out. But, the only reason I can't is because since it is my last semester, I had to get those classes, and they were all scattered.
I try to get them to take me seriously. I am almost a college graduate with a respectable career. I am an adult. But, I am very small and I look very young. I am 4"11, very petite. And somehow, I think that there is an influence there. Maybe they can't get past my appearance. I don't know. And even if I did dress to try to look very old and professional, I shouldn't have to do that in my own home.
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Everytime I answer a question like this, I always say, TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. You can't expect anything to change unless you speak your mind. If you don't like what somebody is saying about your biological parents, call them out on it. Say how you feel! And another thing, you should start being your own person. You are legally an adult and your mom no longer has any say as to how you dress.
Hopefully this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S. Definitely try to reach out to your older cousin.
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I've been with my wife for 12 years now... 6 of which have been living with her parents helping to take care of her father ( who passed away a few years ago ) and now helping her mother and paying bills. I gave up my life in my home state to be with my wife. I haven't seen my father since my wedding 6 years ago.. I have not seen my mother since MOVING HERE. ( quite frankly we are poor ) Ever since I got here I've been an outsider despite my efforts to be nice and do what needs to be done. I have worked hard to fit into their culture and family to no avail. Finally I gave up and just resided myself to trying to stay out of the way and not bother anyone. Not only do I have that going against me but I'm extremely over weight. ( My weight comes from not knowing the dangers of Rice when I move here until it was to late ) Anyways I've always been on the outside looking in no matter what. Some body talks shit about my wife.. I'm not allowed to respond cause of the problems it might cause. Someone talks shit about me? Same thing. Best examples I can give are when my wife's Grand Father passed away they had a microphone set up for anyone who felt the need to say a few things about Herman ( the grandfather ) This man was one of 2 people in this family that NEVER judged me... he welcomed me with open arms and a smile. I felt compelled to say something.... Well later on I hear that one of the daughters and her husband had some pretty mean things to say about me and how I WAS DISRESPECTFUL. I wanted to confront them.. not angry but still talk to them face to face... nope.. wasn't allowed. Just recently my sister-in-law's husband while drunk tried to boast about getting one gun and drawing it on me to confront me about a problem. Of course I wasn't there when he said it. My wife to me about it and quiet honestly I was angry.. I wanted to confront him... nope.. not allowed. IF I did the sister-in-law would take her 5 year old daughter and not let the family see her for a few months... ( which she'll do anyways when she gets into a fight with one of the other family members ) so nope.. not allowed. Never mind if he had said that about my wife she would of hunter his ass down... my brother-in-law would of kicked his ass... and my mother-in-law would of thrown him out on his ass... nope.. I can't say shit. I have been putting up with keeping my mouth shut for TWELVE YEARS. I dedicate half of my income to this house to help pay bills.. I have to buy my own food.. even use a separate outdoor bathroom cause I'm not allowed to use the house one. I'm not the lower rung on the ladder.. I'm not even on the fucking thing!!!! I have been known as the quiet.. laid back kind of guy that can get over everything... however I find myself just building in anger over this last straw.. I glance at my wife and feel nothing but anger....My thoughts have even started turning to inflicting physical harm and even just blind murder rage... how much can one man take? I gave up my life and my family for this?!?!?! I love my wife....but As much as I love her and don;t ever want to leave her.. I sometimes feel if I don;t... I WILL kill someone.. or more. (link)
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I know I'm a bit too young to say anything about marriage and in-laws, but you keep saying "not allowed". Nobody took duct tape and put it around your mouth. You have a voice. USE IT. Like my mom always tells me, "Open up your mouth and talk." Tell every single person you have a problem with the TRUTH. The truth does set you free. Some people may not like it but they have to hear it. If they don't want to listen, TOUGH! If your sister-in-law wants to take her daughter away for a few months, TOUGH! Better that than for you to go on a murderous rampage. You get rid of rage by talking. People don't think that it works but it does. Another thing is, why are you helping pay for a house that you can't even use the bathroom in? This is just my opinion, but if I were you, I would talk to my wife and tell her how angry I am towards her family and that it might be best for everyone if we just left and moved away. Why do you have to put a muzzle over your mouth to try and please her family? If I may say so, I don't think her grandfather would be happy to see how the rest of her family treats you. You asked, "How much can one man take" and I say 12 years is long enough. Call a family meeting and talk to that family. Talk to your wife first so she's not caught off-guard. Do not let her change your mind, but just let her know that you can't deal with her family anymore and you are going to say something about it. Her family may get very upset, but that's what happens when you're honest and tell the truth.
I really hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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Well my relationship has lasted like 8months, but during the 5th month we had many fights and break-ups. I had loved that boy and he says the same but i just dont feel it. We insulted ourselves in the end but got together as friends with benefits. He is always calling me names, stupid-dumb-bitch-etc and he says he is joking, also he is always calling me loser and he says out loud the things i hate most. No body of my family-friends likes him, so we are together hidden. My sister says is abusive mentally for him to say those "names" more then 5 times a day. Also when he gets mad at me just because i did something wrong he gets like sooooo angry, i get scared, he looks at me bad and say it's my fault even when it is not. He has never payed me anything i bought him food, tickets to a movie, and when im hungry and have no money he only buys food for himself and not for me. :( oh and his mom hates me to death...
I dont know what to do, it is so hard to move on, is he using me??? does he loves me?? should i stay away from him? :/ thanks (link)
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This is just my opinion but I don't think he loves you. You shouldn't be with somebody who calls you out your name. And usually, when the family doesn't like the boyfriend, it's a red flag. Your sister is right about your boyfriend being mentally abusive towards you. If he has a temper that scares you, imagine if he was an alcoholic. He would probably be mentally and physically abusive. It's okay to buy him gifts just as long as he returns the favor, but he doesn't. He's selfish and his mother doesn't like you. It's obvious that you need to leave this guy and find somebody else. You can do way much better.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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I broke my parents knife set! The knives are all fine but the block is badly damaged! Where can I buy a wooden knife block online? I mean, they have had this knife set longer than they have had ME so I better have a plan by the time they get home from their trip and I have to tell them what happened. Help! (link)
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Unless the knife block had sentimental value, you shouldn't worry about it. Household utensils aren't meant to last forever. Just tell them the truth and that you will buy a new one. Maybe even a whole new knife set. By the way, how did you break it?
Good Luck.
~Andrew~
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My sister is 3 years younger than me and she hits me and pinches me and even bites me, I have scars from her and I have considered self harm as relief from the stress she gives me. She tells my Cousin (who is 5) to harm me and he does, I feel like I can't escape. I always end up with the blame and my parents don't notice or say they don't want to hear it, if she is hurting me and I hit her to defend myself she runs crying to my parents and I always get the blame, I want it to end but I feel like I can't escape, please help! (link)
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This is a very tough situation your in. I would tell you to talk to your parents but seeing as that is not an option for you, I say you defend yourself. If you get in trouble with your parents, you let them know that your sister is hitting you first and that you were just defending yourself. But if you're a guy, I know what you go through. My sister messes with me and my other brothers because she knows we can't hit her back. Hopefully you have a video camera and maybe you'll be able to catch her hitting you and you can show it to your parents. Now the five year old is a different story. You should start putting him on time out. I know it sounds corny, but it's the only option other than hitting him which I'm sure would get you in major trouble. give him a warning and let him know that if he hits you again he is going on time out. If he does hit you again than you put him on time out according to his age (5 years old = 5 minutes on time out). If he gets back up, sit him right back down on time out and start the time over. I recommend you watch the show "Supernanny" for any additional help.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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Hi my name is gijs I live in the netherlands and I'm 13 years old
Iv had this crush on this girl mirte for a year now and I finaly what to man up and ask her out but I don't know how and I'm to scared to do it help me pleasee
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Well you have to do what you just said. MAN UP. She will nevere know you like her unless you just gather your courage and just tell her. Alot of times it's not as scary as it seems. Your mind is always going to make you fearful of things you haven't done before, but you can't let that stop you. Believe in yourself and know that you can do anything.
Go get her!
~Andrew~
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so like me and my bf are gonna have sex he's like super experienced so what should i do i have no idea . tips on what to say, how to move? detailed the better. any good sites? also all the girls say he's huge and really good. he's 4 years older than me. thanks!! (link)
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I'm kind of nervous for you. This guy is four years older than you which make me wonder about your age. And he's had sex before. If I were you, I would have a problem if a bunch of girls were telling me how good the guy is in bed. That means that they have either slept with him or they found out from somebody else which means he might be a bragging as to what he is doing with these girls. DO YOU NOT SEE THE RED FLAGS HERE? All I'm saying is be careful. PLEASE BE SURE THAT THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT TO DO AND THAT THIS GUY IS WHO YOU WANT TO DO IT WITH. DON"T BE SO QUICK TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY. Keep in mind that your body is special. Make sure this guy respects you, your emotions and your body. Hopefully you know this guy really well.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for 2 yrs. We loved each other a lot but often had fights over little things & he would temporary break up with me (like me refusing to eat fish-which is a very imp part of his culture). It was a Saturday and my last exam was over, i couldn't wait to spend the evening with him. We were having a very nice evening when i passed a comment about his family having no property of their own and staying in a rented apartment. This upset him a lot and he broke up with me. We had no contact for a week and i missed him. The following Saturday evening, he stopped by to collect his stuff from my place when i cried & apologized but he stuck to his decision. He was going to a pub with his friends (two guys). I felt sad and depressed that night and requested him to let me come along too to which he agreed. i tried getting his attention the whole time there but he ignored me & spoke to his friends about another girl he found hot and how she'd be a perfect fit in the family. I was heart broken & i allowed myself to get absolutely drunk and while they were dropping me back home, my boyfriend sat in front with one of his friends who was driving while i sat behind with the other..now i dont remember anything in the car but he saw me give his frnd a peck on his lips from the rear view mirror.The next day he calls me all sorts of names, tells his parents too..he said he would've gotten back if i hadn't done this..he says i cheated on him and i must be his bitch and get out of my skin to get him back. Its been 2 months now and he hasn't gotten back but treats me like his bitch. I have quit drinking out of my own will. i really love the guy, what must i do? (link)
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I would not want to be in this relationship. Yes you were very wrong for talking about his family's living conditions, but that never justifies a man to disrespect a woman like that. As far as I'm concerned, your part in this relationship is over. You don't need anybody treating you like dirt because you deserve better than that. This man has no respect for you. I believe that when you made that comment about his family, he used that opportunity to play with your emotions. CUT HIM LOOSE. You don't need to be with guys like that.
~Andrew~
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Okay so... I have this um, inner problem. Okay let me start by saying that I'm sixteen right mow. Okay so I've been in this small clique since seventh grade. I wont tell you names but we we're four. Me A, E and T. Okay so I was always the one that was always shadowed by the rest because of my extreme shyness. Over the years though I've managed to get over it mostly - enough to dance and act. So in eight grade E left the school because she had really low grades but we kept on going out together to places like the movies. In ninth grade A distanced herself during the second semester so it was mostly T and I. What always angered me though, was that... Well A was always perfect and T was the same and at times E and T fought over who got to sit or work with A. I of course kept quiet during all that time and I never said anything. After A started hanging out with other girls me and T became BFFF's. I know that it's really wrong of me but... She and A are always sooo perfect... I get jealous OK? A has a boyfriend and has had some others before and everybody loves her and they think she's a total angel... They both had excellence on middle school graduation, they're good at every subject, they can dance, act, sing, they are social butterflies, they're pretty, they've both had their first kisses - I havn't - and T had it with the boy I'm NOW sort of crushing on... I feel so dumb, ugly, anti-social and depressed whenever they are around. I love T she's my bfff but there are times in which I can't stand seeing her and in turn I feel like a monster... My dad and mom fight all day and my mom had a meltdown in the laboratory and thanks to that I had to get four inyections - not only did I had to take a blood test but also an MRI because I might have epilepsy - Ok I think I just had a meltdown and I have a serious headache so I'll make this clear.
What do I do? Should I act like nothing's wrong? Or... Idk answer me soon so I can stop pitying myself into a dark miserable hole :( (link)
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Why are you still in a group with those girls? If you don't like the way you feel as a person when you're with them, then you should leave. STOP MAKING YOURSELF FEEL BAD. BE YOUR OWN PERSON. You should never hold somebody to such high standards because you never idolize people because you never know what goes on behind closed doors. You need to start loving yourself and get your confidence back.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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do you have any tips for a newbie on giving blow jobs? answers from both guys and girls are appreciated! age 15 gender female. (link)
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15 year olds shouldn't be giving blow jobs. Sorry.
Hopefully you make better decisions.
~Andrew~
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Well my boyfriend is like really shy and is not at all intimate with me in any way .ive read other articles about this and all of them are telling me I should make the first movebut the problem is I'm also very shy so I was wondering is their a way for me to like entice him to make the first move.pleeeaaaassseee help! (link)
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Well, you can be very flirtatious with him. BUT BE FLIRTY, NOT DIRTY! You said you want to entice him to make a move but don't scare him away. Shy people like to stay in their comfort zone so you can't just force him out of it too fast. And one more thing. I really think you should make the first move. I mean if you truly believe he likes you, then you shouldn't be afraid to show your feelings. Men like a woman who is willing to take charge if need be, but not a woman who is controlling. So giving your boyfriend a kiss shouldn't be too hard.
Good Luck with your first kiss or first real kiss!
~Andrew~
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So there's this guy and we have similar personalities - so we get along REALLY well. everyone says we should date - i know i don't want to date him. but now everyone is saying my best friend should date him - which they don't like each other like that, but i still get this jealous feeling. Why do i get that if i don't think i like him? or how can i stop liking him?! I don't know! (link)
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You like him. If you get jealous then you like him. And there is no known way to keep yourself from liking somebody. Maybe you should date him and you might even end up liking him even more. Just try it.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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I'm going to kill myself. I already have my mind made up. I tired of living and life has nothing else to offer me. Plz someone tell me how to do this with feeling little to no pain. I've tried overdosing on pills but Instead of Passing out I just threw up. If no one can help me then I'll just suffer through whatever pain I have to to end this. (link)
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Do not kill yourself. Suicide doesn't bring peace. And what is so bad in your life that you want to kill yourself. I really want to help you but you have to let people know what is going on. You can leave a comment on here or you can go to my profile and get my email. I DON'T WANT YOU TO DIE and I mean that. I just want to help.
~Andrew~
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i want to ask my girlfriend for sex but i dont know if the times right what do i do to know if shes ready for it? ): (link)
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There's more to sex than you think. You have to be emotionally ready to take that step. If I were you I would wait, but it's your choice.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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im looking for a 9 year old girl to have sex with help me
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No one is going to help you find a nine year old to sexually abuse. And if you are nine years old yourself, then you shouldn't be having sex in the first place. I can tell you that you aren't emotionally ready for sex. You need to get your mind and your soul right with God.
Get help.
~Andrew~
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Okay, I'm going to sound like a close minded douche. But is it normal to be annoyed by certain types of music and styles? In particular, mainstream screaming/death metal or whatever. I know it is music but I just get so annoyed 'cause like the people I know who listen to that type of music, most listen to and dress in that style like in a wanting to fit in way. Like oh, I'm cool because of this, or they WANT to be considered weird by others. Like an attention thing? Or having the huge headphones that everyone on a bus can hear the screaming, and not even the listener can make out the lyrics. I don't know. Maybe it's just a pet peeve or whatever they call it. Other things too. Other things too, I love rap but I get sooo annoyed when I hear all this "Swagg" And "In the club" "Shoes and money" crap actually being considered rap. All that commercial, monotonous, negative stuff makes like a whole stereo type of the genre. I go onto iTunes and look under Hip Hop/Rap and it's all the same artists you hear on the radio. Most of it sounds pop-ish and too plasticy, I really think iTunes should label it under a whole new genre. Those are NOT rappers. They are business men. I understand it's technically music, this new-rap, but c'mon. Do you really think they all want to sound the same? No, most do it for the money. Real rap should be more than just business. Heck, all music should be more than just entertainment. But what I see in certain sections/artists is nothing but an money making entertainment business. Also, my favorite band released an album in 2011. The instrumentation and lyrics were great, 5 stars in my book, but the only thing I disliked was that it seemed too polished and a bit plastic-like. I've noticed this with other recent releases as well. I don't know. What is this about? (link)
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It means you have a mind of your own. There's nothing wrong with hating certain types of music. I'm 16 and I like gospel music. Don't be afraid to go against the crowd because it's the individuals that will lead the crowd.
Hope this helped.
~ANdrew~
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Ok, I had my first boyfriend about 3 and a half years ago. We were purely a 'hugging' couple, never even kissed. I left the country for a month then we met up again the weekend before school started and everything was fine. On the very first day of school, he barely looked or talked to me. He broke up with me 3 weeks later. I wasn't upset, just a little put out, but I accepted the fact. A year later, he started liking me again (infuriating me) but stupidly, I asked him if he wanted to go out again. The second time around was far more physical and I began to lose interest steadily. The day after he told me he loved me, he found out I was losing interest and confronted me about it. It was then we broke up. He took it really hard, even told me he contemplated stepping in front of a train.
I went away for a year after this and when I saw him again, he seemed fine, was able to talk to me normally and everything. However, because of that pain I caused, I can never see myself in a relationship again. Help? (Sorry for the novel-like question, just want all the facts there :)) (link)
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You need to forgive yourself. Yes you may have caused pain, but pain comes with the truth. It's okay to be single, but don't give up on love. Forgive yourself and keep searching for your Mr. Right.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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I'm 18/m.Now it's been almost 10 months for me an ma girl's relationship.During this 9 months we've gone so far.In the sense we've got really close to each other.She is an attractive nice girl.So there are a lot of guys who is coming after her.Since we started going out 6 or 7 guys have asked her out.And even few of the know that she is not single.Once I logged in to her FB account and she has been talking to a lot of guys.I really trust her.But then y'day when we were talking she was like 'this guy told me that I've a nice figure and an ass'.This guy has been flirting with her.After all she is a girl.And she is not single.I have never told her anything when it come to other guys.But now I'm a little bit upset with her policy about the other guys.I'm clueless.But I know she loves me a lot.But that has been bothering me. (link)
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Let her know the truth about how you feel. The key to every good relationship is trust and honesty.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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