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giving a blow job
do you have any tips for a newbie on giving blow jobs? answers from both guys and girls are appreciated! age 15 gender female.
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Hi,so umm im just saying that you should NOT be doing this imean if you respect yourself then dont do it ever how are you going too get respect if you dont respect yourslef ! :/
Idont mean too rain on your parade but ijust think that you shouldnt....Oh yea Your 15!!
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You shouldn't even be asking this question.
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You're fifteen and how old is he? That could be illegal in your area as it is in mine. You shouldn't be doing that. You could catch something, not even joking.
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15 year olds shouldn't be giving blow jobs. Sorry.
Hopefully you make better decisions.
~Andrew~
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I'm a girl and I love giving my boyfriend blow jobs... he loves that.
Top tips I would say:
1. Make sure you don't just focus on his penis, I think it's important that you kiss and lick his balls and rub them a bit whilst you're sucking him off.
2. There's a little lump behind his balls that is a trigger spot; massage it in little circles whilst you're sucking him off.
3. There's a really good technique I learnt that works in groups of 10 thrusts; you do 9 shallow thrusts and take him deep throat once, then 8 shallow 2 deep, 7 & 3 etc. By the time its 1 shallow and 9 deep ones he should be coming!!
4. Don't worry if you struggle to take him deep in your mouth because of your gag reflex (I have so many problems with this!!), using your hand on the bottom of his penis will make it feel better for him, and you won't need to worry about gagging. Squeezing the bottom of his penis is also a good tip. Another tip would be to suck on a menthol cough sweet before going down on him; it will make the pleasure more intense for him, and it will numb the back of your throat slightly, making your gag reflex less noticeable.
5. Moaning and making little noises whilst you are sucking him off will also make the blow job better for him, as he will be able to feel the vibrations on his penis. My boyf loves this.
6. It's also a good idea to look and sound like you're really enjoying it; this makes him feel like he can relax and enjoy it without having to worry about his performance, as well as it being a turn on that you love it so much. Though I wouldn't suggest you fake enthusiasm, he'll be able to tell!!
7. Lick and (gently!!) suck the tip of his penis too, as there are a lot of nerve endings here, so it will be really sensitive and pleasurable for you to do this.
If he comes (and he probably will unless you decide to have sex or something) decide with him before hand what you want to do. He will probably tell you when he's coming, so at this point you can either finish him off with your hand (if you don't want him to come in your mouth) or let him come in your mouth and either have some tissues ready to spit it out in (you may want to go into the bathroom to do this - it's not so sexy!) or you could swallow it. Personally, I swallow, but it is completely up to you. There is no right way, and I'm pretty sure your partner won't mind either way.
Have fun hunny!!
Also.... make sure you don't bite him (unless he asks i guess!) since this won't be pleasurable for him. Try not to use your teeth.
I have given blowies with braces on and it is possible, just be a little more careful that your teeth don't get in the way. It would be so painful for him if he got nicked by your brace!
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