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do you have any tips for a newbie on giving blow jobs? answers from both guys and girls are appreciated! age 15 gender female. (link)
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I'm a girl and I love giving my boyfriend blow jobs... he loves that.
Top tips I would say:
1. Make sure you don't just focus on his penis, I think it's important that you kiss and lick his balls and rub them a bit whilst you're sucking him off.
2. There's a little lump behind his balls that is a trigger spot; massage it in little circles whilst you're sucking him off.
3. There's a really good technique I learnt that works in groups of 10 thrusts; you do 9 shallow thrusts and take him deep throat once, then 8 shallow 2 deep, 7 & 3 etc. By the time its 1 shallow and 9 deep ones he should be coming!!
4. Don't worry if you struggle to take him deep in your mouth because of your gag reflex (I have so many problems with this!!), using your hand on the bottom of his penis will make it feel better for him, and you won't need to worry about gagging. Squeezing the bottom of his penis is also a good tip. Another tip would be to suck on a menthol cough sweet before going down on him; it will make the pleasure more intense for him, and it will numb the back of your throat slightly, making your gag reflex less noticeable.
5. Moaning and making little noises whilst you are sucking him off will also make the blow job better for him, as he will be able to feel the vibrations on his penis. My boyf loves this.
6. It's also a good idea to look and sound like you're really enjoying it; this makes him feel like he can relax and enjoy it without having to worry about his performance, as well as it being a turn on that you love it so much. Though I wouldn't suggest you fake enthusiasm, he'll be able to tell!!
7. Lick and (gently!!) suck the tip of his penis too, as there are a lot of nerve endings here, so it will be really sensitive and pleasurable for you to do this.
If he comes (and he probably will unless you decide to have sex or something) decide with him before hand what you want to do. He will probably tell you when he's coming, so at this point you can either finish him off with your hand (if you don't want him to come in your mouth) or let him come in your mouth and either have some tissues ready to spit it out in (you may want to go into the bathroom to do this - it's not so sexy!) or you could swallow it. Personally, I swallow, but it is completely up to you. There is no right way, and I'm pretty sure your partner won't mind either way.
Have fun hunny!!
Also.... make sure you don't bite him (unless he asks i guess!) since this won't be pleasurable for him. Try not to use your teeth.
I have given blowies with braces on and it is possible, just be a little more careful that your teeth don't get in the way. It would be so painful for him if he got nicked by your brace!
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My boyfriend loves me and cares about me a lot. The other day we were hanging out and he sat on my chest and pulled down his pants, sticking his dick in my face. He wanted a blowjob but I had previously told him I didn't want to do that. Ive given him a handjob before and hes fingered me, but I don't like doing stuff so ive told him to stop before but some how we keep ending up doing sexual things. Should I break up with him since he promised me he would never push me into something I didn't want to do? Or do I give him another chance? 15/female (link)
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gEftWCG5Ow
When i was your age (maybe a year younger) i was in a 'relationship' with someone who treated just like you've described, except with me it was a case of him forcing me to be fingered. I didn't like it at all but i didn't do anything to stop it. I never thought of it as rape, but it actually is. Even if it's someone you like and are willing to do other things with!
I say, really think about what he's doing to you and how it makes you feel - if you're not happy doing it with him then i think it would make you unhappy with him?
Stay safe sweetie xxx
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Hi, I'm 14 and am just starting the mandatory swim unit in gym class. Well of course I got my period the day the unit started, and I have no idea what to do because I've been wearing pads ever since I got my period about 9 months ago. I told my mom and we bought me some tampons, which neither my mom nor myself have ever used. To practice, I tried inserting a tampon today and it hurt like HELL. I'm a virgin, of course, and I tried several times throughout the day to get it in. I have the applicator thingies and on one try I got it almost al the way in, got the applicator off but the tampon was giving me this horrible burning sensation so I took it out immediately. I did everything on the box, tried relaxing myself and going in at a forty-five degree angle, and it just KILLS. I have no idea what I'm going to do, because I can't keep missing gym class. I have to swim on Monday, and I can't get the freaking tampon in. Please help!!!! Thank you!! (link)
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I work in a swimming pool 2 or 3 nights a week and as it is my job I can't really take sick leave for every period. When I first started I had (like you) been having periods about 9 months. I found it very difficult to insert tampons and also very uncomfortable.
It comes with practice! Don't hurt yourself or make yourself sore though. I find it helps if you make your vagina a little bit wet before, so it will slide in better. Also, try aiming for your lower back. I have to sit on the toilet and do it, even three years on. I still mess them up very often! Take your time, there's no rush. If you do it slowly then if it feels wrong your can alter it!
Think about what tampons you use; does it have an applicator? Are they big ones? I found some tiny ones the other day which are about an inch long and about 0.5-1cm thick! It expands once it's in. They're brill for swimming, just for shorter periods of time. I think it was by lilets!
hope every things fine, you can always pull your teacher aside and mention it if you're still worried. :)
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Hi(: My boyfriend says he wants to eat me out and I'm ready. Kinda. It would be my first time and I want to know how it feels like so I'm prepared. Is there also anyway that I can imitate that feeling? Or do I just have to wait? (link)
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Firstly: there's nothing to be nervous about, it's all fun :)
It feels good... Although I can imagine it depends on if you're the sort of person who likes a lot of tongue when kissing? I do and I love it... It's a very sensitive part of your body and a Tongue can be much more sensitive than a finger..
Get him to chew on a menthol cough sweet first if you want to take things up a notch ;)
Have fun hunny!
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what can you do when you`re so lost you dont know what you`re doing anymore and want to kill yourself but dont really know which way to do it?
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I also know how you are feeling... I've been there myself and one of my closest friends has been stuck like it for a while. He's taken months to realise he has depression, and it is only through speaking to another friend who was in a similar position to him that he realised. He went to the doctors a couple of weeks ago and theyve given him some medication to help. I've noticed the difference already.
The worst thing you can do right now is kill or harm yourself. Speak to someone you trust, or speak to a stranger - that could be easier or you. My email is loveyababe_x@hotmail.co.uk feel free to email me at any time!
I know it may not seem like it for you right now, but things will get better, I promise! Best wishes xxxx
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This person makes me feel like he likes me but I'm confused because I'm not sure if he likes me or does he act this way because of our closeness.
I have this guy friend. We're very close but we often fight.
He's very sweet, biased, and thoughtful when it comes to me.
I think he likes me because..
1. He likes playing with my hair and writing things on my back using his finger.
2. He overreacts when I get mad at him.
3. He randomly hugs me.
Wait but there are more. :(
There are times when I tease my friend about being in a relationship with him and he goes like... I'll rather date (my name).
He really likes playing with my hair he also likes drawing at my back when there are classes. The teachers even caught him.
When my friends tease us he doesn't react.
He says a lot of sweet stuffs and when we play games he always choses me. Like who would you give your most special treasure? ...
He makes sure he talks to me and he gets mad when I don't talk to him.
He gets emo when I don't talk to him. It's like his mood changes.
He also randomly hugs me and there was a time I hugged him and he wanted me to hug him again.
Our eyes usually meet and there are a lot of times I think he is looking at me.
I'm really confused. Does he like me or are we just really close? :(
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This is quite similar to me and my best friend right now. He told me though that he doesn't want a girlfriend right now (just in convo) and I'm happy being single but I'd be happy in a relationship too. Though all of the people we work with tell me he wants a gf more than anything... Hmm.
Anyway, I think that if it did come about you (and me haha) should be very careful, i hate hearing people say 'it'll ruin your friendship!' but it is so true :( just make sure that you want to be in a relationship with him more than you want to be just friends. I'm still unsure what I want to do! You could always try subtly saying stuff like 'I hate being single!' and see how he reacts? From where I'm sat if yon stay friends you'll always have he what if. But if your in a relly and it doesn't work then you won't be as good friends 9/10 times.
I hope you make a good decision and are really happy whatever happens :)
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Will I get prettier as I grow up? I'm 14 right now and not exactly happy with my appearance. I don't think I'm absolutely ugly, but I don't think I'm pretty either.
I can't help but feel as if this is part of the reason my relationships don't last... like the guy always feels like he could do better.
So will my looks improve as I grow older and mature, or am I pretty much stuck with this?
Picture down there, by the way. Would probably be helpful.
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Sweetie you are beautiful! Firstly: I'm jealous of your hair and you have lovely dark eyes! As you get a bit older too your features will mature more too :) that can happen at any time for different people so I shouldnt worry about that.
If the guys are worth being in a relationship with then they shouldn't really care anyway, but I know how you feel! I get down sometimes about not having a boyfriend, but most of the time I enjoy bein single, it's so much less hassle for me right now! It's all the little things that you cant (or have to) do when youre in a relationship! I got out of a long term relationship about a year and a half ago and I have no intentions of getting back into one for a while!
Chin up sweetie :) xxxx
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