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My boyfriend pushes me into doing things. what should i do?
My boyfriend loves me and cares about me a lot. The other day we were hanging out and he sat on my chest and pulled down his pants, sticking his dick in my face. He wanted a blowjob but I had previously told him I didn't want to do that. Ive given him a handjob before and hes fingered me, but I don't like doing stuff so ive told him to stop before but some how we keep ending up doing sexual things. Should I break up with him since he promised me he would never push me into something I didn't want to do? Or do I give him another chance? 15/female
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When i was your age (maybe a year younger) i was in a 'relationship' with someone who treated just like you've described, except with me it was a case of him forcing me to be fingered. I didn't like it at all but i didn't do anything to stop it. I never thought of it as rape, but it actually is. Even if it's someone you like and are willing to do other things with!
I say, really think about what he's doing to you and how it makes you feel - if you're not happy doing it with him then i think it would make you unhappy with him?
Stay safe sweetie xxx
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Hunny I want to tell you something. He raped you, just because it was not sexual intercourse you told him no and he did it anyways and that is not right at all. Never let a man or anyone force you into doing something you dont want to do. You are 15 and have your whole life ahead of you.
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Hey there,
Okay you should NEVER let a guy pressure you into doing anything! No matter how much you may love or care for them. It's not right. If he really cared for you he would respect you and wait until you're ready. Not force himself on you and stick his penis in your face.
How do you know that if you give into all his sexual desires that is all he is after?
Don't demoralize yourself for him. If you don't want to do something you don't want to do it. Period. It's your body it's your decision.
If I were you I would break up with him. Since he obviously doesn't respect you enough to listen to you. You deserve better. Trust me I've been there done that.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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