Will I get prettier as I get older? Will I have more luck with love?
Question Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 4:17 pm
Will I get prettier as I grow up? I'm 14 right now and not exactly happy with my appearance. I don't think I'm absolutely ugly, but I don't think I'm pretty either.
I can't help but feel as if this is part of the reason my relationships don't last... like the guy always feels like he could do better.
So will my looks improve as I grow older and mature, or am I pretty much stuck with this?
Picture down there, by the way. Would probably be helpful.
If the guys are worth being in a relationship with then they shouldn't really care anyway, but I know how you feel! I get down sometimes about not having a boyfriend, but most of the time I enjoy bein single, it's so much less hassle for me right now! It's all the little things that you cant (or have to) do when youre in a relationship! I got out of a long term relationship about a year and a half ago and I have no intentions of getting back into one for a while!
NinjaNeer answered Thursday January 19 2012, 8:32 pm: First off, you're already adorable, so don't worry about that.
At age 14, nobody is happy with how they look. It comes with the territory of being a teenager. The great thing is that even awkward or unattractive people tend to come into their own as they get older. You learn how to carry yourself better and you gain confidence.
Another thing: if a guy leaves you because he thinks he can date someone more attractive, you're getting the better end of the deal. What happens if you end up marrying a guy that shallow? Will he leave you when you hit 50 because you're too old and ugly? Good relationships aren't based entirely on looks. Any guy who's shallow enough to make that sort of a decision on that basis is not worth your time. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
Xui answered Thursday January 19 2012, 7:41 pm: I don't know what you are talking about, You are already a very pretty girl. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
latinheart answered Thursday January 19 2012, 7:05 pm: people will love you for who you are,and looks aint everything all it does gets you in trouble or someone will be jelous of you looks you want someone to except you for whom are, try useing the real you whats in your heart and mind people like and sometimes love others for who they are not for how they look..if your pretty now you can determin if u want to stay pretty...if people like you for who you are dont worry how you look should complain if someone likes what they see then your all good ..Take care [ latinheart's advice column | Ask latinheart A Question ]
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