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Can I be forgiven?
Ok, I had my first boyfriend about 3 and a half years ago. We were purely a 'hugging' couple, never even kissed. I left the country for a month then we met up again the weekend before school started and everything was fine. On the very first day of school, he barely looked or talked to me. He broke up with me 3 weeks later. I wasn't upset, just a little put out, but I accepted the fact. A year later, he started liking me again (infuriating me) but stupidly, I asked him if he wanted to go out again. The second time around was far more physical and I began to lose interest steadily. The day after he told me he loved me, he found out I was losing interest and confronted me about it. It was then we broke up. He took it really hard, even told me he contemplated stepping in front of a train.
I went away for a year after this and when I saw him again, he seemed fine, was able to talk to me normally and everything. However, because of that pain I caused, I can never see myself in a relationship again. Help? (Sorry for the novel-like question, just want all the facts there :))
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You need to forgive yourself. Yes you may have caused pain, but pain comes with the truth. It's okay to be single, but don't give up on love. Forgive yourself and keep searching for your Mr. Right.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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You are wasting your time with this guy. Allowing yourself to keep crawling back to him is going to prolong your pain. You hurt because you have not given yourself time to get over him. Sometimes in order to move on you need to keep your distance from them. Focus on you and find someone better
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