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12 year old met guy on facebook and he keeps changing his age?
ok so I'm a 12 year old girl and I met this guy on facebook he said he's 13 and we never met but ya he started like talking to me sexualy but then he said he's 15 and I didn't mind and he got my number and asked for naked pix and I sent them well after a while he said he's 18 and stil I didn't mind and he started sending me pix and stuff and he said he's 20 then 25 and now he wants to meet up but I'm scared he's older and say now he's like a really old perve and rapes me ! Flip I'm scared must I go and trust his age? How do I know how old he really is?
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You're young and you like to talk to people on the internet. There nothing wrong with that. But when somebody keeps changing their age, doesn't have a proper profile pic, and/or asks you for naked pics, then there is a huge problem. Sending naked pictures to anybody is called "Sexting" and is illegal for minors. It's worse when it's between a minor and an adult. You should be scared that this guy wants to meet you because chances are he is a pedophile. DO NOT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE! BLOCK HIS NUMBER! If he keeps finding ways to talk to you, then you need to tell an adult and call the police. You never give your age, name, location, and/or phone number to a complete stranger on the internet. And to answer your question, you'll never know how old he is because he changed his age five times and will probably keep changing it. He keeps changing his age because his goal was to get all the information he could about you without revealing a thing about himself. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU TALK TO ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE EVERYONE IS NOT WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE! If you meet someone at school and they give you their facebook page, then you know it's safe because you saw the person in real life. Next time be careful who you talk to.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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You NEVER EVER send photo's of yourself to people you do not know. Even if they send you a photo or claim to be a certain age. I am now convinced that this man is a pedophile looking to nab young girls off the internet. I can't begin to tell you how many sick and perverted people use facebook as a target. I am not trying to scare you but your photo you've sent will probably be seen by many many people and not just the person you were hoping it would go too. Yes, You should be a bit nervous but here is how you handle the situation.
You need to contact Facebook and let them know what this guy has done.
You can do this Here:
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Second: You must let you parents know that you are being harassed through facebook. Be upfront and honest with them, You tell them you gave them your photo and phone number. It's a hell of a lot better to face the consequences from your parents then to risk your own safety.
You NEED to change your phone number, That number COULD go to many many other perverts or even worse get leaked onto the internet in the wrong places.
You NEED to set your privacy settings on facebook so that ONLY people you know can contact you. Also BLOCK him do not reply to his messages or even phone calls. You can block him by going to his facebook and under "message" it will say block. Next, I would also warn all your friends on facebook so that they can be safe as well and won't try to target you through friends.
You can do this here: Log into facebook and go to "Account" upper right hand corner and click the privacy settings. If you do not understand how to do this then have an adult help you with it.
This is a lesson, Please do NOT do it again. You just put yourself in danger.
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ok hunny leave him seriously he is lying NEVER MEET OR TALK TO PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW he WILL ruin your life ;0
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First never ever send anyone naked pictures of yourself. First: It is unlawful Even for someone your age to do so. Second: It is unlwaful for someone his age, whatever his age may be, to be in posession of child pornography, which is what they are. THIRD: You have lost all control of those pictures. He can post them on any website he pleases for all to see and there is very little you can do about it.
DO NOT GO AND MEET HIM. HE IS PROBABLY A CHILD MOLESTER OR PERVERT. DO NOT HAVE ANY FURTHER CONTACT WITH HIM, UNFRIEND HIM. NEXT TELL YOUR PARENTS, THIS IS SOMETHING YOU MUST DO SO THEY CAN CALL THE POLICE AND WORK WITH THE PEOPLE OF FACEBOOK TO TRACK HIM DOWN.
I am old enough to be your grandfather so please listen to me. Yes you made a mistake. Yes your parents are going to be upset and they may punish you. This is far better than the possible alternative.
On the plus side for you is the fact that you were scared enough to ask some one if this is wrong. I answered you and I am telling you it is. Meeting him would put you in danger. There are a lot of perverts who lurk on social websites like this website to try and atract young socially immature girls like you.
While it is possible this is a boy just being stupid you cannot take that chance. It is a police matter now, one that requires you and your parents to report this. If he is 13 or 15 he is going to learn a hard lesson. If he is 20 or 25 you will be keeping other girls from being seriously hurt or worse.
So please do the right thing. DON'T FEAR YOUR PARENTS ANGER. YOU WERE WRONG BUT YOU ARE SAFE AND THAT IS WHAT COUNTS. LET THEM CALL THE POLICE AND GET THIS GUY OFF FACEBOOK AND PROPERLY PUNISHED BEFORE HE HURTS SOME GIRL.
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How did 18 not bother you? And why did you send pictures to him, even when you knew he lied?
Now, you must not meet this fellow. Even if he is 25, this will make him a pedophile and a sex offender. You are very right: he may well probably rape you.
You must stop speaking to him as soon as possible. You must also tell your parents as soon as possible. Tell them to tell the police. You may not want to, but what if he actually meets an underage girl one day? And rapes her? What if she dies? You must tell the police to ensure they lock him up.
This is the only option. Of course, delete him from facebook. But more importantly, tell you parents! Don't be embarrassed, or ashamed. The slight embarrassment will be outweighed by possibly saving someone else.
Good luck! Let me know what you do!
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