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Should I talk to her about this ?
I'm 18/m.Now it's been almost 10 months for me an ma girl's relationship.During this 9 months we've gone so far.In the sense we've got really close to each other.She is an attractive nice girl.So there are a lot of guys who is coming after her.Since we started going out 6 or 7 guys have asked her out.And even few of the know that she is not single.Once I logged in to her FB account and she has been talking to a lot of guys.I really trust her.But then y'day when we were talking she was like 'this guy told me that I've a nice figure and an ass'.This guy has been flirting with her.After all she is a girl.And she is not single.I have never told her anything when it come to other guys.But now I'm a little bit upset with her policy about the other guys.I'm clueless.But I know she loves me a lot.But that has been bothering me.
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Alrighty. A relationship is nothing without trust. Always remember that. Anyways, it seems that maybe she commented the "This guy told me that I have a nice figure and an ass" just to trigger something out of you. Maybe she thinks you don't care? I don't know her so it's kind of hard to tell but a few women like to tease their guys, make them remember that if they don't take care of them, someone else will. Or maybe she just wants to feel like you're jealous, some girls really like it when their partners get jealous for the simple reason that they feel wanted.Whatever the case may be, always be truthful and straight up! Best of luck [:
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It really hurts to go through something like this. I believe you should have a frank talk with her about it. If the flirting really gets to you, then she should stop it. You need to feel that she loves only you, and won't ever betray you.
Don't feel guilty for what you feel, I would feel the same. Open communication and trust is the key to a good relationship.
Good luck and take care :)
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Let her know the truth about how you feel. The key to every good relationship is trust and honesty.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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