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how do they work exactly? i heard two diferent stories. one is:
1st: makeout
2nd: fingering and handjobs
3rd: oral
homerun/4th: sex

and i also heard
1st: makeout
2nd: feeling up eachother, just like boobs and ass.
3rd: oral or hands
4th/homerun: sex

can someone help me out with the truth of the bases?

as far as i no, these are the bases:

1st..Making out & feeling up.
2nd..Fingering and Handjobs [some people include feeling up here.]
3rd..Oral.[blowjobs,head,eating out,etc]
4th..Sex.

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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32

really, none of us on here can answer this question. but. im gonna try to help here.first, you have to answer yourself a few questions. do you love him? whats do YOU want? sometimes, you have to do things for yourself. if you are unhappy, then why stay? i no some other people on here may disagree with me, but this is my opinion. but i no you love your kids, and thats why youre doubting, so just make sure that whatever you do, just make sure that they are happy to. try to work a deal out with their father, such as having a day where you can all get together and just have funn.good luck with whatever you decide. i no you`ll figyre something out. =]

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well there`s this boy in my class and he acts like he likes me and everything but not he has a girlfriend, and i don`t know. I just thought that he liked me, but I guess not, I`m trying to get over him, but I can`t. What should i do? P.S: his girlfriend is mad ugly for him

dealing with a crush having a g/f is hard. im going through it right now, so i no how you feel. ive found that the best way to get over a crush, is to saty friends with them!! no matter what you do, you dont want to lose him. so hold on tight.mae sure you are nice to him and his g/f tho, even if you think they arent good together.you never no, alot of times the always come around and realize who they should b with. so dont worry, im sure youll get your turn. and if hes really that great, hes worth waiting for. good luck hun! =]

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So I like this kid.
He has a girlfriend now, but we used to have a thing during the summer.
We are friends and all but like in front of his friends he's mean to me.. etc.
But I noticed that on days that i look pretty , he is less mean to me and tries to be around more
and he'll talk to me on online that day and try and find reasons to talk to me [online].
I dont mind this because i love talking to him but why is this?

ps. one time he even sat with me on the bus, and that was a day where i probably looked the best.

pss, im not trying to sound stuckup , im not very pretty lol.

honestly,this kid sounds like a real jerk.but i no how you feel.ive dealt with enough of them.guys have two sides to them.they have the "have to b cool infront of his friends" side. but they also have the "sensitive like to talk to girls" side.i dont think he has anything against you, but guys find it hard to b nice to girls in front of their friends.but if he only talks to you when u look pretty,well,idk if he's a keeper.but the answer to your question now.he acts like this because hes a guy, and all guys act that way.if this guys not nice to you tho,hun, you need to find yourself someone who likes you for you, and wont treat you differently around other people.and dont worry,the right guy will come.good luck sweetie! =]

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15/f

okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.

he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.

whoa that sounds harsh please help!

o wow. tell me about it ! i have had this happen so many times. guys that i have no interest in what-so-ever always ask me out. this is what i do, and it seems to work pretty well.you can just straight out so that u arent interested. or, you could b nicer and go with the "just want to be friends" technique. i no it sounds dorky, but if you word it the right way, it doesnt make you seem like the bad guy.tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship with him if it didnt work out in the long run.also,try telling him that you only want to be friends because you dont have any feelings for him.but no matter what, make sure you are honest with him. i no all of this sounds really "chicken soup for the soulish," but believe me. it works.and just a tip. make sure that after you let him down, that you dont completely blow him off. give him a little while to get over you.=]

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