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OMG- My Bf
I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much
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whaaat? your BOYFRIEND kissin another guy? just DUMP him. easy as that. i wouldnt kiss my boyfriend if his lips've been on another guy's mouth. i know regular couples always give each other a chance but you've seen what you saw and what you saw was the truth riight? what other explanation can be an exception to THAT?
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confrount him.. how else are you going to find out =] i hope everythign works out for the best :/
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It's not gross. Being gay or bi is apart of life, so all the other people who answered this question need to GETOVERIT. Anyways, confront him, and tell him how you feel. He cheated on you, so just talk to him about it. Forgive him, but don't take him back. Cheating is cheating. GUY or GIRL.
&TiNA;
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This sounds like the opening scene to a funny comedy.
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ugh, that is just gross. You should confront him cause you can't act like nothing happened. if was in that situation I would confront him no matter what.
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Well, of course you should confront him!! He cheated on you, and even worse with a guy. Confront him casually, you know don't be all in his face about it. Just listen to his explaination.
xokellyox
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Yes you got to confront him and find if he is keeping stuff from you....because that just is not right....You need to find out what is up and tell him how u feel...let him know that your mad!
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Confront him as if you just saw him doing it. Forgive him (if only inside), but never, EVER take him back.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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Confront him just as if you saw him kissing another girl. Who cares if it's a guy OR a girl? He still cheated on you and deceived you! Don't focus on the fact that it was a guy because then he won't see what he REALLY did wrong- which is that he lied and hurt you either way.
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hey yes talk to him. thats kinda gross. let him know that you saw it. cait ♥
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Yeah! That's too weird .. tell him you saw him at the mall and see what he says. See if he gets uncomfortable and then try to get it out of him and tell you. If he doesn't tell you then tell him what you saw and how much it hurt you to see him doing that. I would probably break up with him .. but at least talk to him about it first.
-mystical_breeze
XOXO
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Eww. Confront him andlet him know you saw and how you feel/felt.
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Jessx33
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I would definitely speak to your boyfriend about what you saw. This is a major breach of trust. Even if the person is the same sex, it's still cheating. While he may have just been experimenting, he should be doing that while he's single, not while he's in a committed relationship.
If you're sexually active with him, you may also want to get tested for STDs. This may have been the first time he's cheated, but you don't know for sure. It's better to be safe.
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So wait, lemme get this straight.
YOU saw YOUR BOYFRIEND kissing ANOTHER GUY at the mall?? And your asking US if you should CONFRONT HIM?!
Yes. You should. It`s just as bad as him kissing another girl. It doesn`t matter. Just talk to him about it. But don`t be like "WATT DA *BLEEP*!?!?" and start snapping your fingers at him and wobbling your neck. Unessaccery. He might get a little embarrassed, but just casually tell him that you would respect whatever he has to say. Be open-minded if he is gay.
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Well he is probably confused right now.
But that's not an excuse for what he did.
He was still kissing someone other than you, regardless if it was a boy or girl. You should defiantly confront him.
-Jake
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You should totally confront him!
If it was me I would not only accuse him of cheating on me but the fact that he cheated with another guy! That just shows how irresponsible he is and untrustworthy.
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wow! that's a difficult situation espically since it is another guy! maybe you should invite him over and try and talk to him but don't accuse him of anything (maybe that guy came on to him you never know.) maybe he had given the guy mixed signals and the other guy thought that he wanted him. or since in this day in age girls makeout with girls (since they are curious) maybe thats what they were doing and saw nothing wrong with it. i hope that everything works out for you!
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YES you should confront him. You can't just hold it all inside and hope that it goes away.
If I were you I would dump him because he cheated on you.
That shows he isn't trust worthy.
Not to mention that he cheated on you with a guy.
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