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Gender: Male
Location: usa
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Age: 13
Member Since: February 20, 2006
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Last Update: March 19, 2006
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But see the thing is is that i stil miss him and like all these people are convincing me to get over him well tryin to convince me but idk why he is always in my mind!! i want to forget that it all happened but then again i dont want to ever forget the promise because he may remember it (link)
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Just always remember the promise.....but while your at it you can go for other people.....it wont hurt!
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Me and this guy named Mike we used to be like really close i mean like so close that we should have dated but we lived about a halkf hour away and being 13 we couldnt see each other so we agreed that when we turned 16 we would go out! I was so happy for the moment but when he liked this other girl i stood beside him while he asked her out got turned down and he cam running back to me! But then he asked this ither girls out and of course i stood beside him all the way well they broke up 3 days later and he came back to me! Well just this past week he had a new flame and she didnt want anything to do with him so when he came running back to me i was tired of stayin by hs side so i didnt take him back and now he is always tryin to talk to me but i act like i have changed.....But i want to know if i did the right thing? What if this time he wouldnt do that?? What if he is realllly the right one?? Please help me out (link)
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Yes, i think you did the right thing.....this guy will know the right thing to do........and you will get him...trust me!
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My boyfriend is way too clingy! he is driving me and my family crazy! Every night he calls me at least 30 times and if I don't pick up he keeps calling and leaving me annoying messages! All he thinks about is me, and I'm not even sure he actually has any friends. I tell him NOT to call sometimes and he does anyways, so I have to unplug the phone because it bothers my family alot. I like him, but man, he needs to stop being so clingy.
What can I do? // How can I set him straight? He never listens to me, so what should I say? Should I break up with him? (link)
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Ok well this will just mess you up....get out of it ASAP.....he will make you depressed and all of that junk........you will get more with breaking up then u would with staying with him!
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hello fellow advicenators :]
i haev a lyric question. ive noticed in a lot of aim profiles and aim icons, a saying. and the saying is: "There's beauty in teh break-down"
and i realllyyy need to know what song that is from! If anyone can tell me the title & the artist ill be SO happy! will rate! (link)
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Frou Frou - Let Go
Great song i love it!!!
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How do you tell your best friend you're moving? (link)
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Just tell her that you are moving away but you will stay in touch with her via.email phone etc. and that you will never forget her and will hopefully see her again!
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I like two people. :( They happen to show interest in me as well. But I don't know who to choose. They both are great (link)
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Well you could spend time with them independently and see which one you like better....if you dont wanna do that just keep waiting until one of them doesnt like you anymore....it will happen soon!
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ohkay, so im like a reeeaalllly slow runner when it comes to ... running? i get 12 minutes on my miles and i dont know what im doing wrong. i weigh 110lbs. im not fat but not stickly skinny. can anyone tell me how i can run faster and make it easier for me to run without getting tired? (link)
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You need to eat healthy and exercise more!!! thats why yuour gettin tired cuz ur outa shape.
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Me and this guy have been best friends for like 3 years and we were really really close and i trusted him with everything. In 6th grade we went out but it was ntohign big or anything we lasted about a month. I went out with other people but in the middle of 7th grade i really started to believe that I loved him.. truely loved him. I told some of my "girlfriends" but I kept my feelings from him for a long time. Finally, he put me in the posistion where I had to tell him so I told him I loved him. For about a week we didn't talk but he said he was happy I told him. The next week he ended up with a gf who is my good friend. I never did anything wrong and he told other people that he hated me and he was never goign to talk to me again. This really hurts me becuase not only am i losing the love of my life but the best friend I ever had. What do I do??
I RATE 5's if you answered for reading all of this. (link)
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Ok well you need to have a talk with him....ask him why he said that stuff and if it was true...maybe he just isnt ready....you could give him some time, tell him that you want to be his best friend again, that you will wait til he his ready.
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I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much (link)
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Yes you got to confront him and find if he is keeping stuff from you....because that just is not right....You need to find out what is up and tell him how u feel...let him know that your mad!
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Last night I found out a friend of mine, whom I haven't really spoken to in awhile, has been diagnosed with cancer and might die. He's left college to live with his parents so he can get treatment and I'd like to write him a letter of support but what do I say? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and I don't want to be morbid, but I do want him to know that I care about him and wish him all the best. (link)
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yes this has happeneed to me only it was my brothers.....tell him that you heard bout his situations and that you are really sorry....that you will pray for him everyday and that he cant give up and keep tryin and if he sticks to it he will kill the cancer.
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Okay.. so I'm not exactly sure where to start..So I'll just tell a little from the past and mostly from this year.. 7th grade I started to become moody, easily irritated, and less social. Mind you, I'm very shy, So I've never been too social my whole life. Maybe going a few places here and there, But I just didn't want to go anywhere anymore. I started cutting, I stopped eating because I became self-conscious over my weight, Then at the end of the year I started cutting even more, and I always thought about death. 8th grade I became even more less social, but I stopped cutting during the middle of the year. I lost my friends a few times because of rumors, & lies. So I became even more upset. Then I started not to care, and nothing really bothered me anymore. My grades did go up a bit, and I wasn't cutting, I had stopped taking so much pills, I even tried to become closer with my family. Now, I've become more upset than ever. I pretend I'm happy when I'm really not, and I can't even sleep anymore. I probably get about 3 hours of sleep a week. I'm still self-conscious about my weight so I haven't been eating, my hairs been falling out, and I don't even come out of my room anymore. I've tried asking my mom to take me to the doctor, or to a therapist, but she just won't do it. I sit in my room for hours at a time, Just sitting there staring at the wall and thinking about what it'd be like if I wasn't here. Because of a silly rumor, I'm farther away from the best friend I've had since 4th grade, So now I don't even talk. I constantly think somebody's mad at me even when I haven't even done anything. My dad is continuously downrating me, I've been exhausted, mentally and physically and my grades are dropping from a 3.0 to a .5. I don't know what to do, I've asked to get help but my mom just won't let me, and I have no other way of getting it. I'm suffering from withdrawal from the pills and it's driving me crazy. I'm tempted to go back to use them, and I've even considered overdosing on them. It just feels like nobody cares how I'm feeling. They always try and help everyone else but they just leave me hanging. I've always helped and been there for my friends. It just feels like I'm trapped in something that I'll never be able to get out of. I just don't know what to do.Everyday I get these panic attacks and I just break down crying and screaming, sometimes I even abuse myself. I want to stop but I can't, It just doesn't go away.
-Sorry for this being so long. (link)
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Well i advise you to talk to your school counselor....or call one of them suicidal hotlines because tone of them will really help....just keep hangin on and dont let go..
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Okay well i have this guy friend that likes this other girls friend and this girl friend doesnt like this guy friend and this guy friend wants me to tell this girl friend that he likes her but she doesnt like him anymore and they never talk. Sooo what should i do? (link)
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just tell her that someone has feelings for her but tell the guy that she doesnt like him.....and he should respect that answer.
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i've recently come to terms with the fact that i'm bi. a few of my friends know, but some of my closest ones don't. i think i'm ready to tell them, but i have no idea how to bring it up or how much to tell them. also, the reason they don't know yet is because these are the friends whose reactions i'm having the hardest time predicting (they're girls, by the way). i know that they love me and that if they're as mature as they seem and they realize we're living in the 21st century they should be able to handle it, but i really don't want them to be uncomfortable around me. i really want to be open with them and comfortable with myself and not hide anything, but i'd almost rather not tell them than risk our relationship changing. this is probably the typical cliche question, but i'm mostly asking how to go about telling them and where to stop rambling (ie: ...and it doesn't mean i check out every girl i see and no i don't like you and yes sleepovers are safe and...). eesh this is getting kind of long...just one more thing: two of the friends have a class with me at school, and in that class is the girl i happen to have a crush on. so part of my question is also whether i should just tell them i'm bi, or tell them i have a crush on a girl (i know you can figure out #1 from #2, but i don't know if it's better to give them a general idea or what).
thank you so much for the 5 hours of your time that you just gave reading this, and thanks in advance for your answer! (link)
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Just tell them that you are bi but that if they are true friends it shouldnt affect ur friendship.....and they can feel comfortable around you and that you wont make moves on them ora nything and just talk to them bout it.
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Is it normal to be this paranoid? Like, I always close the window and watch my back because I think there's a camera or even a person watching me. But the thing that happens almost 24/7 is that when I write something personal, like a diary entry or something along those lines, I think someone's going to find it, read it, let everyone know about it, and ruin my life if I keep it around. If I put this stuff on the internet, I think someone I know will find it and do the same thing, or use it for blackmail. Is it normal to be paranoid like this? Is this even called paranoia? (link)
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i feel this way sometimes and i have a friend that is just like you......you just have to try and think of yourself in a good place where noone can hurt you.....if that doesnt work you need to go to a paranoia doctor to get you calmed down.
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Oh Jesus. The other night I did some stuff that was kind of close to cheating on my boyfriend at a concert. He found out and got really mad. At first he was mad because I was denying it. Finally I couldn't help it and told him what I did. And he cried and took it real bad. Now he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll cheat on him. How do I get his trust back? (link)
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Just try and become more closer to him.....show him a good time and show him that he can trust you....you shouldnt have done that in the first place but u cant change the past.
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i met my my man about 10 months ago, and things between us love-wise couldnt be better. no guy has ever treated me as good as he does, and i cant say ive ever been this happy before. he would, and does do anything in the world for me. and i love him with all my heart. our families are really close, and have been since WAY before we were both born. we've got so many things in common, and we plan on getting married in a few years. but he's been doing horrible in school, and although i do give him credit for occassionally getting a 'C' or a 'D' instead of an 'F'- he got his progress reports back, and they were HORRIBLE!- his parents are taking away his car, and are making him quit his job in the hopes that maybe he'll get his act together. i cant take it anymore! i have tried SOOOO hard to talk some sense into him. ive tried telling him that he's ruining 'our' future by getting bad grades. i ask him all the time what kind of job he expects on landing with grades as bad as they are, and he ALWAYS tells me he's trying, but that he doesnt wanna talk about it- and every progress report is no much better than the last. i really dont know what to do. his mother is forever telling him that im gonna leave him if he doesnt get it together, because i can do 'so much better'- and im getting curious as to if i really can. someone PLEASE tell me what to do. both male and female opinions would help on this one. thank you soooo much. i'll rate high on ALL ANSWERS- good or bad. (link)
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You should help him with his studies and if u really do like him you will stay with him and hope he gets better grades........i know tons of people like this and if u just help him with his work he will be better.
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k so i've had a major crush on this guy brian but his best friend davis has a crush on me and now its ruining everything... its like a competition because i'm pretty sure my crush likes me too, i wish davis didn't like me and wouldn't care about me and brian.. haha so basically i don't even know what to ask besides how do i fix the problem?
this is a really hard question i know but seriously ANY advice is worth hearing
*i'm a 15 yr old girl if that matters (link)
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Well i would talk with Davis and tell him that you have liked Brian and that this should not ruin there friendship, cuz if he was a true friend he would respect this.....cuz i have gone through this too.
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