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I like two people. :( They happen to show interest in me as well. But I don't know who to choose. They both are great <3 What could I do to help me decide? But I don't really want to hurt either of them...
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There are a couple of ways to deal with this sort of problem.
You need to sit down and have a really good long think about each of these people. Think about their pros and their cons. Which one would you prefer to spend time with? Is there a particular one who gives you a tingle down your spine? Maybe you have less in common with one than the other. When all that is said and done. Throw it all away and go with gut instinct. When it comes to matters of the heart, you can only let your brain get involved to a certain degree before it messes things up. After thinking about all of that, you should have a better idea which one you would rather be with.
If you can't decide, there's always the other option. Don't date either of them. I know it's not such a great prospect to you but if there's a possibility you will hurt one by going out with the other, it may be better to leave the situation alone and go after someone else. This also will avoid the situation of worrying what it might have been like, had you chosen the other.
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Well. This is how you decide. You take out the fact that your going to hurt one of them. You take away the fact of feeling bad and everything else and you say to yourself. Who has the potential to last with me. Who do I like the most, and who could I see myself being with for a while. That should eliminate it down. Basically, its who your the most comfortable with, who you can talk to the most, whos more trustworthy. FOrget about hurting them and do what you want to do, then do it. =D
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Well someone's gonna get hurt in this sitution. but if you're not certain that they like you. you should first find out which one likes you. if they both do then i guess you have to ask around and see which one if a better boyfriend and see if they've ever cheated and stuff like that
i hope i helped?
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Which one makes you smile the most?
Which one makes you most happy?
Which one do you think about the most?
Which one do you think would have a longer lasting relationship with you?
Think about the answers to these questions.
You will soon come to a conclusion.
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Maybe make a list of the good stuff of each of them and then a list of bad things and whoever has the most good stuff keep.. Go for the better guy [Not by looks tho] ♥Dez
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I would go for the one with a better chance of being successful.
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well, it's hard cuase you can't have both... unless. No that wouldn't work, like shopping you cokmpare prices, try and compare and contrast the two people of what arouse youre interests. also remember that if you plan to stay with them, its usualy the things you like about him/her you will end up fighting about in the future. Hope it helps, and good luck
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Well you could spend time with them independently and see which one you like better....if you dont wanna do that just keep waiting until one of them doesnt like you anymore....it will happen soon!
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