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messed up w/ my best friend
13/f
Me and this guy have been best friends for like 3 years and we were really really close and i trusted him with everything. In 6th grade we went out but it was ntohign big or anything we lasted about a month. I went out with other people but in the middle of 7th grade i really started to believe that I loved him.. truely loved him. I told some of my "girlfriends" but I kept my feelings from him for a long time. Finally, he put me in the posistion where I had to tell him so I told him I loved him. For about a week we didn't talk but he said he was happy I told him. The next week he ended up with a gf who is my good friend. I never did anything wrong and he told other people that he hated me and he was never goign to talk to me again. This really hurts me becuase not only am i losing the love of my life but the best friend I ever had. What do I do??
I RATE 5's if you answered for reading all of this.
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If you didn't do anything wrong, I don't see what his problem is. Just talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't care whether he likes you back or not, if he just wants to keep it as friends, let him know that's ok with you, you just want your best friend back. Just make sure he knows there is no pressure on him for a relationship that is more than a friend. Even if you like him, if you like his friendship more, than you'll have to try and talk to him. If he accepts your friendship again, that's great but if he doesn't, I don't see what else you can do.
Good luck, I hope your best friend understands,
------>Maureen
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I'm very sorry with what your going through.I don't see how he would say that stuff about and how he would never talk to you EVER again if somthing didn't happen that you might not be telling us in your question.I don't know but tel him "Why are you acting like this you wnated to know how i fealt to you and i told you but then you end up hating me.I don't get it why are you doing this your my best even after this."
but if your in 7th grade i dont think you LOVE him i think you have a very strong crush on him.i don't see why you told him though i would have been so embaristed.it tells me that you don't care what other people think and that's great.but now you care what he think and try to either emprove your slef maybe to what he likes which you should never do not that you said anythign about this.but if you dont care what other people think and just him stand up for what really happend that night and see how it goes.....
xoxo
love ya,
tootsierollsweet999
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Well.....
This situation sounds like a bad case of Male ego.
If you want my advice, i say SCREW HIM! most guys i know can be complete Ass whips, when they find out that some chick has a crush or in your case "in love" with them. There are thousands of great men out there, and you really dont need This guy. If i were you i would start dating and forget about him. I bet in less than a month, (when he realizes that you have moved on) he will be on his hands and knees begging you to go out with him.
Try something new, prettend that you don't care for him in front of his friends or people he talks to, sooner or later he will find out, and when he does believe me he's going to dump this girl he is with just to try to sweep you up. lol
NO worrys
like i say "there are lots of fish in the sea" you will find one thats right for you.
Keep it Sweet
Tazzy
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Ok well you need to have a talk with him....ask him why he said that stuff and if it was true...maybe he just isnt ready....you could give him some time, tell him that you want to be his best friend again, that you will wait til he his ready.
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he was probably taken back that you loved him. i mean, maybe he thinks he's too young because he's probably around your age. don't get me wrong, it's good that you told him. i think it was mean of your friend to do that to you. she is your friend isn't she?? that's not how you treat a friend. if she's really going to do that, is she worth it?? i don't think so. i think you should try giving some other guys chances while they're dating. it doesn't mean you have to fall in love with someone else. juss try to take your mind off of it. put it this way, if you guys are suppose to be together you will be.
-hope that helped!♥
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