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my crush and his best friend...
k so i've had a major crush on this guy brian but his best friend davis has a crush on me and now its ruining everything... its like a competition because i'm pretty sure my crush likes me too, i wish davis didn't like me and wouldn't care about me and brian.. haha so basically i don't even know what to ask besides how do i fix the problem?
this is a really hard question i know but seriously ANY advice is worth hearing
*i'm a 15 yr old girl if that matters
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Have you told Davis that you don't feel the same? It seems to me that perhaps he's not sure over this and that may be why this competition is going on between the two of them. What you really need to do is to clear the air between yourself and the both of them.
It doens't matter too much in what order you do this but you need to tell Brian that you like him and was wondering if he wanted to go out with you. If he says yes, you also need to explain your concerns over Davis, so that he is aware of the situation if he isn't already.
You also need to speak to Davis and make it clear to him that you see him as a friend but not as anything more. Do NOT tell him that you like Brian at this point, unless Brian agrees to go out with you before this conversation takes place, in which case it's better that he hears it from you than someone else. Explain to him that he's a nice guy but there's no chemistry and he needs to find himself a girl who really will care about him.
If you can explain it to him clearly enough, he should understand and back off, if he's a nice guy, leaving you with Brian.
Good luck!
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hey um tell davis that you wnt to just be friends. nothing more nothing less. aslo maybe talk to brian about your relationship with him. make sure he wants to go further then friends before you make a move or anything. cait ♥
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Just tell Davis that you don't like him in that way. Tell him you like him as a freind but you like Brian and you don't want to ruin the freindly relationship between you and Davis. If he doesn't understand, then just forget him. You need to follow your heart and not someone elses.
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Talk to Davis, explain that you know he likes you but you wanna just be mates. Then let that set a bit. Then move in on Brian. If you like him you shouldnt sacrifice your self just because someone else likes you. Try not to make the situation messy. Be careful and best of luck xxxx
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umm well in this situation there are many different solutions that would REALLY help you. Well 1 thing you could do would be to wait for one of them to like you or wait until you get over Brian (maybe you wont)
You could also talk to Brian because if you think he likes you and you like him then you should let him know because if he is friends with davis he should be able to handle it
Kate&love&hearts
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Well i would talk with Davis and tell him that you have liked Brian and that this should not ruin there friendship, cuz if he was a true friend he would respect this.....cuz i have gone through this too.
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I'd just tell them you don't want to break up thier friendship.
Say it in a pouty voice. You'll have plenty of time for them later on when one of them loses thier crush on you.
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