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how do i take a chance?
hes been my best friend since school started.. now he seems more than a friend..he sends me sweet text messages and IMs but at school its not like that.. he only shows the way he feels through written words but he totally has me in a way nobody has made me feel before, he's my date to my banquet next week
i want so bad to be his girlfriend how do i show him without words that i like him? how do i get him to feel more comfortable in person instead of the computer and talking on the phone? i sound like a complete dork i know but i've been crazy for this guy even before we were best friends...
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I recommend writing your real feelings in words too- tell him you just don't understand why he won't try any of these things in person. Or after a sweet message write back and say "where is that in person?" lol... or next time before you part ways you could try for a hug or touch his shoulder- something suddle to start out with... and see where it leads!! Hope this helps and that you find what you're lookin for- TAKE CARE!!
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It's quite possible that he's just shy of showing that he likes you to your face. After all, it's easy to tell someone that you like them over a text message when they're not around and you don't have to deal with their reactions face to face. The very fact that he's your date to a banquet puts your chances with him in a very positive light.
If you want to show him without words, it's a little difficult without knowing you. However, perhaps when you go to the banquet with him, you can start off by holding hands and maybe when you leave, you can give him a kiss on the cheek and see where it goes. Maybe if there's dancing, you can slow dance with him but hold him tight while you do.
At the end of the day though, although actions speak louder than words, they're not always as clear and as men are not always as clued up on subtlety as we'd like, you could see if you can pluck up the courage to say that you have started having feelings for him and ask if there's any way he would consider being anything more than just your friend.
I wish you the best of luck!
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Kiss him at the banquet when he does something cute or nice.
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Your additional info doesn`t make a difference, lol. Not to be rude. :] I`ll still give advice to you though.
Anyways, since he`s going to be your date at your banquet[whateverr that is], then tell him you like[really like him] him when you guys are alone. Be yourself around him. Just act natural. If you don`t, then this means that you can`t really be with someone if you can`t be yourself with them. And you don`t want that right? Since you like this guy..ALOT. Talk to him like you would talk to him on the phone. Your just making this situation harder than it`s suppose to be. You just need to be yourself. And don`t act shy. Be confident. :]
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